I'm in agreement with a lot of comments here. It really is a worshiplike activity/fantasy. I enjoy both giving DATY and of course receiving great head. For me it's SOOOO much better when I know the woman enjoys it too both giving and receiving. It can be like an out of body experience. My mood varies sometimes I prefer it more aggressive while other times more slow/sensual/teasing.
I would also classify it as a submissive/dominant activity as well. And the control can pass back and forth really. I know she's truely in control but sometimes gives me a little power to guide/direct or perhaps get a little aggressive. I've had the fortunate occasion of having a woman orgasm from giving me head...that is a MAJOR turnon!
I think your comments on SO are interesting as well. Unfortunately my SO simply has no interest in it at all and it is clearly a favorite for me. After 16 yrs of not getting really any head I couldn't take it anymore
Also for me CIM is key or variations on it
NS is nice but I'm not hung up on that part
We're like putty in your hands er...ah..mouth