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pyramider · 10-11-2012, 04:46 PM

Look at that ... I actually got a real rule correct. Its a Happy Day for me.

rcinokc · 10-11-2012, 05:31 PM

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Originally Posted by Deva Divine

If you respect the women you see, why not use the system in a way that protects them, and gives them the dignity of having a defense, if they happen to get arrested, and they would like to take the charge to trial by jury? How can the mystery of what it is like to be with a particular lady, be such a big turn off if everybody knows that YMMV anyway? Are men's erections more dependent upon each others erotic revelations than the women they see?

Since there is nothing illegal about paying someone to have dinner with you, and what two consenting adults do in private once they have met and become friends is a private matter, it is a mandatory detailed sexual review system that makes escorts vulnerable to getting arrested, and guarantees they will be convicted.

The most shameful and Talibanish aspect of a sexual detail review system, such as this one, is that the men exploiting it are not the ones who are getting arrested for exercising bragging rights in a manner that puts the women at risk. Why is it necessary to sacrifice the women in such a manner? I would truly like to understand this.

Are the men who use these boards unable to get an erection for women without whetting each other's appetites? Is that why this is necessary?

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Originally Posted by Deva Divine

There is no way to prevent guys from posting reviews. The way I found out about these kinds of places was that somebody posted a review of me, and I didn't even know it. I had saved up my money and decided to take some time off from work. So I let my ad expire. But the business kept coming in and coming in and coming in. I couldn't figure out where it was coming from, because I had no ad. This went on for several weeks and I finally asked somebody how he found out about me. He said ASPD! I never even heard of it. He showed me the website and the review. I was shocked and amazed. While I appreciated the business, I was extremely anxious about my involuntary participation in a website that can serve as incriminating evidence, simply by virtue of the association. A website that prohibits people from posting discrete reviews and demands incriminating details be included in order to comply.

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Originally Posted by Deva Divine

They presume you are guilty, based on association with those who are blatantly breaking the law, and arrest you. Then it is up to you to prove you are not, which eats up your profits. After spending three days in jail, getting kicked in the head, coming out with a scar on your face, and paying for a lawyer, you could have made more money working at a regular job and having sex with the boss in order to get a raise... The incentive to work as an escort is quickly diminished when factoring in the heightened risk, which makes me wonder is there is a subconscious drive to put the women out of business on the part of reviewers, or whether erectile function is simply and naturally dependent upon man's sense of entitlement to boast about his exploitations. Hence my use of the term "talibanish"... if the former.

IMO you are way overthinking this. When you decided to be a hooker, you bought in to a certain amount of risk. If the risk has begun to outweigh the reward, you may want to consider another line of work.

Deva Divine · 10-11-2012, 06:11 PM

I think it should be legal, but if it was, the government would be obligated to regulate, and that would be a nightmare. It is because so many participating have an "in the face and up yours" approach "we don't give a damn about your laws" that obligates LE to dutifully make the rounds sweeping. I salute you for rendering government generally insignificant, and simply suggest that a more discrete approach would have the equivalent effect of decriminalizing something that never should have been criminalized in the first place. When the offering of time and companionship became publicly synonymous with alphabetic sexual acronyms, of course the government had to get involved. I say the least government is the best government. Why give them an excuse to snoop around when it isn't necessary? Or is it? Can you guys get an erection without whetting each other's appetites? Why won't anybody answer that question? Makes me think, maybe not. No shame in men loving men. I think it is sexy and hot. But if all this must go on in order for men to feel confident enough to make an appointment, then why aren't they busting the guys for bragging about all the illegal purchases they have been making, instead of going after the women they are gossiping about? I had a friend who was targeted by the cops and hounded out of her home state, because of her wonderful reviews. Sometimes they are more trouble than they are worth. And when someone tried to post a discrete review of me that would not incriminate him nor me, he was bashed and hounded for more details. Your response: quit if you don't like it. That sounds to me like a misogynistic response. Would you prefer that these kinds of services did not exist, so you wouldn't be tempted?

