Reading a thread like this one helps me understand more and more why I'm here. I'm certainly not special by any means but I can see by the previous responses, I'm somewhat different.
Quiet often I'll ask a lady what she prefers. The vast majority of them say " doggie " is their favorite position. Skip ahead a few minutes later and ask them what is your best way to orgasm. The vast majority say it's " oral ".
Two completely different responses for two different actions.
I get that plus I understand why!
For me, it doesn't matter if I've just met a lady or she is a favorite. Nor does it matter how much time we're spending together on a visit. The financial part of it has no meaning at all.
For me, it's the BBBJ finish that's the most important. Doesn't always end that way but when it does, it takes my head off. I literally almost pass out sometimes. It's off the charts extreme. I take stimulants that promote this feeling. My legs tremble almost to the point of it being scary as I reach the point of release.
It's the way a woman's mouth feels and works if she knows how to do it. Her pussy certainly can't make the movements her mouth can nor the added in lips, tongue, and hand movements.
There's often the additional viewing pleasure of seeing the reaction on the girls face as well. Often, it's a smile, a giggle, some small laughter - that look of " Yeah, I did that. I made that happen. Look at you, you are so fucking happy now "!
I just lay there and moan and ask for a few minutes to gather my mind and body.