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03-23-2010, 11:36 AM
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Everyone wants world peace too.
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I don't, can you imagine how badly it would affect the economy?
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03-23-2010, 11:40 AM
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Location: Eatin' Peaches
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The other problem with forums where people like to laugh at each other's expense a lot, is that it discourages new participation. People log into the forum, and consider it critical, unwelcoming, or mean spirited. We've lost a few really thoughtful people from the forum since it started, and that's a bad sign. A community can't grow if we're chasing people off because they don't' appreciate the humour of the members in a clique who know each other better. I think it's better to have a warm and welcoming board - though I know a bunch of you roll your eyes at the thought of kindness as a default.
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I think we've gained some good people as well. I'd be interested in the perspective of some of our newer (say non HDH legacy) members.
In the real world and here on the interwebs people tend to self-select into groups or associations they enjoy. Have you considered that for some our rather unique set of norms is actually attractive?
Also one of the unwritten rules in most internet communities is that before someone new jumps right in they "RTFF." In doing so hopefully they pick up on the unique culture here, understand we are a welcoming bunch with a very sarcastic bent, but frankly if you don't have a relatively thick skin this may not be the sandbox for you. In fact can I suggest stickying this thread or something similar that outlines the "norms" of this forum including some of the backstory (such as some of us have been joking with each other for nearly a decade).
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03-23-2010, 12:09 PM
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#33
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Dr. Wonderful
Join Date: Dec 30, 2009
Location: Globe Trotter
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I think we've gained some good people as well. I'd be interested in the perspective of some of our newer (say non HDH legacy) members.
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See WTF, atlcomedy sees the writings on the cave wall.
Can I have that 89cent special?
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03-23-2010, 12:23 PM
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Join Date: Dec 26, 2009
Location: Up a hill...down a hill... Up a hill...down a hill...
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There is no God or Goddesses in my world!
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Mine neither.... BUT... it just MIGHT be an "object permanence" thing...
Just because we can't see doesn't mean we can't BE seen....
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Well dearhunter is a sort of Wayward like God. ![Shiny](https://cdn-w.eccie.net/images/smilies/modern/shiny.gif)
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I thought Wayward was a God & dearhunter was THE prophet....
God, religion is hard!!!
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03-23-2010, 12:37 PM
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You going lose that bet there buddy boy.
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Well it's obvious there is one in my world working miracles with you. ![Shiny](https://cdn-w.eccie.net/images/smilies/modern/shiny.gif)
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Well there is this co-ed who has been sucking the venom out of me lately.
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I'll take the under on that.
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And replacing it with empathy and consideration...... all over my lil lo weenie.
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God, religion is hard!!!
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Yes my son, it is.
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03-23-2010, 12:59 PM
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Join Date: Jan 1, 2010
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Originally Posted by atlcomedy
I think we've gained some good people as well. I'd be interested in the perspective of some of our newer (say non HDH legacy) members.
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Yeah, it would be good to hear from them.
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In the real world and here on the interwebs people tend to self-select into groups or associations they enjoy. Have you considered that for some our rather unique set of norms is actually attractive?
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There are certainly things that are attractive about the community, I can think of many. However, there are unattractive things, and we have lost good members. I think that deserves a second thought.
I think thick skinned places are far to limiting in the kind of people that can get involved frankly. Look at TER, there are loads of women that won't post there, and it's a slippery slope to go down.
When does sarcasm and ribbing become mean spirited and unwelcoming? I mean if this is a board for just us and our friends, that's one thing. However, the industry lacks a welcoming provider friendly place, and this is as close as it gets. I think it would be a shame to become insular. I think we've crossed that line more then a few times here.
Anyway, it's just one thought from one person, and I'm sure it doesn't bare too much weight.
Enjoy your day, I'm off for some pecan pie.
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03-23-2010, 02:37 PM
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Join Date: Dec 25, 2009
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I just get irked by the internet ass kissing.
Whether it's the provider to guy or guy to provider.
And meanness. I don't like mean.
The foreign shape shifter is uber flaky too but I can ignore.
Yeah I know. No one asked.
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03-23-2010, 02:40 PM
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I just wanted to show off my new avatar...notice anything different?
I never participated or even read the old HDH forum, so this was new to me. It didn't take long to understand that most of you were familiar with each other and a little more relaxed with your posting style. It doesn't bother me...I still think it's funny.
A masturbation thread was closed for going off topic? Really?
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03-23-2010, 06:31 PM
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Join Date: Dec 31, 2009
Location: In hopes of having a good time
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Originally Posted by atlcomedy
I think we've gained some good people as well. I'd be interested in the perspective of some of our newer (say non HDH legacy) members.
In the real world and here on the interwebs people tend to self-select into groups or associations they enjoy. Have you considered that for some our rather unique set of norms is actually attractive?
Also one of the unwritten rules in most internet communities is that before someone new jumps right in they "RTFF." In doing so hopefully they pick up on the unique culture here, understand we are a welcoming bunch with a very sarcastic bent, but frankly if you don't have a relatively thick skin this may not be the sandbox for you. In fact can I suggest stickying this thread or something similar that outlines the "norms" of this forum including some of the backstory (such as some of us have been joking with each other for nearly a decade).
