Have we forgotten ?

[CummingsLane]

Very good post.. I like the responses so far

[JessicaKnightly]

It's all oxytocin's fault. That whore-moan has been making us fall in love since the beginning of time.

[Prolongus]

"Love happens" anywhere, anytime, all the time, even here.
Then, "Shit happens". Anywhere, anytime, all the time, even here.

[MochaNautteBBW]

I made the mistake of dating a client and he went batsh*t crazy on me! I HATE HATE cybersex, phone sex and sexting and he got upset when I refused to engage in those things. He lives in Maine and I live in Upper Manhattan. It got to the point where I cut him off because he was spazzing out on me everytime we spoke and when I moved on, he started saying, "I miss you." My response?

[Prolongus]

Its happened here...Provider and client dating and marrying.
Kinda funny how it's backwards here vs. traditional dating: first time you meet, you fuck each others brains out. Maybe several sessions later, you talk about meeting off the clock. Then, y'all find out that maybe a relationship may not work.

Then what? Back to fucking each other's brains out...

[ICU 812]

The subject of Providers Vs "Civvie: women comes up every 6 to 18 months or so as the Hobnbyist community turns over or adds newer active hobbyists.

There is a generational shift at work now too I think. I came from the "hippy" age when the societal norms shifted from the restrained era of the 1950s (and mid-'60s) and gave way to the "Free Love" era of the late 1960s and the sexual revolution that came with the development of birth control pills. P-F-P sex was still considered "dirty" by older folks and pathetic by the free loving hippy types. (myself included back then). Now we have the accepted societal concepts of friends-with-benefits and the even more casual hook-up. No wonder there are millennial who are confused about real-world vs hobby-world relationships . . .and where to look for each one.