Female condoms

[KenMonk]

There is a chance of all condoms breaking its the risk we all take, and all ladies here take the risk of guys messing with the condom during a session, FC or not. Its a trust issue.


I would still like to try using a female condom, I just don't know of any ladies who regularly use them, or who would even be willing to try it. Like I said, most of the ladies I have spoken with outright refuse or dance around it.

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[big country]

Having an unopened box of condoms Is right next to to impossible to tamper with. I do not know what you married guys do but $1.98
is a small price to pay Alot of girls do not have a selection contary to popular myth "one size does not fit all'

[JRLawrence]

Originally Posted by MsElena

I thought I was seeing things when I saw this thread here in KC and the NE forum.

Any provider with half a brain should never use any kind of condom a client brings with him. Especially in KC. Some of the old ASPD folks remember the horror stories of a so called respected hobbyist who used to bring his own condoms, but little did the ladies know he tampered with them so they would break during the fun.

And if the guy is really cheap, he can recycle the used ones!

Really, everyone - that was NOT funny.

JR

[JRLawrence]

Originally Posted by big country

Having an unopened box of condoms Is right next to to impossible to tamper with. I do not know what you married guys do but $1.98
is a small price to pay Alot of girls do not have a selection contary to popular myth "one size does not fit all'

I can remember when there was only one size. Some guys had no problem with one size; other guys got embarrassed all often when the broke the "average size" protection. Now the come in all sizes.

JR

[MsElena]

Originally Posted by KenMonk

I wasn't aware of that story, but I have heard that ladies dislike clients bringing their own condoms. which I totally get. Ever since a lady told me she didn't have any after a session had already started, then basically told me its bbbj/hj finish after i paid for an hour I bring my own for backup.

I have only had to use them a few times, but I feel better bringing them just in case.

From what I know of you, you weren't around during the ASPD days. He was a fairly known hobbyist who was busted by a provider after the condom broke. Numerous providers got together and compared stories about him......turned out he had an MO of doing that. When confronted, he fussed up and then he disappeared. Is he still around? Don't know, don't care. Someone like that who is that reckless with not only his health, but the health of other ladies doesn't deserve to be around in life, let alone the hobby.


Oh and JR........ewwww to the joke. lol

[NoahScape]

Originally Posted by MsElena

I thought I was seeing things when I saw this thread here in KC and the NE forum.

Any provider with half a brain should never use any kind of condom a client brings with him.

And a really smart provider would never let a client use the penis he brought with him, either. Who knows where it's been?!?!

[royamcr]

What I don't get is the gals that will do a stripper slide all up and down a cock but then covers up for the penetration. Whatever fluid is on the outside is the same that is on the inside....

[NoahScape]

Originally Posted by royamcr

What I don't get is the gals that will do a stripper slide all up and down a cock but then covers up for the penetration. Whatever fluid is on the outside is the same that is on the inside....

Stripper slides come from, you guessed it, strippers.

Bare lady parts on a clothed guy (the classic lap dance) leads to bare lady parts on a naked guy (sans insertion) if the price is right outside the club.

I dunno. There's a whole porn genre called CFNM - clothed female, naked male - which is the opposite of a strip club lap dance, so who knows?

[KenMonk]

Originally Posted by MsElena

From what I know of you, you weren't around during the ASPD days. He was a fairly known hobbyist who was busted by a provider after the condom broke. Numerous providers got together and compared stories about him......turned out he had an MO of doing that. When confronted, he fussed up and then he disappeared. Is he still around? Don't know, don't care. Someone like that who is that reckless with not only his health, but the health of other ladies doesn't deserve to be around in life, let alone the hobby.


Oh and JR........ewwww to the joke. lol

No I wasn't around during the ASPD days. I completely agree with you though and I'm sorry some of you ladies had to put up with something like that.

I get the assortment pack condom depot every 3-4 months. I toss them in a drawer when I get them, grab a hand full when I go to an appointment, and toss them back in the drawer when I arrive home. Again, its something I totally understand and I am all for ladies doing whatever they feel comfortable with and nothing more.

[royamcr]

Originally Posted by NoahScape

Stripper slides come from, you guessed it, strippers.

Bare lady parts on a clothed guy (the classic lap dance) leads to bare lady parts on a naked guy (sans insertion) if the price is right outside the club.

I dunno. There's a whole porn genre called CFNM - clothed female, naked male - which is the opposite of a strip club lap dance, so who knows?

P411 has a little different definition of Stripper Slide, "Woman rubs her labia up and down mans uncovered penis".

[i'va biggen]

Originally Posted by MsElena

I thought I was seeing things when I saw this thread here in KC and the NE forum.

Any provider with half a brain should never use any kind of condom a client brings with him. Especially in KC. Some of the old ASPD folks remember the horror stories of a so called respected hobbyist who used to bring his own condoms, but little did the ladies know he tampered with them so they would break during the fun.

I was glad I had mine when a provider shows up without any and would BBFS because I looked clean.

[MsElena]

That shouldn't happen if you see a lady who knows how to take care of her business.

[malwoody]

Originally Posted by MsElena

I thought I was seeing things when I saw this thread here in KC and the NE forum.

Any provider with half a brain should never use any kind of condom a client brings with him. Especially in KC. Some of the old ASPD folks remember the horror stories of a so called respected hobbyist who used to bring his own condoms, but little did the ladies know he tampered with them so they would break during the fun.

Originally Posted by SinsOfTheFlesh

It has always been my policy not to use condoms brought by a hobbyist for the reason Elena just stated. Not to mention the fact that I have no idea how old the condoms are, nor any idea how they have been stored. If his condoms are more than 6 months old, they are more likely to break. If he's been toting the condoms around in his glove compartment, the temperature swings from sitting inside a car make the condom more likely to break.

You think the guy from years back is the only anti-Einstein to come up with that idea? When it comes to our health and safety shrugging our shoulders and saying "meh, his was an isolated incident" is downright stupid.

I don't know what your beef with lumping all guys into one group is. You have a habit of painting providers with a single brush all the time.

Kinda like the Mechanic who uses his own tools....the Doctor who uses his own instruments...etc...

I get it..

[KenMonk]

Originally Posted by MsElena

That shouldn't happen if you see a lady who knows how to take care of her business.

Sadly not every lady knows how to take care of her business. I'm sure several gents have their own stories of showing up somewhere and the lady pulling the "opps, no condoms", or "opps, just one condom so make that one count". It happens sadly.

I'm sure someone will say its the caliber of ladies I venture to visit with, but it has happened a time or two with ladies most would consider more than capable of taking care of her business.

Ultimately I like to consider it better safe than sorry. I would rather have them and not need them, than need them and not have them.

[BigMikeinKC]

Originally Posted by i'va biggen

Been carrying one in my wallet since 1950 think it is still good?

Probably about as thin as a Goodyear tire. Did you buy it in the winter so it has studs for her pleasure?