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Hellion437 · 07-09-2017, 09:58 AM

I prefer the technique side of things. Gagging, drooling and spitting are a turnoff. I like a slow, sensual edging type of session. Fingertips teasing my balls and abdomen, eye contact and a wicked smile as the tongue gently teases the frenulum, transitioning to long, slow sucks with an impassioned moan that transitions back to the teasing as I start to squirm. Stuff like that.

2short@desky · 07-09-2017, 10:50 AM

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Originally Posted by Analeese

Big difference I've noticed in my suitors being pleased orally....i fucking love do it....give me a cock to put in my mouth and I know exactly what to do

You have to actually enjoy cock sucking....its better received and given that way!

So true. I dated a dancer for a couple of years back when. She was unbelievable, and told me she wanted to set a personal record, made me cum 6 times in one night....fucking relentless. The last 3 shots were barely a drop

I finally asked her why she enjoyed it so much....her response. "Power!!!...I can feel the POWER!!...Nothing makes me feel like a queen more than having all your power and taking it from you. It's how I rule".

Permission Granted · 07-09-2017, 12:03 PM

The only thing I dislike is when a lady with no gag reflex thinks its cool to shove my cock to the back of her throat... If you're not going to take it DOWN your throat, hitting the back of your head from the inside feels about as good as violently hitting your cervix. I don't like jamming my dick straight ahead into a brick wall either...

You don't HAVE to take it all the way... the most sensitive part is right beneath the head.

Manny4Fun · 07-09-2017, 12:11 PM

Just yesterday I had the best head I've ever had IN MY LIFE, so I felt it obligatory to chime in. Review coming soon.
It was an hour long PSE style bbbj session. What made this the best ever however wasn't the time or PSE. It's all about the IOP and technique. This is what makes the difference between a mediocre and amazing blowjob IMHO. You can't just put your mouth on it to fluff my man meat, suck that shit like it owes you money! And she did! Even if it's only a few minutes of the session, you have to suck dick like you're goal is to finish me right then and there.

mustang91 · 07-09-2017, 12:26 PM

Teagunluv, I like your style. Can't wait to get back to D!

LustyBustyGina38FF · 07-09-2017, 12:59 PM

I like to start off my my ff's rubbing all over your cock and a little Russian or lot
then get my mouth on the head slide it in ,not to deep at first
but a good tease going on ,
nice and wet suck the head , teasing with my tongue under the tip of the head and work my way down to your balls , slip them in my mouth and tease away ,

then work my way back up to the head and bob up and down and then take it all in my mouth that's nice a went
love sucking on the head and teasing it ..

I like the guy on his back me on my keens with my tits hanging down and stare you right in the eye's as I suck you off or just a tease to get you wanting to fuck away ..
and
dang im getting wet just thinking about cock in my mouth

Eva Damita · 07-09-2017, 01:40 PM

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Originally Posted by MILFEater

Agreed the gal needs to be into it. If she truly enjoys it then it is going to be a good experience for both. I've had extended cock worship sessions due to the BJ being so good I skipped over FS activities.

Techniques as Eva mentioned are great. I like the slow deep with an experienced purpose. Lots of eye contact and attention to the sides and undersides of the shaft. Of course the occasional dirty talk comment as she transitions from sucking to move to the balls. Something else I like is trying to distract her while in 69...having her moan with my cock in her mouth and having her squirm on my face at the same time gets me closer to my goal. The point where it drives her nuts and she goes into head bobbing overdrive as she totters on the edge of orgasm has done it for me many times.

Oh BTW, Eva does have a hot water BJ that is quite good too...

Makes for more intense orgasms

Technique is quite important in this wonderful position. I say a gentleman has found a jewel if she can maintain technique while covering his entire cock...tongue on balls n' all!

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Originally Posted by LoveNHorny

Before I give my quintessential answer to this one, let me give a shout out to Lena for the Taraji P. Henson clip. I almost spit out my water that was so hilarious. Totally caught me off guard.

So, obviously there's a technique piece that has to be there, but what takes it to the stratosphere, building on Creeds comment (enjoyment), is being 'in the zone.'

