Provider shows up and needs to shower first. your thoughts?

[Say What]

Originally Posted by gimme_that

Ok here's a question ladies...in regards to your incall......

Let's say your client arrives at your incall and he has to do the big number "2" before the session starts. He handles his business then proceeds to shower after his bathroom use. Is this all clock free as well? You know just in case there is traffic..............

And THIS is where the thread went downhill.

I can't believe that anyone would have a problem with a provider taking a shower when she got to your outcall. I appreciate it, just as they appreciate a gentleman that wants to be as clean as possible for them. I prefer to get my own hotel room and have the lady visit me. It gives me time to relax and freshen up before she gets there. I have had a couple of providers show up and ask if they can freshen up as well...great! It's called mutual respect...

[gimme_that]

Again I don't have any issue with ladies wanting to take a shower when they arrive. The only issue I have is when they arrive late which happens mostly in my case...... and the shower extending the amount of wait time for me.

[whitechocolate]

if the gal wants to take a shower, I will suggest I take one with her and the activites usually start in the shower and can get quite intense so a shower is a positive to me

[Ms.Fancy]

Well, you need to keep in mind. Some girls just don't sit around all day and wait on calls.
Me, I like to get out in the wind and let my hair flow if it's a beautiful day and I will get a call when I am out and about.
So, I inform them that I am coming from a day out and will show up soon.
I would ask them politely if I may use their shower to rinse off because I was not in the area of my house to do so.
Nothing is wrong with a lady asking to rinse off unless you don't feel like providing a towel, but then I mean nothing is wrong with a woman being dripping wet either!
Always welcome to join in too.


Rubber Ducky Your the one.. you make bath time so much fun! *heheh*

[zme]

I find it hard to understand why anyone would object to a provider taking a quick shower off the clock when they arrive. I know that AC's exist but in Texas the walk to my car can get me a bit sweaty. I would imagine that knowing that a provider puts a priority on hygiene can only be a good thing even if they already look clean.
Obviously if the freshening up process takes too long and you were not warned in advance that would be annoying but otherwise I would think that a shower by provider (or hobbyist) can only be considered good form.

[diordandridge]

why would her wanting to smell good/fresh be a problem? if she didnt take a shower, them you'd complain that she stank. so what is better?

[pyramider]

You just cannot please some people.

[smoothnsilky]

Well, dear, the odds are in your favor. There are only 2 of your choices that seem negative. The other 3 are more likely. It just depends on what kind of girl she is.

xoxo
Dawn

[rand]

While I agree with the general consensus of the thread (hardly any downside to a provider using your shower to freshen up), I think I can see why gimme_that might get frustrated with unexpected delays: if he has a hard stop. We don't want to feel rushed from the provider and it is common courtesy to reciprocate; however, there are times when scheduling conflicts make things unavoidable. At those times, I think, upfront communication can mitigate most if not all unmet expectations.

A question for the providers: have you ever felt rushed by the client? What was that like for you?

[Guest061613]

Hell no I don't have a problem with her taking a shower. If you have a problem with her taking a shower and thinking that she's doing it to cut into your time. You are seeing the wrong ladies.

You know, this reminds me of a story when I was younger and I was mowing this woman lawn. I had my shirt off and I was all hot and sweaty and dirty. She popped her head out the door and ask if I wanted to come in and drink a glass of water to cool off. I said, "No", "I'm fine, don't worry about it. I was young and dumb. That night I went out with her and found out that she had just came out of the shower. Behind that door she was wearing nothing and she wanted to get dirty again. I was naïve back then and I have learned a lot since then. Trust me, I will not make the same mistake twice.

[small package]

Look at the bright side, she could have just left a previous date..better than no shower

[Dakota123]

I agree with gracepreston.... it is soooo hot here in texas I refuse to let myself be sticky or anything before a session.... I wouldn't be comfortable....

[evark]

from personal experience, she was on the rag and didnt say up front

[zme]

Sometimes I think a provider just can't win. Some people complain if a girl has the faintest whiff of odor on her and some complain if she wants to shower when she gets in.
Personally I think a provider is just plain sensible if they want a quick shower after arriving at an incall with a new client. One can never be too certain about ones body odor after some time in the Texas heat and it is better to be safe.
Personally I do the same when I arrive at a providers incall even if I showered before I left. I think it is respectful and I think it is respectful in the reverse direction too. I would be even more thrilled if the provider let me join in the shower, that is a bonus rather than wasted time. But yes, if it is an excessively long shower that should not be on the hobbyists clock.

[SneakyCancer]

does it really matter? fresh is better. besides ask a lady not in the business if she approves of you sleeping with a paid woman,...she will say that is nasty, degrading, and disgusting. So the least you could do is let the woman shower. I mean think about it.....she is in the business to give it up,..u don't want the last guys remnants dried up on thigh while its your turn.