Providers are more sensitive than you may think

[Tsmokies]

Men can spend all day telling ladies what they should and should not do smfh. Only the ladies know if it's broke our not and might need some fine tuning. I'm pretty sure there are many choices on here for everybody to get their grins and monies.

If it's not good don't do it. Jeez

[BLM69]

Originally Posted by TinMan

Hey, it's my experience, and I'm sharing it FWIW. And where did I even bring up age?

I was using age for a silly comparison, nothing more

[Bruce Fassbender]

This is just a logical deduction of my hobbying experience that I decided to share. If you want to put your 'captain save a ho' cape on go right ahead, but it's unwarranted. If providers were offended perhaps you should read my post again, I was defending you to a certain extent. If you expect posts that are about barebacking 5'0 spinners, or raving about the IOP of some poor girl at a massage parlor there are plenty of places to find that. Thanks for the responses guys!

[TheEccie214]

Originally Posted by Bruce Fassbender

I've had several experiences within the past 2 weeks with providers where I've had hr appointments with them and decided to go with an hh appointment in the following meeting and you can see their sense of self-worth drain from their complexions similar to how the worth of their vagina has dwindled $100 to me. These women are extremely sensitive and emotional creatures, and it took me a while to figure that out. "Oh, how pleasant it is to see the bear turn into a badger." Signing out.

Yes, everyone should have taken that in the nice way. You should be eligible for Sainthood.

[Dubielicious]

Originally Posted by dallaswill

Also, I would like to think one's self-worth comes from a job well done, not necessary how much you get paid for the job. A satisfied client should be worth more than remuneration.

Money is a necessary evil in this profession for sure! Being always available with a stable, respectful Incall is hard work!
BUT I agree dallaswill, doing something to the best of my ability is my life motto...
Knowing at the end of the day I tried my hardest to make smiles happen is enough for me!
-but where do providers draw the line?
-when it starts to cost more to provide an Incall than what your income is?
-everyone wants more for less from us, but what about what it truly costs to provide quality sessions?
-every provider manages business differently, but knows what it takes to maintain their standards -it's hard to provide a heartfelt emotionally connected session when you kNoW if you are being sold short on valuable time...
I guess all in all, IF expectations are clear upfront and agreements are made then changed, it will ALWAYS end up with one person feeling jilted out of time energy effort or money...
I'm sure we have all experienced a paycheck less than what we had imagined it to be. I try to exceed expectations every time so when you open your paycheck it's all you imagined it to be! wholeheartedly and willingly!
-but then I'd do this profession for free IF I didn't have to support myself and an Incall to make it happen!

[Bruce Fassbender]

Originally Posted by TheEccie214

Yes, everyone should have taken that in the nice way. You should be eligible for Sainthood.

I think your cape is tied too tight...it's dropping your testosterone levels.

[Analeese]

Originally Posted by Bruce Fassbender

I think your cape is tied too tight...it's dropping your testosterone levels.

I think you thought this thread would go different and now you're backtracking your original post to say you were defending us when what TheEccie bolded for you is the true meaning of this post...to let providers know how they're vagina dwindled in value 100 bucks. Sorry to burst your bubble but where you feel it's dwindled to many other hobbyist the price of admission will always be worth it and valued at just the right price

[Gbfsl]

Originally Posted by Analeese

. " to many other hobbyist the price of admission will always be worth it and valued at just the right price"

So true, Analeese. If people come to you only for price, then they will leave for the price as soon as they find cheaper somewhere else. And there is always cheaper someplace else. When you, as a provider, give a lower price, you undervalue the quality, the savior-faire, and the image of the "brand".

It's a fine line to have to balance, but you have to maintain your image. It is who you are on this site.

[TheEccie214]

Originally Posted by Bruce Fassbender

I think your cape is tied too tight...it's dropping your testosterone levels.

Nope, I just have a decent ability to spot and then call out assholes.

A person saying a girl's vagina has a value based on your opinion of her is offensive to me - be it $100 or $1,000,000...we'll maybe for a million she'd overlook it but you come across as having wine tastes on a beer budget. Pretty sure you have no idea you can buy wine by the bottle and not just the glass.

Stick to BP and I think you'll find what you're seeking. Personally I've never just looked for a hole, a person I can talk with and then enjoy is my favorite aphrodisiac.

[OneStarLuck07]

Originally Posted by TheEccie214

Personally I've never just looked for a hole, a person I can talk with and then enjoy is my favorite aphrodisiac.

Could not agree more. I want the whole experience; conversation, funny moments, sexy moments - a memorable experience with someone I never had an opportunity to spend time with in the RW.

If I just wanted a hole, I'd stay home.

[Bruce Fassbender]

Wow. lol..just sent a message to gman44...I'd rather die than to continue paying low class women for their "time"..it was a useful experience though...made me value educated, classy, beautiful women more...Thank You.

[TheEccie214]

Everything about you speaks to the class you claim to seek. As I said, you'll be much happier on BP - they'll appreciate your 15 minute visits.

[Prince Akeem Of Zamunda]

Poor guy hasn't been the same since a provider rejected him
This is eccie mate, not match.com

[Tronhorn356]

Originally Posted by Bruce Fassbender

Wow. lol..just sent a message to gman44...I'd rather die than to continue paying low class women for their "time"..it was a useful experience though...made me value educated, classy, beautiful women more...Thank You.

Low class? Where do you get off calling anyone low class? While this is an obvious insult to providers, you are also insulting the gentlemen who appreciate women. This is a pay to play hobby, and most hobbyist have the cash to burn, but money doesn't make you better or superior than anyone else. I've been fortunate enough to met some amazing women that I will not ever forget about. Conversations, experience, everything...it is sad you decided to focus on the physical aspect of the hobby and ignore the emotional side.

Just because you donate to a women doesn't mean they become your property, as your initial post insinuates. Which also hints at your real world personality. $100 pussy? WTF, this is not a meat market. Providers have a choice to see who they want and set their own rate...not to mention they are ACTUAL HUMAN BEINGS. Respect that. I for one would NEVER put a dollar amount on a women. That is insulting. I see a providers rate and pay that. And if I feel they are lowballing themselves, I tip them extra.

I could tell immediately with your infatuation of Lillianna (however you spell it) that you were unstable. You believe that your opinion matters or that the hobby needs you? You are wrong....The Hobby will survive with or without you. You are insignificant. Hell, I'm sure Lillyanna gives two shits about your creepy ass.

I know I'm a cocky sonofabitch (some of you know why, anyways) but don't disrespect providers or their CHOICE to be part of the community. You're just a fuck boy.

If you're done here, then be a man and just leave. Simple as that.

Mods: Can we have an offical poll to change Bruce's name to Fuck Boy?

[mrredcat43]

Originally Posted by OneStarLuck07

Could not agree more. I want the whole experience; conversation, funny moments, sexy moments - a memorable experience with someone I never had an opportunity to spend time with in the RW.

If I just wanted a hole and to get bitched at for no apparent reason, I'd stay home.

FTFY