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Originally Posted by Jack Flash
I'd take a loose civilian over a hooker any day. And if the civi does call or text the next day.. all that means is that she wants to fuck again.. whats wrong with that?
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Not always that simple. Sometimes they want RELATIONSHIPS. The strategy some like to use is to 'lure' you in with a one time 'freebie'. Suck you and fuck you all night, hoping you fall for how good it is. They might throw lil hints like, "Well, I would call you but my phone 'bout to get turned off" or the like. If you DO fall for it, you're done. You 'help her out' that one time, and it could start a neverending cycle of "I'll call you when ____ needs to be paid". Don't get me wrong. I don't mind helping a female out, but you gotta make it clear that this isn't a boyfriend/girlfriend type of thing.
While it may be true that SOME just want dick THAT NIGHT ONLY, there are others who will not just let it be that. I've seen cars keyed up, windshields broken, house doors kicked in, and all kinds of crazy things over 'misunderstandings' of level of commitment. Some women are like, If I give you some pussy, you OWE me or we're 'together'. Even when you make it clear that all you want is Ms. Right Now, some try to use that against you. They'll agree to it at the club when it's near closing time and they know you're not thinking with the SMART head.
I hear what you're saying, but you gotta be careful. Some of them don't wanna hear that shit. From THIS perspective, providers are a way better investment.
If a woman who's not a official G/F starts a PATTERN of unwanted calls to you and there's some level of inconvenience to you (pay for something or take her somewhere), you need to find an exit strategy, because you are turning the corner into B/F territory. If a provider is doing it, it's easy to tell her you're out of town or have no money.
The best kind to get the 'pure' freebies from are the financially independent types. They may simply want a good time. If you're studly enough to get those to want you with no 'out of pocket' expenses, then good for you. If you run into the other kind, sometimes it's TGTBT when they give you a freebie. Best of luck dealing with the latter.
