provider no show. what would you do ?

[ICU 812]

Bail! Make the attempt to keep it amicable ("I understand. maybe another time . . .", but there are a lolt of providers out there. Sure, make an effort to find out what went wrong, but put it behind you and move on. It may be that she is too high volume for you.
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I usually schedule meetings for the day time between 10AM and 3PM. Admittedly this has much to do with the circumstances of my life, I am retired and live with family. Never the less, this means that the provider is much less likely to have multiple hobbyists lined up ahead of you already.

Nothing is sure in life. Do a follow-up and check out whats-what on the no-Sho. At least she called. If the flake factor is too high, make a No-Show post here.

[Nicecreaman]

thanks guys.
she is well know for being flakey. im a little suurprise just coming in to it how often this happens. its pretty basic shit. factor your time , make a schedule. not that hard. the bigger problem here was the total lack of discretion and class. Dr. Jekyll and Hyde as well.

[Fizley]

Nice, the problem is providers are horrible with time and float threw life.

[TravelingRambler]

I just got a no show yesterday from our area's probable top provider. We had met once in the past (18 months ago) and she told me she needed like 30 minutes to get ready so was late to that.

Drove 2hrs 45 minutes. Day before texts came in and we confirmed. Day of appointment I text asking general location when I leave and then again when I'm close to city. Text again after scheduled time... no responses.

I don't get it.

Ended up just grabbing a bite and an AMP.

[bill sins]

Shit happens it is said. Probably better than showing up to a freshly fucked, worm out, cum loaded Ho. She actually did you a favor.

[yourdesire]

I don't schedule back-to-back so this is not an issue. People seem to forget that the gents are on pretty tight schedules usually. It doesn't matter who offers what if you have an appointment keep it. Of course things happen, I overslept for my 3 a.m. today but picked up the phone and called immediately to make other arrangements. Common courtesy and Common Sense do not seem to be so common nowadays

[burkalini]

I know it happens a lot but what irks me is the lame excuses you get from a provider. They must have the shittiest cars in the world because they break down daily. They also apparently can't drive for shit because they get into wrecks weekly. Their relatives die like once a week for years so the must have a million relatives. Other than that I believe everything they say

[Wile E Coyote]

I agree with all of what the guys said above me, but one other think is important........name the provider. Reason being so that when others do their research is seeing her for the first time, her name comes up with the excuse.

[Fizley]

Originally Posted by Wile E Coyote

I agree with all of what the guys said above me, but one other think is important........name the provider. Reason being so that when others do their research is seeing her for the first time, her name comes up with the excuse.

Better yet, leave a review, so it's attached to her handle. People can review your review three, five, even then years from now.

[papadee]

Originally Posted by Fizley

Better yet, leave a review, so it's attached to her handle. People can review your review three, five, even then years from now.

If it's a NS, it doesn't count as a review, and won't be attached to their handle. The handle & incident will be linked in the coed section if someone searches later.

[SlowHand50]

Some in this business have not yet figured out that it is a business, and skills at taking care of business are as important as the skills that are more fun. Move on to a provider who recognizes that reliability is important to her brand.

[Gotyour6]

Her pussy would have smelled like condom any way

[Underestimated]

What I dislike the most is the provider saying "I'll make it up to you, promise!" Then crickets, or.."Who is this?"

I've solicited advice from providers regarding this, and they have suggested that if I bring it up, your potential make-up date, might not be as good, or that if you bring it up, that they may talk trash about you in the ladies forum. A no win situation.

[VENUSNOVA]

Originally Posted by Nicecreaman

firt time meet.
so i get a text 15 min after my appointment is to start.
sorry I had another appointment go longer i won't be ready for another 45 min.
I got a good visual there. total buzz kill.

asked me if thats ok and I said no another time but would keep my appointment if its an issue.
and no response .

im I being an ass here?

Sorry about your buzzkill, I guess I can relate the thought of a hobbyist being late then telling me his other provider date took longer than she should have to finish up..🙄

Ya..that blows..and not in a good way..🙂

However, speaking from experience and as a provider..I have found that 90% of guys looooooooove that or at least my horndogs.

Given there is time for me to shower and change the bedding and have it look as if no one was in the room.

Seriously I have found that the majority of the guys are turned on so I'm sure she did not mean to be a his kill.

It's best to ask the provider in advance if she can kindly be honest in making sure your only Gent for that day, week, month or within 3 hours in order to make sure she understands your feelings prior.

I hope you have another chance with her💋

I almost cancelled appts with my now 5 year regs..and I'm glad I did not!!

Happy Safe Hobbying!

[Nathanflores65]

Originally Posted by BLM69

Take your$ where it's respected and appreciated, don't be a fool a give her another chance after that

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