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There are a lot of good posts in this thread.
I think I'm pretty much a ![newbie](https://cdn-w.eccie.net/images/smilies/classics/smilie16.gif) to this and don't have any HDH history.
Personally, I can be as sarcastic as the next person when it comes hobby related posts.
However, a sarcastic political post that contains a view opposite of mine--and apparently I'm in the minority here--can move me from sarcastic to mean. It would be a lot easier if there were a political forum that was separate from the hobby related forums.
But I agree with most posters here...this forum can be self-moderating. Even though I find most veteran posters to be welcoming, it is apparent that there is an inner circle into which most/all newbies will not be invited. Not criticizing, just saying. Same in RW.
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03-23-2010, 08:23 PM
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Join Date: Dec 23, 2009
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I just wanted to show off my new avatar...notice anything different?
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Damn! Where did the showcase go?
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03-23-2010, 09:10 PM
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Join Date: Mar 27, 2009
Location: Gone Fishing
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I thinck it is an easy cop out to throw in the "you are harassing me" towel.................kind of like a "stalking" charge.
I once had a Mod tell me "if they feel harassed, then you are harassing them"............he was a bigger pussy than they were.
I like JBs latest post.............."everyone can call WTF a wuss"...........the man has vision.
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I agree with the above post. There are some who do either of those as well as both. People need to develop a thicker skin if they are that sensitive or not post or have a membership on a SHMB.
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There are a lot of good posts in this thread.
I think I'm pretty much a ![newbie](https://cdn-w.eccie.net/images/smilies/classics/smilie16.gif) to this and don't have any HDH history.
Personally, I can be as sarcastic as the next person when it comes hobby related posts.
However, a sarcastic political post that contains a view opposite of mine--and apparently I'm in the minority here--can move me from sarcastic to mean. It would be a lot easier if there were a political forum that was separate from the hobby related forums.
But I agree with most posters here...this forum can be self-moderating. Even though I find most veteran posters to be welcoming, it is apparent that there is an inner circle into which most/all newbies will not be invited. Not criticizing, just saying. Same in RW. ![Mf Swordfight](https://cdn-w.eccie.net/images/smilies/modern/mf_swordfight.gif)
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I tend to think a political only forum gets boring while folks in this section of the site keep it interesting and passionate although I could do with less vulgarity. However that is just my preference as I have never been one for cussing when expressing myself even when I am really angry although I do slip from time to time.
I know that I prefer the conversations in this section of the site over any city forum after the demise of aspd for a variety of reasons. I like the mix I have seen in D&T forum by what others have posted. Additionally, I think the back and forth adds to the tempo of the forum while making fun of WTF is all good! I mean wtf would we all be doing… masturbating in a circle jerk or running around like a bunch of PWI wusses in a room full of sharp objects?
My real world friends call me a picky and a selective you know what but I have never thought selectivity in who you chose to associate with as being a bad thing. In that same thought, I think going schoolyard is really the best way of handling things as a first step since we each want to be treated as treat others. By using the peers to self-moderate, it allows for an ebb and flow that gives room for some very colorful posts which I think adds to any site as well as makes for some really entertaining reading.
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03-23-2010, 10:01 PM
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Ain't no sex in the Champagne room
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A masturbation thread was closed for going off topic? Really?
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LOL
No fucking around on a wack off thread and no wacking off on a fucking around thread! Come on girlfriend , just cause you retired don't mean you can skirt the rules.
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I think it would be a shame to become insular. I think we've crossed that line more then a few times here.
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I agree.
But we have crossed it in both directions....maybe a tad to crass at times and maybe a tad to sensitive. Hopefully we can keep the apple cart around the middle of the road and either please everyone or no one, depending on our mood.
Let's not forget we have lost a really good poster because of the forum being to PC, so it just really is a matter of perspective.
I love pecan pie. If you ever make it to Houston I will let you in on where to get the best pecan pie ever. Oh heck....it's Goode Company on Kirby Dr. BBQ and burgers and Tex-Mex ain't half bad either.
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03-23-2010, 10:07 PM
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Join Date: Mar 27, 2009
Location: Gone Fishing
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A masturbation thread was closed for going off topic? Really?
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LOL
No fucking around on a wack off thread and no wacking off on a fucking around thread! Come on girlfriend , just cause you retired don't mean you can skirt the rules.
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Sooo, no going.... wtf WTF!. We can't get whacked off , geee, that sucks...
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03-23-2010, 10:17 PM
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Sooo, no going.... wtf WTF!. We can't get whacked off , geee, that sucks...![Shiny](https://cdn-w.eccie.net/images/smilies/modern/shiny.gif)
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No sucking on a wacking off thread.
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03-23-2010, 10:26 PM
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Join Date: Mar 27, 2009
Location: Gone Fishing
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No sucking on a wacking off thread. ![Shiny](https://cdn-w.eccie.net/images/smilies/modern/shiny.gif)
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Maaannn, that just BITES. Uhhh, waitaminute there...
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