Is anyone else here married to an escort?

[Still Looking]

Originally Posted by Out_of_Bounds

Sarcasm? Did you detect any sarcasm in my earlier post? I was serious brother. As for sarcasm and negative feedback? Did you forget where you were? This is eccie b****! Can't you take a little ribbing? Sheesh!

Originally Posted by Wakeuр

Let him go...he's obviously either lying to get attention, or truthful and can't handle the comments. Either way, he's fucked...and we don't need to waste any more time on him...

You guys are a team now? Isn't that like putting Mike Tyson up against Pee-wee Herman?

[Max-Max-Max]

[DEAR_JOHN]

Originally Posted by Still Looking

You guys are a team now? Isn't that like putting Mike Tyson up against Pee-wee Herman?

I wouldn't compare Wakeup to Pee-Wee Herman if I were you.

[Sammyboy2]

Good job detective riday! But you failed to come to the obvious conclusion... He was searching for a TS provider, fell in love and then married him errrrrrrrrrrr married her.


Yea I was kinda wondering about that myself?
His post looking for and then his comment on seeing the TS was only a few months ago!

[simpleton]

Originally Posted by Nick11796

I may move my business elsewhere so that my wife feels less concerns.

You don't like the responses so your going to relocate your business? wtf...

I need to get into your business. Sounds easy.

[Still Looking]

Originally Posted by DEAR_JOHN

I wouldn't compare Wakeup to Pee-Wee Herman if I were you.

Good council... but read it again and note the RED highlighted "WE" and the fact their posts are back to back. Individually each are intimidating enough.. but together? FYI: Both of these guys are stand up guys unless you’re an asshole. They are who they are. They just call it like they see it!

And I didn't say that you did!

Hey when are you going to hook me up with the Sarah Palin look a like?

[Guest021824]

Originally Posted by riday

I haven't quite figured this dude out yet.
Check his posting history, pops up asking about a couple of old providers that no one seems to know (wondering if the little lady is still selling it?), moves over to searching for a TS (which he apparently found), then starts this stuff up about being in a relationship with a former provider.
Now, apparently he's married her, against all the good advice that he's received.
And these are the days of our lives...

I noticed that as well. Seems odd that he would come to this board, searching for answers to questions He should already know the answer too. I think He is more concerned than he is letting on.

At any rate, if all is well at home, then why are you on this board in the first place. If you are married and her past is in the past. Then let it go and move on.............or is it not easy for you to do that? In which case, you should have never been thinking with the lower half of your brain in the first place. I'm just saying............and no this isn't sarcasm...........

[Nick11796]

I wrote this to see if escorts who married and moved on had any bad experiences from guys who knew them in an earlier period or whether they were continually contacted by any former regulars who knew their real name.

Also out of curiosity I wondered how quickly these ladies adjusted to a different lifestyle.

[DEAR_JOHN]

Originally Posted by Nick11796

Also out of curiosity I wondered how quickly these ladies adjusted to a different lifestyle.

There is an old saying about strippers....."you can take the girl out of the titty bar, but you can't take the titty bar out of the girl."

Working in a titty bar and the constant hustle and alcohol and/or other means of chemical aid, most girls who work there age 3 years to 1 year for some girl who works a normal job. They are on a constant hustle and operating close or over the line where the laws are concerned. They constantly live life on the edge and they constantly have their ego's boosted by the male population.

The idealist in me wants all girls to be able to live a 'normal' lifestyle, but the realist in me realizes that most girls get caught in some sort of downward spiral that they can't escape.

The same for us guys who have been in the hobby. How many guys with wives can hobby, yet maintain a 'normal' relationship with their wives? How many single guys even want to pursue a 'normal' married lifestyle after being in the hobby?

You're looking for an answer where there is none or there is many. There are no absolutes in this hobby when it concerns the subject matter you are bringing up.

[Cabalfighter]

Been with a former T-dancer for 20+years. I've busted her she's busted me with others if you know what I mean. She really hasn't changed that much but neither have I. Still have fun and she still looks good.

[TexasGator]

Originally Posted by Nick11796

I wrote this to see if escorts who married and moved on had any bad experiences from guys who knew them in an earlier period or whether they were continually contacted by any former regulars who knew their real name.

Also out of curiosity I wondered how quickly these ladies adjusted to a different lifestyle.

I'm in total accord with SMI, and Sadly, the quoted explanation failed to answer his inquiry. If you're desirous of eliciting responses from ladies who married and moved on, this would hardly be the appropriate forum or venue.

At the risk of being presumptuous, I'll wager there are few, if any, former providers who've moved among active posters here.

Pray tell, what was the true intent of this thread?

[Eccie Addict]

Originally Posted by Nick11796

I wrote this to see if escorts who married and moved on had any bad experiences from guys who knew them in an earlier period or whether they were continually contacted by any former regulars who knew their real name.

Also out of curiosity I wondered how quickly these ladies adjusted to a different lifestyle.

No you didn't, the very title of the thread says you addressed the thread to hobbyist that married providers not the other way around.

[Nick11796]

My wife never used drugs and drank very little alcohol. She worked as an escort because she was pretty and the money was much better than anything else that she could do.

Despite living a good life economically, she did have some serious risks and threats from some clients.

Despite all the comments posted, I simply was looking to hear other experiences - from men and women. Also, my wife reads some of these sites although she is retired. She is curious about what is going on particularly as it involves people she knew.

[Energy]

It's pretty easy to find out if she is staying within the boundaries of the marriage. For a few hundred dollars you can find a good private investigator to monitor her travels for a couple of weeks. You'll know pretty quickly if everything is legitimate. If you're that worried about it, go ahead and pull the trigger. You'll get your answer, one way or another, and can move on with your life. Just be sure you can handle the answer, whatever it may be.

[hornfreak]

Well, if your wife still reads some of "these sites" maybe she has not moved on.