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Originally Posted by Guilty Pleasures
So in answer to the OP's question the fair rate for an over night appointment..........
If she has nothing listed for an over night stay, then assume it will be her current listed hourly rate.
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As a client, assumming her her rate multiplied by whatever you see as her hourly rate is sort of weird to say. I know you will probably get kicked out of the provider sisterhood if you say otherwise, but I beg to differ when no rates are posted.
If I inquired about the possibility of an overnight with a provider....and she simply said "multiply my hourly rate times 12 baby" I wouldn't see much incentive to see her for a larger amount of time...because their no monetary motivation or deviation in her rates for more time. We could skip the dinner date and id book a three or four hour for all that foolishness....
I think for ladies who don't have rates posted usually it work more in the hobbyist favor. Let's be real there are only a small group of hobbyist who book overnights, and usually depending on the lady even a smaller percentage of ladies who actually have done some or have reviews for it.
What id suggest a hobbyist do if he's inquiring and she doesn't have a posted rate is to let her make an offer first rate wise. Some ladies will try to get you to make an offer first or even use your ref (other overnights) as their pricepoint. If her rate is slightly above what you want to pay, ask her what amount of time x amount of dollars can get. You might be surprised how ladies will work with you, especially if you have a tendency to always book multihours. She might just as well ask you what you feel is fair, and what she offers may be far less than what you were willing to pay.
In most cases ladies with posted rates are moreso concrete in their rates, but are willing to work with you in some cases.
They key in both cases is being honest about the type of session you want and expect, versus what she can accommodate.
I think as a courtesy though, depending on her initial hourly rate, looks, menu, rep, and demeanor via phone your offer to a lady with rates 250 or below for a ten to 12 hour should not below 800. The backpage ladies tend to jump at figures moreso around 800 to 1100.....but there seems to be more associated rish with seeing ladies with no rep.
You typical established independent with reviews and a website and such, typically between 800 and 1400 seems to be the window. I'm sure it varies slightly city to city, but in down south cities 1,000 is not a bad start point to negotiate.
For ladies who have rates 350 or above don't even start at anything below 1300...of course if no rateis posted.
The rates ladies post could be for a number of reasons.
1.Could be simply wear and tear of the appointment and the prospect of a larrge portion of time she can see other clients.
2. She could need sufficient rest and preparation before spending a large block of time with someone she's not famaliar.
3. She may incorporate babsitting money if she's a single mom and need to push her schedule around to accommodate it. Might mean slight loss of income with other jobs.
4. Her rates maybe lower than your accustomed because she expects a dinner date. Maybe her rate is more because she would rather not do dinner dates, and would rather stick to "real" less srutinized topics stuff. Maybe a less sexually enthused session than the time seems to motivate, I.e. less work.
But in some instances, ladies I will see BCD for an overnight, I might not feel comfortable going out on a dinner date for discreetness sake. Maybe her look doesn't warrant outside activities (maybe too attractive, or not your particular type in public)
Generally I talk to ladies prior to inquiring about rates of what I expect, what I provide, and figure out if she can accommodate.
I don't consider anything less than ten hours an overnight....definitely in the case of the dinner date. When you break down the eating and socializing(if you can tolerate it), digestion, sleep and/or naps your really only getting the equivalent bcd time of maybe three or four hours.....if for instance her overnight rate was 8 hours.
Ill take getting freaked on an overnight, over getting fed on a dinner date anyday. Doesn't mean its not always an option, just sometimes I'm in the mood for other things. And I book late nights anyway, but drinks and food are availiable.
