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Originally Posted by pmdelites
on a related note, what do you guys thinks about when taking your provider of the morning, noon, or night out to eat (mcdonalds or high end)? what do you do to lessen the risk of soneone you know spotting you there, worse coming over to you, talking w/ you, asking who your friend is, etc ??
over the years, i have taken one or two providers out to eat. i generally go in ahead of them to scan the place, pick a spot away from the door and even out of line of sight (like in the last booth w/ me sitting w/ my back to the restaurant), and hope for the best. sometimes we come up w/ a backstory - we used to work together, we volunteer at the same place, etc.
ever get "caught" while out w/ a provider??
what heppened? what were the consequences?
(it could be your "friend's" story :^}
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Been out to eat with 3 different providers, all comped by them, though on 2 occasions before or after a session at no additional charge.
Now that I think about it... One time the girl was visiting my city from out of town, so nobody in my city would have knew / recognized her. I guess someone could have recognized me, but I wouldn't give a shit as no one probes my romantic / sex life and I'm known to be single. I could just call her my friend or new girlfriend if that had happened.
2nd time the girl asked me before heading out not to hold hands with her or put my arm around her in public because she was worried about that scenario. We had a private dining table and area so it's not likely anyone other than the waitress could have seen us "together" and the owner of that restaurant knows me personally.
3rd time yeah, I guess that was kind of risky. But more so for her than me. Again, I'm known to be single, and not known to be a church goer, nor am I a prominent business person or politician in my city. She was "dating" a guy at the time she was a SW. Had he walked into the restaurant, could it have erupted into a fist fight? In theory yes, but I later grew to know this man personally, and I doubt that would have happened looking back on it.
The bigger the city the less likely that is to be a problem. Very large concentrations of people have many different options on where to go to eat on any given night of the week, or even stay home and cook. A small town is where you run into problems, as everyone tends to know everyone, and they mind each other's business. That and you've got a small amount of people with limited choices and where they can go and when. Hanging out with your provider in public in a small town could be asking for trouble. I've never lived in small towns, and never will...
