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Originally Posted by Torito
In this business (Remeber it is a business) as everywhere in life you will find people who meet your standards and those who do not. Enjoy those that do and ignore the rest. Makes for a happy life for me.
Torito
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absolutely fantastic advice, tho i might still keep an eye on them or remember them as i ignore them [so i wont be blindsided in the future].
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Originally Posted by Fritz52
When a provider who has a good reputation, such as Sabrina, is unresponsive, my assumption is that a personal matter has arisen that required their urgent attention, or their email is down. There is no point in shooting from hip, when you don't have the facts.
Sabrina, I hope your Mom is doing better.
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when i didnt receive a reply from sabrina for a possible meeting on the day she had to cut out, i figured something came up and she was not able to notify me about her change in plans. i did not expect she'd stop her life to leave an "out for an emergency" sign on her business door (tho that would have been appreciated). and tho i was a bit saddened that i wouldnt be able to visit her, i didnt get upset, pissed, angry, or vindictive. i didnt even write it up as a NCNS as we hadnt officially set an appt [we were still arranging].
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Originally Posted by Dogoffhisleash
There are always people that believe that they are entitled to whatever they want. It does not matter to them that you might actually have a life, it's all about them. You just need to cut them loose and forget about them. They will move on to annoying others
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another way i look at it is - it seems to me that some people didnt stop to think things thru and consider ALL the various possibilities that
might have come up. i'd say they are lazy but i wont jump to that conclusion.
this goes to the "honor" topic in the thread that chelsea recently started.
http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?t=50069
perhaps a person didnt take the time to educate/model/train their kids in courtesy, respect, and honor... or perhaps the person didnt take the time to practice those characteristics. in any case, i let it roll off to the side as i move on. sometimes, rarely, i suggest to them another way to live that incorporates some or all of those characteristics.