Conflicted.

[tigerbeemer]

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There are a lot of reasons to stay married that you have to consider ... like kids and stuff. If you love her then stay with her but you need to take care of business elsewhere and not feel guilty about it.


What Dee said.

Tigerbeemer

[LA Man]

Albundy married men not getting it enough keep the hobby alive. Can tell you sex with my SO is just a bonus, if I relied on her Jr wouldn't remember what to do!

If a married man or one with a significant SO that loves them doesn't think about them before or after meeting a provider he's lying.

So enjoy the hobby and love your wife too!

PS. There are providers that are married too....

[alexmehof]

If all else fails.... buy some wine and cheese and get her drunk..... That is my secret weapon.

Alcohol.. helping guys get laid for hundreds of years!

[alexmehof]

Chocolate, strawberries and champagne. Just buy something that she will drink.... Mardi Gras Vocka..... u get the point.

[relaxation]

Try bringing $200 in an unsealed envelope to her nightstand anytime you're ready for it. YMMV...

[GlobeSpotter]

Originally Posted by Arverni

Ask Miss Kay how often she gives it up for Phil.

She's on my TDL actually.....just sayin'

[myprototype]

dont worry al im in the same boat

[holmes50]

I had a youngster who works for me a couple of weeks ago tell me, "Mr, John you know what the best birth control is? Wedding Cake." I went to his wedding in April of this year. That's messed up.

What works for me, If I'm in a committed relationship I don't hobby and I do realize there is a huge distinction between being single in a relationship and being married. Having said that, I make it known once I stop getting it in the relationship it will end and I will move on.

If your married, Relaxation has a point.

How can something feel so good cause so much shit is beyond me.

[Arverni]

Holmes is spot on.

I don't know if the equation "married = less sex" is actually the norm ... but I DO know that there are plenty of married people who have sex like rabbits still ... even after decades of marriage.

Not all of us are in this because we don't "get it" at home.

[albundy]

Thanks for all of the replies. Really, I was just kind of venting. It's not the type of thing I can talk to anyone I know about and it would be awkward. Just wanted to write it down somewhere and get on with my life I guess.