kymberlane · 10-11-2012, 06:39 PM

Sounds like you need to remove yourself from any site that would review you. Make yourself utr. No reviews, and stop complaining. There is NO ANSWER to your question. Your question is ridiculous. You make it as if the hobbyist is out to get you or ruin you. Sheesh get over yourself, go work at walmart or something, less risk

Deva Divine · 10-11-2012, 07:13 PM

There are none so blind as those who enjoy it when the horny toad spits in her eye. What percentage of these guys would ever post another review if the cops rounded up the men and charged them, regardless of whether or not they had the money to hire a lawyer and get the case dismissed? That women still exist who are willing to endure the nonsense without complaining speaks volumes about the human condition.

As for why I won't quit the business, go away, and leave you all alone, as you wish, so you don't have to think about what you are doing deeply...

Someone I know is studying to be a nurse. She is doing some kind of practicum caring for a 90 year old man who is very irritable. They told her that she got the assignment because she is young and pretty and old men like that and they were hoping it would make him a little more easy to deal with if he has a young pretty nurse. I couldn't help but wonder what her husband thinks of the nursing school prostituting his wife in such a manner, and if they were going to pay her any extra for being eye candy for the old fart. But I didn't ask.

When I was getting a university degree there was a female tenured marketing professor who gave us a lecture about how to get a job. Her advice to the young women in my class was to wear knee length skirts and show some calf because men enjoy it and there is nothing wrong with providing them with the pleasure. She was the same professor who said that tenured female professors only made 70% of what the tenured male professors make.

I raised my hand and said that I had serious ethical concerns about prostituting my legs in order to get a job, and that didn't think it was a good idea for professors to encourage young women to exploit themselves in such a manner, and I also wondered if the men doing the hiring only pay women 70% of what they pay men because they have less respect for women, because they are willing to exploit themselves in such a manner...

After that, the professor made me rewrite every paper I turned in. And then gave me a D on the second one. Until our resume assignment. I happened to be working as a seasonal tax examiner that semester, and made mention of this on my resume. When the professor read that I worked for the IRS, she got really nervous. From then on I got an A on everything I turned in.

I figure that professor probably made about $70K per year. A friend of mine is an attorney, but she doesn't practice law. She works as a high class prostitute. And she makes $300K per year. The professor could have quadrupled the amount of money she makes. She was pretty enough. She advocates exploitation of feminine energy.

I wonder why she would prefer to exploit her beauty for a job, instead of simply charging for sex. Is shame preventing her from maximizing her income? Fear of sex? Fear of getting arrested? Is it because she only has to show her calves in order to keep her professor job? Seems to me in a lot of cases, "real jobs" are just cheap tricks for prude prostitutes...

Guest102513-1 · 10-11-2012, 08:21 PM

There are some crazy and outlandish stuff said in the Nat'l Sandbox regarding politics

But saying a review system is "talibanish" blows the Sandbox stuff away

And as far as your instructor giving you A's just because you worked for IRS....what a waste of an instructor, and I'm sure the same would go for his/her class

And all this indignation regarding ladies using their "assets" in an interview, coming from someone who has chosen to work in the hobby...absolutely rich!!!!

Deva Divine · 10-11-2012, 08:31 PM

Sounds like you are calling me a crazy hypocrite!
If so, I would like to fall in love with a client and get married.
How about you? Have you heard a rumor that whores make the best wives?

Tylus_amore · 10-11-2012, 08:31 PM

Wow.?!?!
She's just trying to see how to try to remain anonymous as possible.. Everyone that is in the hobby wants some type of protection... I mean how can we go from calling Women providers to "when you decided to become a hooker"... Without providers the hobby wouldn't exists at all.

Just because someone expresses concern about the hobby doesn't mean she is trying to ruin everyone's fun.....
A lot of my guys will not leave reviews because the fact that they know LE are known to be present Furthermore, they do not wish to get caught up in anything illegal..

It's funny how we don't leave a paper trail when paying for appointments in cash but all of the information about the session is posted online forever......
That is something to be concerned about. Anyone who says they don't care are probably lying..

