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Originally Posted by Lexxxy
I always get kind of weird when a Gent asks me to say I love him, I don't like it but I do it.
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That's depraved! These people are what I like to call the "Hobby Vampires." They seek to drain others emotionally. Those guys should go to match.com for that shit.
Weak-minded individuals on both sides should second guess their involvement in this hobby. That's not to say "love" never happens here, since that would dehumanize us all. I'm in a profession where relations with co-workers and clients is a big no-no, yet it happens all the time.
Fundamentally, if we should treat each other with respect, courtesy and empathy, the empty "I love you" should never happen.
P.S. If you need a provider to say "I love you" to feel some sort of self-worth that's just pathetic and needy. She'll never respect you anyway. Just grow a set!