Providers and Hobbyists: A Question

[alluringava]

Originally Posted by tonytiger4u

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Yes, AA, I too am sorry for your loss. Feel bad for missing that the first time.

They say Irish people know how to party during a wake, but you haven't seen Asian people party after a funeral then. We ended up going to a bar and half my relatives were passing out all over the place. And at midnight they were still going!! I considered it a festive funeral just because the person who passed, my stepgrandmother, was quite a cantankerous woman, and when she was dying, she screamed out to death, " You asshole!! You didn't get me all these years, and now I guess I have to meet you but you're still an asshole!!"

[Guest011914-1]

First let me say I am sorry for you loss but glad you are able to celebrate the persons life..now for your post yes my family and close friends know and I have no issue telling them my mom always tells me "nothing I do surprises her" when i go on tour I check in with them and they have my bank info and and i have someone in the family when i travel up north he is marked as first contact and he knows first and foremost get my money,computer and he is to wipe my phone clean...I do shield my live at home family for plain reasons and they think I travel for work my other profession...I am a grown woman and I don't feel I need to explain myself to anyone...but that is just me...I respect the ladies who life two lives and know that is not easy.

[charlestudor2005]

when she was dying, she screamed out to death, " You asshole!! You didn't get me all these years, and now I guess I have to meet you but you're still an asshole!!"

Now, that's a great line!!! The story should be passed down to succeeding generations.

[Sami]

My closest civvie friends know,and my daughter knows. But many civvie people I know have no clue, and would never believe it if someone told them. It's the way you carry yourself in and out of this hobby. I don't buy flashy things, throw money around stupidly. Smart ladies put the money up, and are never to flashy.

In fact a close civvie friend called had a friend who was single and he told her he was thinking of finding a escort and so after them talking about it, she said I have a friend that can help you find a safe medium. Well I was able to help him out contacted a special lady in Houston.

I have had a few guys refer others to me, from there work or friends

[DallasRain]

My SO knos..........mainly cause he does MFM sessions and GBs ith me{lol}

My two kids and their partners know....a few close friends know
I have nothing to hide from them......I even gave them an extra credit card with instructions to use just in case i get in trouble and need to have help!

My SOs brother just found out and is keeping quiet!

I don't really care if anyone else knows...EXCEPT for my mommy and my siblings.... and my inlaws.....{they are "chuch people" and my brother is in ministry}

[alluringava]

Originally Posted by DallasRain

My SO knos..........mainly cause he does MFM sessions and GBs ith me{lol}

My two kids and their partners know....a few close friends know
I have nothing to hide from them......I even gave them an extra credit card with instructions to use just in case i get in trouble and need to have help!

My SOs brother just found out and is keeping quiet!

I don't really care if anyone else knows...EXCEPT for my mommy and my siblings.... and my inlaws.....{they are "chuch people" and my brother is in ministry}

Yeah see that's great you have an open relationship with your family. Thankfully my family isn't all that religious ( although my great grand father from Japan was a Baptist minister and I obviously fell far from the tree) but it's not my parents I worry about. It would be my in-laws and other relatives who just wouldn't get it. And then civvie friends who pretend that they think what you do might be okay but they really have issues with it down deep inside.

[Cpalmson]

I don't even tell my evil second personality about my hobbying activities. The only people who know are the providers I've seen and those with whom I've communicated here on ECCIE and elsewhere (either on phone, e-mail or on the boards). There is nobody I'd ever confide in-- not even a priest. It is my little secret and I plan to keep it that way.

[simpleton]

No not really. In my line of work it seems acceptable to bang providers. Dudes talk about it all the time. It just that they don't do any research and I don't offer any. they seem to think eros is a great place. I knew a dude that had a heart attack on a friday then a provider posted a thread she had a dude have a heart attack on her on that same friday. I always wondered if it was him. Everything seemed to match up. Both happened at lunch time. I try to keep my business my business.

[alluringava]

Erosguide is good for business in Dallas?

[Naomi4u]

Enlightening comments in this thread.

For one, I could never live with my parents and be a provider smh. THAT I could not live with. I feel as though I am already doing something they wouldn't want me to do in the first place so to do it and be living in their house, would be direspectful imo. Besides,
As a provider, I make enough money to have my own space (two properties to be exact).