I think that we should have reviews and I think that providers should be verified.. however, I don't think that its fair to badger someone for being concerned..
if the hobbyist didn't care how come a lot of people have in their signatures of everything on here being a fantasy....

kymberlane · 10-11-2012, 08:41 PM

Sounds like a pissed off hooker with no business. Sorry lady but just based on your photos on your showcase and what they "imply" LE could make many assumptions about you and jam you up. You obviously have NOTHING else to do. You also sound as if you are jaded and have anger issues with men--and if you feel its wrong to use sexuality in order to make money, get promoted, or even a job, ya need to step back and realize your a fucking hooker! A hypocritical one at that. Ya know lady, I have awesome tits, and a very pretty face, nice curves, educated, and smart to boot. Your damn right Ill use every bit of it to get my piece of the pie, in the hobby and in RL! Anyone woman who says she never has is a LIAR!! We learn this when we are young, making sweet eyes for attention and blowing kisses.

So if providers have reviews that gets them the biz, so be it. Im beginning to think you got busted and angry your the only one that went down, at least according to a description you gave. If that is the case, thats your problem, not anyone elses. If so then maybe you shoulda called your lawyer hooker friend to defend you in court. Sure she has reviews out there if she is making what you claim and would know the legality of it all.

I think Walmart takes online applications, just sayn...

Guest102513-1 · 10-11-2012, 09:03 PM

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Originally Posted by Deva Divine

Sounds like you are calling me a crazy hypocrite!
If so, I would like to fall in love with a client and get married.
How about you? Have you heard a rumor that whores make the best wives?

Regarding on the rumor mentioned...in a word, NO. But then again, I hear johns make lousy husbands.

Now, now...I did not call you crazy. As far as the second part, if the shoe fits......

CarolinaGent · 10-11-2012, 09:07 PM

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Originally Posted by Tylus_amore

Wow.?!?!
She's just trying to see how to try to remain anonymous as possible.. Everyone that is in the hobby wants some type of protection... I mean how can we go from calling Women providers to "when you decided to become a hooker"... Without providers the hobby wouldn't exists at all.

Just because someone expresses concern about the hobby doesn't mean she is trying to ruin everyone's fun.....
A lot of my guys will not leave reviews because the fact that they know LE are known too be present and they do not wish to get caught up in anything illegal..

It's funny how we don't leave a paper trail when paying for appointments in cash but all of the information about the session is posted online forever......
That is something to be concerned about. Anyone who says they don't care are probably lying..

I think that we should have reviews and I think that providers should be verified.. however, I don't think that its fair to badger someone for being concerned..

For someone so concerned about the LE risks associated with the hobby, it's a bit odd that she shows her face....

Tylus_amore · 10-11-2012, 09:16 PM

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Originally Posted by CarolinaGent

For someone so concerned about the LE risks associated with the hobby, it's a bit odd that she shows her face....

I'm an erotic/ fetish model so everyone already knows my face are you talking about the provider who started the thread or me... because i never said that I didn't want reviews.. If she has concerns then she has concerns.. and why does she has to be badgered for them since she already has apparently gotten in trouble for it before?

Tylus_amore · 10-11-2012, 09:25 PM

I still don't understand from trying to be understanding about something some one said how the heck do you get thrown in the fire... But I guess it's not a big deal because this is all just a fantasy conversation anyways.... LMMFAO....

Tylus_amore · 10-11-2012, 09:31 PM

I don't think reviews should be labeled as ... talibanish... but whats wrong with being concerned... at the end of the day no one wants to get caught... with their pants down... or panties off.. lol..

CarolinaGent · 10-11-2012, 09:33 PM

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Originally Posted by Tylus_amore

I'm an erotic/ fetish model so everyone already knows my face are you talking about the provider who started the thread or me... because i never said that I didn't want reviews.. If she has concerns then she has concerns.. and why does she has to be badgered for them since she already has apparently gotten in trouble for it before?

I was talking about the OP.