reverse review

[Alyssa_Dream]

Originally Posted by Lil Tex

Women Money & Egos not a good mixture

True..

[mydallas1]

Ya I didn't mean full reviews. Something short. Like did you see this person?. Would you see them again, if no why not? Would you be a reference for this person? Any additional comments?

Something short and sweet like that. Probably save everyone time.

[Old-T]

Originally Posted by Lil Tex

Women Money & Egos not a good mixture

While I agree with that statement, listen to the loud voices of those who get apoplectic each time it comes up. It isn't the women whose egos seem dead set against the possibility. If women ever did start reviewing us I expect there are a few of the uber-machismo posters who would be desperately seeking a very tall building to jump off. And that would diminish the perverse humor this board can occasionally provide. still, there are some ladies on here who I suspect would write some fantastically entertaining reviews and I would love to read them. On balance I would be willing to put up with the loss of some overly sensitive MCPs in exchange for reading the reviews some of the ladies would write.

I also agree with the comment above that many women, if given the opportunity to write reviews, would not see it as time well spent--just as I suspect most the men who are members here do not write reviews. I would never expect to see reviews REQUIRED, and whether the majority avail themselves of the opportunity should not be a major factor in whether the opportunity is available.

[Alyssa_Dream]

Originally Posted by mydallas1

Ya I didn't mean full reviews. Something short. Like did you see this person?. Would you see them again, if no why not? Would you be a reference for this person? Any additional comments?

Something short and sweet like that. Probably save everyone time.

That I could do , just thinking of a long review.. seemed a bit tedious, but the short questions I could handle that one..

[Guest061415-2]

Originally Posted by Alsaadream

hahaha!! TigerSports... Hmmmm... I am putting yours up TODAY!! JK
I think for business that would be a BAD CALL.. Not to write a Review on you, but for anyone... FYI, if it got any better....

So I did ok? LOL

[Guest052616]

Originally Posted by mydallas1

Ya I didn't mean full reviews. Something short. Like did you see this person?. Would you see them again, if no why not? Would you be a reference for this person? Any additional comments?

Something short and sweet like that. Probably save everyone time.

still wouldnt do it.. even it if it was in the ladies only area. I can see girls taking advantage and running to the guy to tell him or god forbid u do a bad review on another girls ATF... had that happen and she still isnt over it.

Ill just wait for a lady to ask for a reference check and keep the goods and the bads to myself until then. And even then, she will just know if he is safe (why not if he isnt), clean, short changer.. etc. But nothing personal about OUR sexual time.

Hell... even the reference checks are hell. Give a guy a bad reference and then you get stalked and harassed for way too long. I had it happen a while back and then now again with an idiot who stalked me, showing up at hospital when i was there. And then when i told the girls who reference checked him.. they ran and told him what i said.

If it was like P411.. yes. It takes just a few seconds to click the okay.

[Alyssa_Dream]

Originally Posted by Devon Derriere

still wouldnt do it.. even it if it was in the ladies only area. I can see girls taking advantage and running to the guy to tell him or god forbid u do a bad review on another girls ATF... had that happen and she still isnt over it.

Ill just wait for a lady to ask for a reference check and keep the goods and the bads to myself until then. And even then, she will just know if he is safe (why not if he isnt), clean, short changer.. etc. But nothing personal about OUR sexual time.

Hell... even the reference checks are hell. Give a guy a bad reference and then you get stalked and harassed for way too long. I had it happen a while back and then now again with an idiot who stalked me, showing up at hospital when i was there. And then when i told the girls who reference checked him.. they ran and told him what i said.

If it was like P411.. yes. It takes just a few seconds to click the okay.

Seems that has happen to me lately.. I dont even post in the women's part NOT ANYMORE.. UGH Really does no good.. :/

[Bigh1955]

This topic has been beat up from 15 different directions over the last 3 or 4 years.
If it was a good idea, there would be reviews on the guys - and oh, what a nightmare that would be - so it hasn't happened.

[mydallas1]

Originally Posted by Bigh1955

This topic has been beat up from 15 different directions over the last 3 or 4 years.
If it was a good idea, there would be reviews on the guys - and oh, what a nightmare that would be - so it hasn't happened.

Obviously it's an idea that fills a need because it has been brought up so many times and so many ways for so long.

[Melissa Nash]

this option of reviewing the Gents is now available on NR. Personally I will provide references in private and never publicly as in a review of any meeting that may or may not have occurred. IMHO bad idea and not in the best interest of myself or my Gentlemen friends.

[Guest052616]

Originally Posted by mydallas1

Obviously it's an idea that fills a need because it has been brought up so many times and so many ways for so long.

i could bet my left nipple that the only thing that would come out of a girl doing a review is her own self promotion. Hell, some guys do it for their own self promotion (fist pumping, banging fists against chest, warrior/caveman, look at me!)
And they dont need them to make money. Can you imagine if girls did them?
I personal could not care less and in many cases do NOT want to know what a guy does with another BCD. I want to know if he is safe, clean, and a gentleman and i only do that via private reference checks.

[Island]

Speaking of self-promotion, there are girls who go into the co-ed's and post reviews of just them and other girls. In my eyes, that's shameless self-promotion. At least throw a guy in there if you must and it be a positive fun review instead of being an obvious grab at attention.

My ones I'll be posting in another realm involve only me and a gent and they are great ones that just rev up the memories and things I know that the gents in there would love to read and hear about.

[mydallas1]

Originally Posted by Devon Derriere

i could bet my left nipple that the only thing that would come out of a girl doing a review is her own self promotion. Hell, some guys do it for their own self promotion (fist pumping, banging fists against chest, warrior/caveman, look at me!)
And they dont need them to make money. Can you imagine if girls did them?
I personal could not care less and in many cases do NOT want to know what a guy does with another BCD. I want to know if he is safe, clean, and a gentleman and i only do that via private reference checks.

I prefer the reference checks. I don't want that many people knowing my business. It just doesn't help when one wants something right then. I also don't want my reference checks to know what I might be doing and with who. Its just a tough system.

[anaiis]

While there is no denying the benefit of knowing beforehand the personality of a client, it would be a definite indication to a client that you as a provider may not respect his privacy. As providers, we are subject to critique for obvious reasons. But I don't see the reverse going over too well or being of any attribute... A man treats each woman different and I'm not one to judge an individual by someone else's experience or opinion...

[Island]

Originally Posted by anaiis

While there is no denying the benefit of knowing beforehand the personality of a client, it would be a definite indication to a client that you as a provider may not respect his privacy. As providers, we are subject to critique for obvious reasons. But I don't see the reverse going over too well or being of any attribute... A man treats each woman different and I'm not one to judge an individual by someone else's experience or opinion...

I completely agree with you. Privacy must be kept at all costs. I also agree that there shouldn't be any place for us to actually write "reviews" on the gents, even if they are private, they will still know by the review it is them and nothing is EVER really private in info-shares, there is always someone who leaks for some reason or another.

That's why:
1. There will only be positive Domme/sub, BDSM, and other things that fit into another realm when I post, and I will not be posting as reviews, more like stories.
2. NO names will be involved.
3. The guys who are my regular hardcore Domme/sub, BDSM, Fetish, etc regulars aren't even on Eccie that I know of, I've been seeing them for years and most of them don't even know my new handle from from over 5 or so years ago.
4. They will only be posted in Another Realm as it is specific to that nature and NOT in my home forum.
5. I will only be posting the most fun, and memorable of my experiences basically because I've been wanting to write them out for awhile and I know some of the gents will like reading them, as they are in Another Realm for one or more of these certain reasons.