Reasons NOT to see or call a provider

[OldTimeBuddie]

"Her" being Sophie? If so, her P411 and rare-escort sites both list rates...

[hotlips_houlihan]

Originally Posted by Introuble

I find it extremely inefficient. Many hobbyists such as myself get up THAT day and see that our schedule allows us to play that day. MOST of the time if you do not get something booked by noon you will not get a session by the end of playtime which for most is whenever the SO expects you home, ie 5PM. It is rare that most providers even get up in time to check email or respond early enough so you are SOL. Also complicating the issue, once I leave the house to go to Dallas, I don't have email capability......ONLY phone.

It simply does not work for me and many others

That's all good and understandable but....I've said it before and I will say it again. Just because my phone rings and the voice on the other end says "hi, this is introuble" it does not mean it's actually you on the other end. Look at the alerts section. There are several threads on men pretending to be someone else. And I'm sorry, I would much rather miss an appointment due to my "no phone" policy, then to be the one who ends ups "in trouble." I'm not up for being killed, raped, robbed, ripped off, or arrested. That doesn't sit well with me whatsoever and although your pleasure and satisfaction are important, my safety is more important.

So if phone is the only way a man wishes to schedule, then you know what? Send me a PM first and let me know you are going to be calling. Even give me a code word or something in the message so I KNOW it's you calling.

Or, get a hobby phone that has internet capability. Just a suggestion of course.

Meg

[QueenSophie]

Originally Posted by OldTimeBuddie

"Her" being Sophie? If so, her P411 and rare-escort sites both list rates...

If that be the case....Thank you OTB!

Hotlips...never mind, Im sure you know what I was gonna say...

[S-Man]

Originally Posted by OldTimeBuddie

"Her" being Sophie? If so, her P411 and rare-escort sites both list rates...

"Her" not being Sophie.

[OldTimeBuddie]

Then can you give us a little more clue as to about whom you're talking?

[LazurusLong]

Her alias is DONICE!

[OldTimeBuddie]

Well, assuming S-Man meant this Donice, there is contact info that can be used to answer the question.

If he is referring to the Donice now operating as ¿Kimmie?, then he should probably search for reviews here.

But how about we let *him* clarify since it's *his* question, hmmmn?

[Prolongus]

Originally Posted by ~Ze~

Eh... by not using email at all there is a MUCH higher chance of someone not being who they say they are... and to those of us that DO SCREEN... that can be the difference in a wolf showing up or worse.

+1 on that...if I was a provider and you can't email me your references, P411 client ID, etc., I wouldn't see you. The same day phone call "Gotta see you now" Introuble is referring to would work providing I have seen you before and I know it's you. But not for a first time visit.

[mansfield]

Then can you give us a little more clue as to about whom you're talking?

Good Lord, the thread is about generic reasons you won't see someone. He gave a generic reason of "After checking her website, I still don't know how much $ I need to bring."

Doesn't seem like he's talking about anyone in particular.

[S-Man]

Originally Posted by mansfield

Good Lord, the thread is about generic reasons you won't see someone. He gave a generic reason of "After checking her website, I still don't know how much $ I need to bring."

Doesn't seem like he's talking about anyone in particular.

Thank you!

[ShysterJon]

I'd add, "Provider has been convicted of two or more crimes involving the violent use of a firearm, axe, icepick, knife, bazooka, nunchucks, rusty saw blade, or acid-filled cock ring."

[Introuble]

Originally Posted by hotlips_houlihan

Just because my phone rings and the voice on the other end says "hi, this is introuble" it does not mean it's actually you on the other end.

So if phone is the only way a man wishes to schedule, then you know what? Send me a PM first and let me know you are going to be calling. Even give me a code word or something in the message so I KNOW it's you calling.

Or, get a hobby phone that has internet capability. Just a suggestion of course.

Prolongus, it is not a matter of got to see you now, but I do like same day service. Answer the phone at 9 or 10, and I will be glad to set an appointment for later in the day. It is simply good business, polite, and smart marketing to answer the phone you advertise whether a provider, doctor, or mechanic. Its called customer service.

Meg

The way MOST paranoid providers screen these days is P411. How would someone know my ID if it was not me? If you then suggest that is not reliable, then you are suggesting that P411 is not a good way to screen. Most are using P411, why not you?

Also in my example of "only email" along with your response, the provider does NOT give a phone number so how would I call you? Makes no sense to let you know I am going to call when no number has been provided in your ad. I have had providers ask me to send a PM once we get off of the phone so that the "connection" can be made and verified as to me actually being Introuble. And yes, I do have a phone with internet. My point is by the time all of this usually happens it is after lunch and I am usually on my way back home FROM a session with a provider that ANSWERED her phone.

[hotlips_houlihan]

Originally Posted by Introuble

The way MOST paranoid providers screen these days is P411. How would someone know my ID if it was not me? If you then suggest that is not reliable, then you are suggesting that P411 is not a good way to screen. Most are using P411, why not you?

Also in my example of "only email" along with your response, the provider does NOT give a phone number so how would I call you? Makes no sense to let you know I am going to call when no number has been provided in your ad. I have had providers ask me to send a PM once we get off of the phone so that the "connection" can be made and verified as to me actually being Introuble. And yes, I do have a phone with internet. My point is by the time all of this usually happens it is after lunch and I am usually on my way back home FROM a session with a provider that ANSWERED her phone.

oh good gawd here we go.

#1. I do use P411. But that does me no good unless you are sending your request directly through there. But you said nothing about P411. Now I presume you give your P411 information during the conversation, but see #3 below.

#2. My phone number is easy to find. It's on my reviews and in my P411. What's the problem? If a lady doesn't have it listed somewhere, then I presume it's for a reason. Don't want to go the extra step in contacting her in an alternate method? I guess you didn't want to see her bad enough. And I guess it won't bother her that you didn't go that extra step-she would never know anyway.

#3. Anybody who has access to internet and this site can look up anybody's handle and say "hi, this is so and so." A lady doesn't know for sure whether or not you have P411. So when the fake "introuble" calls said lady and explains he doesn't have P411, all she will do is look at his posts. And folks can very easily find out your P411 handle, and email address. Just the same way folks get LR/PR information that they are not supposed to have.

#4. I'm glad you are coming back FROM an appointment with whoever ANSWERED their phone. They took the risk and saw somebody they had no idea for sure it was them. They were "assuming" it was you and all is well. One of these days, when Eddie Bryant (or some other fucktard) books a session under your name, I will ask THAT lady how it went. Watch for the alerts....tell me how that works out for her.

I have never been robbed, beaten, raped, and obviously not killed. *knock on wood* so I MUST be doing something that works. I have NEVER been a "book by phone" kind of gal, and I never will be. Different strokes for different folks. What works for one may not work for the next. And I'm okay with that too.

Meg

[jfred]

Good little list, Introuble.

Nothing controversial there. Obviously some things you listed will apply to you more than to other guys...it is your list.

Drama does follow you though, dude.

[swguy101]

Their ad emphatically states that their pictures are 100% real. Seriously, does anyone without reviews on eccie, etc. posting on BackPage (or elsewhere) think that fools anyone?