I always try to go with the impression that I get from the lady, I always start off slow and gentle because I want the provider to enjoy her time with me as much as I am enjoying her, plus, another thing for me is that I take into consideration that she will be seeing other guys, and I don't want her to be sore after I leave because I was to rough with her. Now, there have been times that the lady wanted that deep tissue massage and being the gentleman that I am, I always try to give a lady what she wants LOL!