ATTITUDES ARE EVERYTHING

[SweaterPuppies]

Originally Posted by dallastxbaby

Very true, Im always positive but after reading this thread I will try to be more.

Clearly.

[Guest070818-1]

Originally Posted by dallastxbaby

You fucking racist do not ever call me out of my name trying to degrade me wtf. I'm pretty sure this was bumped as thst is how I even ssw this thread what kind of bitch are you making fun of someone probably your kids age. Your a fucking predator.

Don't feed the trolls. Whilst there are a handful of good Hobbyists here on ECCIE, they is another good handful of men who make it a "Hobby" to post useless, negative, and stupid nonsense here.

[lily blake]

Originally Posted by brownsugarbaby

Don't feed the trolls. Whilst there are a handful of good Hobbyists here on ECCIE, they is another good handful of men who make it a "Hobby" to post useless, negative, and stupid nonsense here.

Thanks bsb the shark whatever coment just took me soo off guard I'm as offended as if he called me the N word. Ugh.

[SweaterPuppies]

You clearly don't know who Sharkeisha is, you need to relax and have a better attitude.

[NearHauteRed]

Originally Posted by brownsugarbaby

Don't feed the trolls. Whilst there are a handful of good Hobbyists here on ECCIE, they is another good handful of men who make it a "Hobby" to post useless, negative, and stupid nonsense here.

Very nice. I have been on this site a very long time, even though I just signed up recently, obviously, I could not see what is in private tags, ML or the ROS of reviews, but the co-ed discussions give a pretty good insight to the personas of this board.

To expand on the hobbyist members of the Dallas forum for a minute, IMO, you will find 3 clear types of them:

1). The good hobbyists, defined as the ones who obviously spend money on providers, treat the ladies and all others with the earned respect they deserve, provide intel on situations when they can but also are honest with their opinions in hobby related subjects, even though others may not agree.

2). The sometimes good, but try to fit in with the popular crowd hobbyists, defined as the ones who do see providers for sessions, but are also the ones who sometimes give good, constructive criticism to those who they think could use it and OTOH, also either tells someone they are FOS, with nothing to back up why they say that other than their own speculative theories or join in and kick a person when he is down so he can feel respected by his supposed peers.

3). The asshole troll hobbyists, defined as the ones who may or may not see providers for sessions, but are the ones who always seem to be in the middle of one of the multiple drama threads, mainly because they started the drama, even go so far as creating drama by hijacking a thread because someone they see as vulnerable to try to draw negative attention to because they do not like them. All they do is cut down, negate and generally try to screw with others, having a need to bait others to stoop to their level, and many times, the mods will only see the second punch thrown.

The different types of providers, not including BCD, well, that would be another thread!

[bored@home]

Originally Posted by dallastxbaby

Thanks bsb the shark whatever coment just took me soo off guard I'm as offended as if he called me the N word. Ugh.

Originally Posted by SweaterPuppies

You clearly don't know who Sharkeisha is, you need to relax and have a better attitude.

Just in case you want to know about "sharkeisha"...
http://www.thehollywoodgossip.com/videos/sharkeisha/

"SHARKEISHA NO!!!!" @ 41 seconds LOL

[L.A.]

Originally Posted by NearHauteRed

Very nice. I have been on this site a very long time, even though I just signed up recently, obviously, I could not see what is in private tags, ML or the ROS of reviews, but the co-ed discussions give a pretty good insight to the personas of this board.

To expand on the hobbyist members of the Dallas forum for a minute, IMO, you will find 3 clear types of them:

1). The good hobbyists, defined as the ones who obviously spend money on providers, treat the ladies and all others with the earned respect they deserve, provide intel on situations when they can but also are honest with their opinions in hobby related subjects, even though others may not agree.

2). The sometimes good, but try to fit in with the popular crowd hobbyists, defined as the ones who do see providers for sessions, but are also the ones who sometimes give good, constructive criticism to those who they think could use it and OTOH, also either tells someone they are FOS, with nothing to back up why they say that other than their own speculative theories or join in and kick a person when he is down so he can feel respected by his supposed peers.

3). The asshole troll hobbyists, defined as the ones who may or may not see providers for sessions, but are the ones who always seem to be in the middle of one of the multiple drama threads, mainly because they started the drama, even go so far as creating drama by hijacking a thread because someone they see as vulnerable to try to draw negative attention to because they do not like them. All they do is cut down, negate and generally try to screw with others, having a need to bait others to stoop to their level, and many times, the mods will only see the second punch thrown.

The different types of providers, not including BCD, well, that would be another thread!

What number do you see yourself categorized as?

[NearHauteRed]

Originally Posted by L.A.

What number do you see yourself categorized as?

As far as myself, I definitely am not looking to fit in with the popular crowd nor do I speculate FOS assumptive theories that have no proof whatsoever and state them as fact trying to get others on my side to think like that as well because I do not like someone, so #2 is out.

I will admit that a lot of threads that I post in or start become drama threads, but not because I want to start drama nor do I hijack threads to cut down someone with name calling or worse who posted on it as the sole purpose of the attack is I like to pick on someone that I presume to be an asshole or I just do not like them. Nor do I post images of bullshit sayings on a thread just because, so #3 is out as well.