It's that place you hear about where excellence occurs in any activity (golf, pitching, dance, studying for exams, work, writing, almost anything) when you're so absorbed in what you're doing you lose track of time and your senses become unaware of things going on around you. (You raise your head up and say,"holy shit! It's been 30 mins?! It only felt like 10!) "In..the..zone" Where creativity occurs. Which by the way, I have reached kissin pussy. When I was a younger more pretentious hack, I was quite the cunnilinguist. But I digress.

So that's it sports fans: you can teach technique to almost anyone who gives half a shit, but if in her head she can't stop wondering how long it's going to take you to cum...or whether or not she should interrupt cause she needs to pee, it'll never be top tier.

Thanks OP for always classin up the joint. Some of us appreciate that you're never a drama-mama. And if this is a ThreAD type thing, then so be it.

Regards,
LnH

I certainly agree that one has to get lost into what she's doing. It has to be complete pleasure for her as well to please. Many times gents will say their best BJ is a civilian relationship. With that said, it is important to have some type of rapport at least with your partner. The recipient can recognize when it is seen as a job. This is called enthusiasm.

Also thank you for your kind words.

Affectionately...

ScrewDriver01 · 07-09-2017, 01:56 PM

That's what I call "CONFIDENCE" in your skills !!! Don't let her go buddy !!! Stay in touch with her !!

Lol..

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Originally Posted by 2short@desky

"Power!!!...I can feel the POWER!!...Nothing makes me feel like a queen more than having all your power and taking it from you. It's how I rule".

RufusXavier · 07-09-2017, 02:23 PM

Things like FFing, DTing, gagging, and all that are great, adding to the visual or auditory pleasure of head. They help to prolong the experience for me, because they're mainly about the psychological part. The oral expert can't take my manhood (though she probably can)! But it's when the head expert starts ramping up the techniques that pay attention to all the sensitive regions that I lose it. The experts know how to bring an oral session to a close practically on command with their techniques. And I don't mind that one bit.

2short@desky · 07-10-2017, 09:18 AM

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Originally Posted by ScrewDriver01

That's what I call "CONFIDENCE" in your skills !!! Don't let her go buddy !!! Stay in touch with her !!

Lol..

We still see each other every couple of years, she lives in Vicksburg, Miss now, each raising all the kids separated our lives. She truly is amazing, even now. She has the most enticing and manipulative flirtatious sexual manner, and knows how to exploit her feminine attractiveness with total authenticity. She would laugh at porn stars calling them amateurs

She practiced pilates in her dancing, slow, purposeful, focused, mesmerizing in movement...no wasted energy. I used to be wowed how there could be 15 guys lined up on the border of the stage and she could make each one believe he alone was her choice. She could easily have been the Lesley Ann Warren of porn had she chosen to do so. She could pass for Lesley's twin sister. Amazing gal.

johnclark · 07-10-2017, 09:32 AM

https://www.pornhub.com/view_video.p...key=2128604555

Analeese · 07-10-2017, 09:41 AM

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Originally Posted by johnclark

https://www.pornhub.com/view_video.p...key=2128604555

That's one of my favorite videos

FunInDFW · 07-10-2017, 09:58 AM

Enthusiasm as if that dick is the source of something that's going to save your life when you push him over the edge. And then that not being enough to where you want/need another dose.

plove35 · 07-10-2017, 12:29 PM

I like it all, but its the lady and her want too. Suck my dick like you want to marry it

I enjoy mostly being teased. Kissing my thighs, drip ur spit down my cock, slightly stroke it, run ur lips up and down each side, lick.my balls, kiss it softly....run ur lips up and down again, then slowly take the entire cock down ur throat

And repeat....

Lena Duvall · 07-10-2017, 02:14 PM

Yes to all of this!

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Originally Posted by LoveNHorny

Before I give my quintessential answer to this one, let me give a shout out to Lena for the Taraji P. Henson clip. I almost spit out my water that was so hilarious. Totally caught me off guard.

So, obviously there's a technique piece that has to be there, but what takes it to the stratosphere, building on Creeds comment (enjoyment), is being 'in the zone.'

It's that place you hear about where excellence occurs in any activity (golf, pitching, dance, studying for exams, work, writing, almost anything) when you're so absorbed in what you're doing you lose track of time and your senses become unaware of things going on around you..