Second, as I said, I live by myself, pay my taxes, own my own cars, don't owe anyone shit (debt free) and my parents are nowhere near. I do not feel the need to explain myself to anyone that isn't my SO (since I would putting his life at risk by not telling him). In my civie life, I am very conservative. I mind my own business (even though my neighbors doesn't mind theirs) and my girlfriends that know I provide live in other states (they're providers too). I am not an american. American are very lenient when it comes to these things. I could never tell anyone in my personal life that I was a provider. I know a lot of ladies are proud to tell their families but I come from a very proud family and that is a no go.

I do not want to be known among-st my family/rw peers as a prostitute. We are discreet here for a reason. The two worlds should never collide. I now run another business that makes this easier to hide. If this were something I plan on doing for the rest of my life then of course I would tell them. This (providing) to me is a crutch to bigger and better things. It should never be a lifestyle but a JOB!

Great thread, Ava!

[Still Looking]

Originally Posted by ZarahAdams

Enlightening comments in this thread.

For one, I could never live with my parents and be a provider smh. THAT I could not live with. I feel as though I am already doing something they wouldn't want me to do in the first place so to do it and be living in their house, would be direspectful imo. Besides,
As a provider, I make enough money to have my own space (two properties to be exact).

Second, as I said, I live by myself, pay my taxes, own my own cars, don't owe anyone shit (debt free) and my parents are nowhere near. I do not feel the need to explain myself to anyone that isn't my SO (since I would putting his life at risk by not telling him). In my civie life, I am very conservative. I mind my own business (even though my neighbors doesn't mind theirs) and my girlfriends that know I provide live in other states (they're providers too). I am not an american. American are very lenient when it comes to these things. I could never tell anyone in my personal life that I was a provider. I know a lot of ladies are proud to tell their families but I come from a very proud family and that is a no go.

I do not want to be known among-st my family/rw peers as a prostitute. We are discreet here for a reason. The two worlds should never collide. I now run another business that makes this easier to hide.

Great thread, Ava!

Your NOT an American? Really? What might you be if I may ask?

[Naomi4u]

Originally Posted by Still Looking

Your NOT an American? Really? What might you be if I may ask?

I was born in Lagos, Nigeria. Came to the states in 96. I speak 4 languages fluently.
I'm a nigerian citizen and a legal resident of the US.

I don't know a Nigerian woman that isn't independent .

[Still Looking]

Originally Posted by ZarahAdams

You should know this already . I was born in Lagos, Nigeria. Came to the states in 96. I speak 4 languages fluently.
I'm a nigerian citizen and a legal resident of the US.

I did not know that, and if I did, I didn't remember. Well color me surprised! I just thought you were a sassy chick from the SOUTH! Languages... I speak German, French, Spanish and English a little Italian. I even went to school in Italy. Now I bet you didn't know that about me!?

[Naomi4u]

Originally Posted by Still Looking

I did not know that, and if I did, I didn't remember. Well color me surprised! I just thought you were a sassy chick from the SOUTH! Languages... I speak German, French, Spanish and English a little Italian. I even went to school in Italy. Now I bet you didn't know that about me!?

WOw. For me, Igbo, French, Fulani and Yoruba. I talk about it so much on here I thought you would have known . I lived in Venice for a few months before we got to the states but I can't speak italian. If we ever meet, I'll show you my passport. I've been to some very neat places. Who would have thought we had SOMETHING in common? LOL. I didn't know you went to school in Italy.

[Still Looking]

[quote=ZarahAdams;2096571]WOw. For me, Igbo, French, Fulani and Yoruba. I talk about it so much on here I thought you would have known . I lived in Venice for a few months before we got to the states but I can't speak italian. If we ever meet, I'll show you my passport. I've been to some very neat places. Who would have thought we had SOMETHING in common? LOL. I didn't know you went to school in Italy.[/quote]

You might of heard of the school?

WHATS AMATTA U

The closet I'm come to Italy was a gondola ride at the Venetian in Las Vegas! LOL But one day soon I will go visit the wine country in France and the Ferrari Factory in Italy!