Dealing with the hobby

[RJinLR]

Originally Posted by Ginger Doll

You couldn't possibly imagine... When it comes to things that affect me, I generally just cut the source of negativity off by blocking them & discontinuing contact. I do tend to get a little more passionate about it when it's a good friend of mine and I know for a fact that it's false, and undeserved.

I understand your perspective, but I think this back and forth was less about drama and more about directly combatting the slander.

I was speaking in generalities, not about this particular situation.

In my relatively short time on here, there have been many times where things were said or done that really upset me...and none of them were things said or done directly to me, but to other people. I know much of that is just the nature of the game...but as you say, when you see something said or done to someone you are fond of, it's harder to just brush it off.

I also agree with shortblkguy about the way people conduct themselves on the internet in general. I've seen way more hurtful stuff posted online than I've ever heard said to my face or in front of me to another.

[Danielle Reid]

Originally Posted by RJinLR

I was speaking in generalities, not about this particular situation.

In my relatively short time on here, there have been many times where things were said or done that really upset me...and none of them were things said or done directly to me, but to other people. I know much of that is just the nature of the game...but as you say, when you see something said or done to someone you are fond of, it's harder to just brush it off.

I also agree with shortblkguy about the way people conduct themselves on the internet in general. I've seen way more hurtful stuff posted online than I've ever heard said to my face or in front of me to another.

It's honestly not that serious dude. Ive gotten my ass handed to me from both sides, you don't see me crying about it. It takes thick skin to be in this business. Hell it takes thick skin to be on the Internet. Some have it, some don't.

I was told to avoid Ginger even after I started hanging with her. Those men are just bored and love the drama, then come on to the board on claim "grrrr I hate drama!" What the fuck ever.

[Lolahhhhh]

Well, I came to you Danielle and asked so there wasn't any drama on our lunch date. I don't know you. I don't know shit about you. How was I supposed to know? That's not starting a rumor. That was the last time I thought about people saying you have a pimp. And I haven't heard about it since. And no ginger, I will not put these men on blast. Get real. And I asked her, and I quote, "I've been told you go everywhere with a pimp? I'd like to meet you but I'm not wanting any drama from him." How I supposed to know she doesn't have a pimp? I know NOTHING about her. At least I asked instead of assume.

Back to the TOPIC please this isn't about Danielle's supposed rumors

[Ginger Doll]

Originally Posted by Lolahhhhh

...And no ginger, I will not put these men on blast. Get real.

I wasn't the one who asked, but your refusal to name them does make me wonder if they actually exist.

Originally Posted by Lolahhhhh

Back to the TOPIC please this isn't about Danielle's supposed rumors

Originally Posted by Lolahhhhh

I've learned so much about human interaction thru this site. People are hateful. People are rude. People are nasty to each other. My main question is why?

Your TOPIC is about people being hateful, rude & nasty in the hobby. I thought that the nasty rumor about Danielle was a primary example. So we're asking why, too.

[Lolahhhhh]

Originally Posted by Ginger Doll

I wasn't the one who asked, but your refusal to name them does make me wonder if they actually exist.





Your TOPIC is about people being hateful, rude & nasty in the hobby. I thought that the nasty rumor about Danielle was a primary example. So we're asking why, too.

They will not be named for obvious reasons. I thought you were a smart girl. Come on now ginger. Let me explain to you, I expose them, I lose their business and it makes me look awful. Some men want to be anonymous.

Idk why someone started a rumor about her. I personally have too many things to do than to concern myself with her. School takes up most of my time. Maybe you should find out who started and ask them for yourself. My topic is why people are assholes. Not about Danielle sad pimp rumors. Not about all the horrible hobby things. Contribute to the TOPIC ginger or start your own thread.

[Ginger Doll]

Originally Posted by Lolahhhhh

They will not be named for obvious reasons. I thought you were a smart girl. Come on now ginger. Let me explain to you, I expose them, I lose their business and it makes me look awful. Some men want to be anonymous.

You're right, it's a much better option to allow them to remain anonymous while they slander Danielle and cause her to lose business, instead.

Originally Posted by Lolahhhhh

My topic is why people are assholes. Contribute to the TOPIC ginger.

I am.

[Lolahhhhh]

Originally Posted by Ginger Doll

You're right, it's a much better option to allow them to remain anonymous while they slander Danielle and cause her to lose business, instead.



I am.

I'm sure her business is just fine. I feel that you're just trying to stir drama. TOPIC PLEASE

[Danielle Reid]

Spreading false rumors with no evidence or resources to back them makes you look awful and childish actually...losing the business of two men that clearly are spreading lies about providers for their own benefit goes against the whole "Look out for each other" thing...just saying

[Lolahhhhh]

Originally Posted by Danielle Reid

Spreading false rumors with no evidence or resources to back them makes you look awful and childish actually...losing the business of two men that clearly are spreading lies about providers for their own benefit goes against the whole "Look out for each other" thing...just saying

So you are accusing me of the "rumors" lol youre a silly girl, like I care to spend my free time talking about you. The men will not be named, end of story. You're making a mountain out of a mole hill. Shows your maturity.

[Danielle Reid]

Originally Posted by Lolahhhhh

So you are accusing me of the "rumors" lol youre a silly girl, like I care to spend my free time talking about you. The men will not be named, end of story. You're making a mountain out of a mole hill. Shows your maturity.

I already know who they are and one of them lied to me saying he didn't start the rumor. But the truth came out on its own. Don't worry, everyone that PM'd me now know the rumor starters. Game over

[Imsecretlyaninja]

Originally Posted by Danielle Reid

Spreading false rumors with no evidence or resources to back them makes you look awful and childish actually...losing the business of two men that clearly are spreading lies about providers for their own benefit goes against the whole "Look out for each other" thing...just saying

Danielle, I'm just curious if you can point out the thread where Lolahh said you have a pimp?

[Danielle Reid]

Originally Posted by Imsecretlyaninja

Danielle, I'm just curious if you can point out the thread where Lolahh said you have a pimp?

You can ask Lolahhhhh...or just read her confession posted multiple times in this thread and the one that prompted this one

[Imsecretlyaninja]

I did she... She told me she asked YOU PRIVATELY she said she has never said to anyone that you had a pimp that she asked you because someone told her... I don't understand why you are angry at Lolahh? Because she won't tell you who told her? Maybe she doesn't want to be a "snitch". Discretion and trustworthiness are very important aspects of the hobby aren't they?

[Lolahhhhh]

Originally Posted by Danielle Reid

You can ask Lolahhhhh

Danielle now you're just being ridiculous. Do I need to post our private messages? I never once assuced you of having a pimp. Nor did I start a FUCKING thread about your pimp. You're a sad bored woman.

[Lolahhhhh]

Originally Posted by Imsecretlyaninja

I did she... She told me she asked YOU PRIVATELY she said she has never said to anyone that you had a pimp that she asked you because someone told her... I don't understand why you are angry at Lolahh? Because she won't tell you who told her? Maybe she doesn't want to be a "snitch". Discretion and trustworthiness are very important aspects of the hobby aren't they?

FUCKING THNK YOU. Glad I'm not the only one who understands.