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Originally Posted by Eccie Addict
Maybe JaD can post a much more eloquent response sense he is so experienced in reading between the lines... lol
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Well..... since my opinion was asked for.........
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Originally Posted by ambernhouston
When referring to females who do not provide for money, why are they referred to as civilians and we are referred as providers?
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I think that you are thinking of it as an indictment on who and what you are...... I think a more appropriate thing to do is change the name of the non-providers other than "civilians"...... Maybe "amature" for the non-provider type would be more acceptable? Fact of the matter is, that if we do keep the current standards of "Provider vs Civilian" then I am afraid we have no choice but to put you in the Provider status as it currently stands......
While companionship is multi-leveled, there are distinctive guidlines when it comes to nomenclature distinctions....... As Pyro so bluntly put it, once you accept money, you have just become pro and therefore a provider....... Sorry....... websites, wage-scales, and other items as such only further confirm this reality......
Just as any profession, there are many levels or ranks of the profession...... whereas a sugarbaby while in essance is getting paid for services rendered, they are viewed on a much more casual scale which would put them more as an adjunct (provider) moreso than the providers on this board...... And then for some, there are the live-in GF, Wives or SO's that in many cases provide little or no services yet take massive amounts of money.... We call them Non-providing Black Holes!
While the moniker of "provider" may seem as though it is a less than desireable one, it is in fact a most favorable colloquialism as mentioned by our man boardman...... As for most men.... the greatest service provided by a lady.....well...... 2nd or 3rd best I suppose..... is that of simply walking out the door and walking away until we have need for each other again!
I hope this helps clear things up for you....
JaD