I do have sessions with providers, but definitely do not review most of them and I do respect others, until they disrespect me. I also have tried to provide insight on a few providers that sent me on wild goose chases, and once again, got bashed for it each time. Like everyone else, I have opinions on hobby related subjects and it is fine if someone disagrees with me, actual discussion threads that can remain civil can be invigorating and sometimes helpful to know another person's POV. I am honest what I say is the truth and, unlike others that do not need to, I can/do provide proof of what I am talking about and still get thrown under the bus. If I am wrong about what I say, instead of calling someone names to make me feel better cuz they caught me doing something wrong, then I will admit it and sincerely.

What about you?

[VIP Mya Michelle]

Originally Posted by dallastxbaby

On another note I think the mya bashing has gone on too long. You would think she killed somebodys puppy I've never heard of men holding a grudge for so long over paid sex. This is suppose to be fun or escape reality maybe I'm wrong.

I appreciate you DTB

Don't worry, because I am not. People like sweater puppy who appear out of the blue have no influence. Everyone can tell by his "attitude" he obviously falls into a troll category. He obviously is a racist because he used a racist comment (using an unpronounceable name meant to mean you are ignorant and from an ignorant family who named you that; in replacement of the "N" word) AND as you can see people think that is funny. It's not the first racist comment you will read on this board and won't be the last, don't forget we probably have some die hard rednecks behind some of these anonymous entities just on here posting for the hell of it.

Originally Posted by SweaterPuppies

Yet you bump this thread, bringing it back into the spotlight. Thanks, Sharkeisha.

It is very easy to get disrespected on the internet, that's why you have to tread carefully and keep thick skin... in real life sure these guys don't act like this, I hope, and if they do they are probably sitting behind their screen insecure because they are missing more than a few teeth...

Originally Posted by brownsugarbaby

Don't feed the trolls. Whilst there are a handful of good Hobbyists here on ECCIE, they is another good handful of men who make it a "Hobby" to post useless, negative, and stupid nonsense here.

Originally Posted by dallastxbaby

Thanks bsb the shark whatever coment just took me soo off guard I'm as offended as if he called me the N word. Ugh.

I can never forget all of the good things that have come to me and will continue to come to me because I am a good person. I do maintain prestige and integrity in my service. I am a true humanitarian, I don't need to up lift myself by trying to be nasty to others, ESPCIALLY over the internet. I get my rocks off by making other feel great about themselves, as I feel about myself!

I mean you don't get flown to remarkable destinations by the same man whom can obviously afford any woman he wants yet picks the same one over and over to fly around the world for secrete rendezvous ... those opportunities don't happen and maintain themselves if you don't have a GREAT attitude and express your gratitude for being treated like a Queen.

So long as I have success in my REAL life... I'm not going to let the anonymous entities online tell me that I am not worthy, ugly, or anything else when I know who I am , how many compliments I get from people in the REAL world. I only take into consideration comments I get in REAL life from men who are actually paying for my time. Not some men who are mad because they can't even afford to hobby...

Originally Posted by NearHauteRed

3). The asshole troll hobbyists, defined as the ones who may or may not see providers for sessions, but are the ones who always seem to be in the middle of one of the multiple drama threads, mainly because they started the drama, even go so far as creating drama by hijacking a thread because someone they see as vulnerable to try to draw negative attention to because they do not like them. All they do is cut down, negate and generally try to screw with others, having a need to bait others to stoop to their level, and many times, the mods will only see the second punch thrown.

+1 you described the trolls to a "T"

[Guest062114-5]

Not to hijack the thread, but someone needs to offer Sharkeisha a UFC contract...after she spends some time in jail for assault.

Attitude is at least 95% of the game...people ask me all the time, Mynx, what's the secret to your success?"

The answer is simple...be nice, work hard. It's unbelievable the wonderful blessings I've received by following this principle. And I can't think of anything I've gained by insulting or demeaning others.

I never let other people's bad behavior change the person I am. Just because someone says something offensive, doesn't mean you need to sink to their level.

[SweaterPuppies]

Originally Posted by Mya Michelle

I am a true humanitarian, I don't need to up lift myself by trying to be nasty to others, ESPCIALLY over the internet.

Haha, oh Mya you make this too easy. You are TRUE HUMANITARIAN?! Wow! Please tell us more about your philanthropic activities! I've gotta hear this.

Or, maybe you are using words without knowing their true definition again. Sort of like your misuse of the word prestige.

Why don't you actually go to school and better yourself? Your 9th grade education is showing.

[SweaterPuppies]

A $350 hour "Upscale Courtesan" is an oxymoron, contradictory in many ways. The joke is on you, but please, tell us more about how you have "success".

[Guest062114-5]

Can't this be taken to another thread?

"$350 Courtesan...Oxymoron? Yes or No?" You could even make an associated poll!

Seriously, I'm interested in Sweater's definition of courtesan and what the appropriate compensation is...shall I meet y'all in Diamonds & Tuxedos?

[Guest070818-1]

Originally Posted by LilMynx69

Can't this be taken to another thread?

"$350 Courtesan...Oxymoron? Yes or No?" You could even make an associated poll!

Seriously, I'm interested in Sweater's definition of courtesan and what the appropriate compensation is...shall I meet y'all in Diamonds & Tuxedos?

This whole thread is an Oxymoron. Sad.

[Guest062114-5]

Originally Posted by brownsugarbaby

This whole thread is an Oxymoron. Sad.

Well said...yep, let's be bitchy and whine to each other about our positive attitudes.