The Catch-22 of screening.

[berryberry]

Originally Posted by spazzer

Berryberry...one of my go to girls was at one point one of the most sought after on here and has been on and off here several times in the past decade. Met her out amongst a group of mutual friends one night and she was distant. Talked to her a bit, found out she needed some help and I gave it to her. Wasn't much more than a couple hundred. Never gave her another penny although she got gifts from time to time and we still stay close. Taught me a lot

Yep - there are tons of girls out there that need some help on occasion and will treat you great. I too have learned there are a lot more fields to mine than just the typical provider route

[sexymaid_69]

True,
There are lots of girls who need help now and then.
These girls don't think of themselves as providers.

I'm talking about women who have chosen this career and take it seriously

[sexymaid_69]

True,
There are lots of girls who need help now and then.
These girls don't think of themselves as providers.

I'm talking about women who have chosen this career and take it seriously

[Gabrielle]

Originally Posted by bambino

All that’s true but it wasn’t good enough to be invited to a stupid lunch!!!!

Awww still crying about this bambino?
Sounds like you need a good grudge fucking to get over it?




Sexymaid_69, great post!

Violence against sex workers has gone up since FOSTA/SESTA. I personally would not want to spend time with anyone who isn't concerned with my safety. No screening = NO visit. Period.

MANY have NO problem providing screening info.

[bambino]

Originally Posted by Gabrielle

Awww still crying about this bambino?
Sounds like you need a good grudge fucking to get over it?




Sexymaid_69, great post!

Violence against sex workers has gone up since FOSTA/SESTA. I personally would not want to spend time with anyone who isn't concerned with my safety. No screening = NO visit. Period.

MANY have NO problem providing screening info.

I never cry about anything. I’m actually glad you didn’t invite me. She didn’t show. I would have been pissed if I took the time to go and only you were there. I was at your lunch two weeks prior. I had no need to meet you again.

[sexymaid_69]

Quite frankly, I'm not a bit surprised by the comments made by the board regulars..
We all know this is a man's board.

I also know it's only a small part of this world.

[Gabrielle]

Originally Posted by bambino

I never cry about anything.

Originally Posted by bambino

All that’s true but it wasn’t good enough to be invited to a stupid lunch!!!!

Originally Posted by sexymaid_69

We all know this is a man's board.

It may be a man's board but I also believe the following quote applies here...

"You see a lot of smart guys with dumb women, but you hardly ever see a smart woman with a dumb guy." ~Erica Jong

[sexymaid_69]

I know what,
Let's all just get together for lunch or something, break bread, tip a few, hug one another and sing songs of camaraderie

[iliveinhotels]

As a noob with no online presence, do you have any tips on how to be verified while limiting my own personal exposure? I fully understand the reasoning for screening, but giving out my work info makes me anxious. I keep seeing references to P411, but as far as I can tell, they aren't accepting new accounts.

[sexymaid_69]

Unfortunately they are not currently accepting new folks.
There are other options. PS group on Twitter for example.

[Gabrielle]

Originally Posted by sexymaid_69

I know what,
Let's all just get together for lunch or something, break bread, tip a few, hug one another and sing songs of camaraderie

I was just kicking around this idea for next Friday, Jinny.
I just cannot decide on breakfast, lunch, or strip club.

I'll set it up, if y'all want.
Yes, you will be screened if unknown to me
(I'll start a new thread later if there is interest.)

Originally Posted by iliveinhotels

As a noob with no online presence, do you have any tips on how to be verified while limiting my own personal exposure?

Almost everyone has online presence.

Choose wisely. Go through screening. Don't be a dick. Don't be a cop.

P411 requires your personal info as well.

[sexymaid_69]

Originally Posted by Gabrielle

I was just kicking around this idea for next Friday, Jinny.
I just cannot decide on breakfast, lunch, or strip club.

I'll set it up, if y'all want.
Yes, you will be screened if unknown to me
(I'll start a new thread later if there is interest.)

I'm serious, we used to enjoy our little gatherings, it's still summer time.
I do prefer a locale without strippers though,
After all I am an attention whore.

[Big Stig]

Originally Posted by sexymaid_69

I'm talking about women who have chosen this career and take it seriously

Are you suggesting that women who have not chosen this as a career or take this seriously somehow arent capable of providing a good time?

If you are, I wholeheartedly disagree. There are thousands of them on Seeking Arrangements.

[Cb2285]

Interesting topic. I disagree as well with the personal information as a way of screening. I don't see any justification for it from a screening perspective. How exactly does providing my personal info ensure your safety?

[Gabrielle]

Originally Posted by Cb2285

How exactly does providing my personal info ensure your safety?

Maybe you can ask Mya Madison?
Oh wait...you can't, she was brutally murdered. (just a few weeks ago)

Oh and then to top it off there was a string of text messages to several local providers to that area claiming they were next.

Clear it up any for you?