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Originally Posted by Dweezle22
I realize this isn’t the most politically correct activity. And I fully respect any woman’s decision to have complete control over her body and who she sees intimately. But, I’d really like to hear a truthful thoughtful reasoning why she will not see black men. To my knowledge, I’ve never heard a reason from a provider. We can conjecture all we want until then, I suppose. Is it as simple as not wanting to see men with facial hair or too obese? Or is it something much deeper and rooted in systemic issues?
On another note, I’ve never ever been turned away because I am white. And I fully understand that is a privilege.
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I had a talk with a provider before about not seeing black men. Very candid convos. The basis for her rule was black men are larger than average and typically really like to pound it out. So if, for example, she sees 3 to 4 blacks a day...after a while she needs a few days to recover. Those days off are lost revenue for her. She will make exceptions to the rule, especially if the black man isn't large, but not often.
That I totally get. But I think most that have that rule, don't have the same rationale.
