What is a high class provider to you?

[JohnnyCap]

Throw shit at people and start inbreeding.

Maybe not classy, but aristocratic.

[phildo9]

Originally Posted by awl4knot

Oh and there is a third point. Learn about Prosecco. It goes great with desserts and looks and tastes like Champagne at a quarter of the price.

I would add to this: learn about fine wines in general. Not that you need to invest in them, but if you meet me in a bar before going for BCD, I pay attention to what you drink. Keep in mind that with wines, high price doesn’t always translate to high quality.


I also look for a woman that can carry on a good conversation.


I also agree that price charged doesn’t always equal “high quality” in providers. I have seen some high priced providers who were not worth the price.


PM me and I’ll recommend a provider that has offered some good advice to other providers. I don’t think she is a secret, but I haven’t seen her in quite a while and I want to get permission to share info.

[Guest092416]

There are amateurs & there are professionals. Many hobbyists choose professionals b/c upper class is the standard. Birds of a feather flock together. Upper class attracts upper class.

-Lisa Lyonz of Lafayette, LA

[Guest092416]

Excellent point "PhilO"! Know your wines, ladies; )

-Lisa Lyonz of Lafayette, LA

[Nicolet]

I may not be an oenophile, but I know what champagne I like to enjoy.

[Rockpicker]

One comment based on one of the first posts: Most of us have a partner, husband, or kids. However, I don’t want to know about yours until I ask you about them. I realize that may come across as “objectifying” you. It really isn’t though. It’s just that for those few hours that we are together, I probably only want it to be about the two of us. Granted, real life will wander in and out of our conversations but let me take the lead on your and my personal life.

If you have an issue going on that will not allow you to focus on the two of us – then cancel and make up for it with a future discounted session. Don’t get me started on the serous HDH that I saw last year that had just been dumped by her boyfriend... I will not be happy that you have canceled but understand that it was the right thing to do. I will also be thrilled that I get to see you with a discount at some point in the future.

You really need to be able to hold an intelligent conversation about a wide range of topics. I think the phrase “well read” makes the point. As an example, there is a seriously attractive girl (think Victoria Secret model type) that travels throughout the US. She also has really good “technical” skills. However, her personality and communication skills keep her at $300 per hour. I realize that amount is higher than standard and many girls would be happy to get that rate. However, I can assure you she would easily be able to charge twice that if she were a complete package.

I know many folks have said to go watch how people act at places like the Four Seasons, et al. I am not sure I agree with that suggestion though as it is difficult to learn much just by watching people walk in and out of a lobby or chat with each other. If you are serious, I think a better strategy might be to have a higher initial hourly rate but then a discounted “dinner and desert” or “show and a nightcap” rate. That way you get to experience being in those situations versus just being a voyeur.

Finally, I would get professional quality photos shot. I realize that they are a lot of money. But, this whole gig we play is a fantasy and a lot of what causes us to decide to spend money with one person versus another is packaging and atmosphere. Frankly, the end result is the same whether it is a $25 crack hoe in a back alley or a $1,000 an hour sweetheart.

Just my two cents so take it for what it is worth.

[Ansley]

Originally Posted by Rockpicker

I know many folks have said to go watch how people act at places like the Four Seasons, et al. I am not sure I agree with that suggestion though as it is difficult to learn much just by watching people walk in and out of a lobby or chat with each other. If you are serious, I think a better strategy might be to have a higher initial hourly rate but then a discounted “dinner and desert” or “show and a nightcap” rate. That way you get to experience being in those situations versus just being a voyeur.

I agree that experience is a much better way to learn, than to just watch. I was mainly thinking of learning appropriate attire and how ladies carry themselves in nice places. To have a (male) mentor to learn from would be fantastic.

[jwin]

[Rockpicker]

Originally Posted by Ansley

I agree that experience is a much better way to learn, than to just watch. I was mainly thinking of learning appropriate attire and how ladies carry themselves in nice places. To have a (male) mentor to learn from would be fantastic.

The clothing end is a tough position. It is learning that balance on spending enough that it looks and fits right but not spending so much that only a tiny number of people understand what you are actually wearing. Also, I think if I were on the front end of this odyssey that it is far better to have a limited number of really well constructed, well-fitting outfits than a pile of cheap stuff. As for the lingerie gig, I think most any decent outfits are good to go. Frankly, by the time most of us see that part of the outfit – we are really only interested in figuring out how to get them off.

Finding a mentor would be great. However, I suspect that finding a decent mentor is akin to finding a sugar daddy. Great if you can find one but few and far between.

[Ansley]

What does a blank post mean?

[Guest062114-5]

Originally Posted by Ansley

What does a blank post mean?

Was wondering the same. If it was blank or marked private?

[Guest062114-5]

Great comments by both if you, by the way!

[Ansley]

Originally Posted by Rockpicker

It is learning that balance on spending enough that it looks and fits right but not spending so much that only a tiny number of people understand what you are actually wearing.

Ahhh, that's why consignment shops are very good, at least for me.

Originally Posted by Rockpicker

Finding a mentor would be great. However, I suspect that finding a decent mentor is akin to finding a sugar daddy. Great if you can find one but few and far between.

At the very beginning of my time as Ansley, a gentleman helped me out and still does to this day. Before getting into this business I knew how to dress and act in public. He helped me fine tune a few things to help blend in a bit better. To this day I still get advice from him. Sometimes it's best to seek advice from a man and get a male perspective on things.

[Wakeup]

Nothing says class like the creative use of rubber bands...

http://www.eccie.net/providers.php?do=view&id=181517

[Ansley]

Yo Wakeup!? What are your lips flapping about?