Not Your Typical Day with Cbarnett656, or Was It?

[jim1995]

I have nothing to add other than I want to meet Jade!

[scooter]

taint that the truth....

[Mr.Chan]

Originally Posted by Cbarnett656

This absolutely was a miscommunication on both our parts I think. Yes I am a newbie and made some mistakes which I have learned alot from these posts! I didnt know the terminology when puting rate in review, i shld have put $.25 for $125.

Mr.Chan, you are correct I was very flattered and Jade is a very good provider which I have stated but I wld not see her again because of what happened after our session.

Ginger, just because I messed up on the rate terminology does not mean I am lieing. I am not lieing and if that means some providers wont see me then thats my fault. I am new and have alot to learn about the hobby, I have learned alot today and know I will not ever make this mistake again.

These things happen. Communication is difficult in an environment in which we try to get as much information as possible without saying anything. I tell every new lady I see that when first we meet we are criminals, but from then on we are friends. I saw a provider whose session with me went as wrong as one possibly could. I made it my business short of posting a negative review to warn everyone away from her. She confronted me about it and I expressed my anger and concern about her practices. She maintained that what went on was a matter of a misunderstanding between her and her boyfriend. I told her that if she got two positive reviews I would stop my information campaign. She got the reviews, and when she offered me a makeup session I took her up on it. The session was good enough that I paid full rate and we each went away friends. She no longer provides in the area, but I have since never heard another word against her. It taught me a valuable lesson. There are few things in life that go right every time. When you throw out the bath water always check for babies, and cutting off your nose to spite your face will leave your glasses with nowhere to sit and ruin a career in plastic surgery.

[montaigne]

As usual, Honorable Chan, you speak/write with depth, tact, and wisdom. As one who has been guilty of muscommunication on occasion, and has suffered from it on others, I lament that society creates such obstacles. On a slightly lighter, perhaps more philosophical note, one wonders if, instead of "criminals," it is rather an act of civil disobedience, albeit not trumpeted as such. Perhaps i merely ramvle. (and, as one who has seen Jade, I do hope to again).

[Mr.Chan]

Originally Posted by montaigne

As usual, Honorable Chan, you speak/write with depth, tact, and wisdom. As one who has been guilty of muscommunication on occasion, and has suffered from it on others, I lament that society creates such obstacles. On a slightly lighter, perhaps more philosophical note, one wonders if, instead of "criminals," it is rather an act of civil disobedience, albeit not trumpeted as such. Perhaps i merely ramvle. (and, as one who has seen Jade, I do hope to again).

You do me too much honor, Sir, but you make good points. Jade is a remarkable young woman. I note that in her Backpage ad she uses the words affable and ebullient properly in a sentence. I suggest we might do well to attend services with her for the vocabulary lesson alone.

[Lazrback]

If you don't make at least one mistake when starting out in this thing we call a hobby, then you aren't trying hard enough.

I am proud that the members here were/are adult enough to discuss this calmly and teach us all a lesson/reminder of the pitfalls of speaking around a subject.

A smart person learns for their mistakes,, a wise person is capable of learning from others mistakes and keeping their own wounds to a minimum.

[chollister76]

Just an FYI I have contacted Jade to pay the additional moneys owed for her time. It looks like she wont see me again which I understand. I hope this doesnt ruin any future clients for her or future providers for me. This was just rookie mistakes made by 2 newbies.

[Ginger Doll]

Originally Posted by Cbarnett656

Just an FYI I have contacted Jade to pay the additional moneys owed for her time. It looks like she wont see me again which I understand. I hope this doesnt ruin any future clients for her or future providers for me. This was just rookie mistakes made by 2 newbies.

Kudos to you for trying to rectify the situation by doing the right thing.

I'm sorry if I was a little harsh on you in my previous post.

Hopefully, you will take something positive from this, and use what you have learned to make your future experiences in the hobby that much better.

[chollister76]

Ginger, nothing you said was harsh it was truth. I undrrstand now my error for the thoughts I had about donation. It does seem silly now to me, for me it was just the way it was handled, it made me jump to the defensive and I thought I was trying to get hustled. Once again a silly thought now. Thank you for your comments I took them for what they were, TRUTH.

[Ginger Doll]

Well, look on the bright side, CBarnett... Everyone knows who you are now, so your newbie-screening shouldn't be too difficult.

[chollister76]

WOW, you are right, I didnt even think of that. I was more worried providers wouldnt see me and even worse that I might have messed things up for Jade. Maybe I could see you one day Ginger

[Ginger Doll]

Originally Posted by Cbarnett656

WOW, you are right, I didnt even think of that. I was more worried providers wouldnt see me and even worse that I might have messed things up for Jade. Maybe I could see you one day Ginger

I'm sure something could be arranged...

I just love a happy ending! Pun intended.

[Mr.Chan]

Originally Posted by Cbarnett656

WOW, you are right, I didnt even think of that. I was more worried providers wouldnt see me and even worse that I might have messed things up for Jade. Maybe I could see you one day Ginger

And what you will learn from Ms.Ginger books do not obtain.

[Ginger Doll]

Originally Posted by Mr.Chan

And what you will learn from Ms.Ginger books do not obtain.

Flattery will get you everywhere, Mr.Chan. Well, flattery...and a white envelope. Lol

[Mr.Chan]

Originally Posted by Ginger Doll

Flattery will get you everywhere, Mr.Chan. Well, flattery...and a white envelope. Lol

Now, Ms.Ginger you know I need no instructions on the white envelope.