Request, not request

[~Arriana Grey~]

Originally Posted by lovelyevelyn

Um, flinde... No girl here is OBLIGATED to see anyone just because this is her chosen profession or side hustle. If a gal doesn't want to see a specific type of person, that's her choice, period whether you gentlemen like it or not. There are plenty of other women who don't care like myself. Find another gal to accommodate. This isn't Sizzler, we have the right to refuse no matter what the reason.

+1

[ck1942]

Thing is ... all of the above is a two-way street

imo,

Ladies who screen thoroughly will almost always ask the vouching ladies for race, age, body build, data, as well as other certain preferentials, such as timeliness, cleanliness, facial hair, etc.

Gents who research thoroughly will already know most of those data above as well, plus, again, imo, data about MSOG, DATY, K/DFK, smoking, incall conditions, "management," and a host of other possibilities.

While I certainly emphasize with the OP, it is everyone's responsibility to accomplish as much as possible research in as timely a manner as possible.

Those who skimp on research usually end up either surprised or disappointed or both.

= = = = =

All that said, there are ways for gents of any race or racial mixture or economic background, or for heavy Smokers, and especially older guys in their early 70s with facial hair and pot bellies, etc., to meet ladies who might otherwise categorize who otherwise may profess to deny boudoir pleasures to certain "types." Some clues exist in my signature data.

[Eccie_award]

Originally Posted by moebeedick

They're not putting it because they don't want to seem racist. I mean, why else wouldn't they put it in their Sig if they can go into detail about several other things in their information area. I've never once stated my race in an introduction. It's only come up if they've asked. I mean it is 2016 isn't it, lmao! Hi my name is moebeedick and I'm black, pleased to meet you.

I agree with you wholeheartedly OP. Sucks already to an extent that we only get to look at the first page of the menu because of NBA policies and then to have that happen. Wow! Smdh.

*steps down off soapbox*

Yeah. Sadly not the first time, but no one asks for a description so how can i mentally get in the habit of that. It's awkward, for one because no one else has too. But im not here for that just would like them to post it

Originally Posted by big35hurt

Don't think too much about it. Just move on to next lady who will gladly take your money. Haha

Lol, i moved on quickly, but bro i did alot of waiting for this person. So a mental note was engraved.

Originally Posted by ~Arriana Grey~

(Perhaps, even the first due to personal choice and the fact I don't like a lot of people in my incall at once)
Lol.

It's not being shallow or racist, it's about preferences and past experiences. Maybe it wasn't the best choice this woman made being in the hobby. But as far as I know, (and could hear from the other room) her clients made her VERY happy Oh-ver and Oh-ver and Oh-ver again

Lol, but if her past experiences inclined her to gain a certain view about a group of people of a certain race, then she is still racist. Im sorry. You can't prejudge a group of people of same race without it being racist.
BUT AGAIN, I DONT UNDERSTAND, WHY HIDE IT. POST IT. Be proud.

[Eccie_award]

Originally Posted by SA Angel

I understand where you are coming from. I know it feels unfair that you have to put in more work than your fellow hobbyists.....but putting a brief physical description in your initial PM or text will save you hassles in the future. Ex. "I'm mid 40's, AA, and 5'10" Plus, if it's not necessary the lady will still appreciate having an idea of who will be knocking on her door.

Good luck out there and stay safe.

You and your beautiful soul. Lol

Originally Posted by flinde

That's worse than racist. That's racial profiling, then racist. If a gal is that traumatized she should not be doing this for a living.

I can't believe that no AA policies are tolerated, here or anywhere else.

haha its the 50s, in the hobby world. Plessy V. Ferguson reinstated, lmao.

Originally Posted by SARufus

What if the gentleman is not AA, but mixed?

Im mixed as well, light skinned and all that other good stuff. Some put no AA or AA mixed. No parts of it.

Originally Posted by willyjack

http://eccie.net/showthread.php?t=1460905
http://eccie.net/showthread.php?t=1049536

These are the opposite of what you want, but since these ladies do SA also, it could save time.

Appreciate it l, Will, my good man.

[Eccie_award]

Originally Posted by ck1942

Thing is ... all of the above is a two-way street

imo,

Ladies who screen thoroughly will almost always ask the vouching ladies for race, age, body build, data, as well as other certain preferentials, such as timeliness, cleanliness, facial hair, etc.

Gents who research thoroughly will already know most of those data above as well, plus, again, imo, data about MSOG, DATY, K/DFK, smoking, incall conditions, "management," and a host of other possibilities.

While I certainly emphasize with the OP, it is everyone's responsibility to accomplish as much as possible research in as timely a manner as possible.

Those who skimp on research usually end up either surprised or disappointed or both.

= = = = =

All that said, there are ways for gents of any race or racial mixture or economic background, or for heavy Smokers, and especially older guys in their early 70s with facial hair and pot bellies, etc., to meet ladies who might otherwise categorize who otherwise may profess to deny boudoir pleasures to certain "types." Some clues exist in my signature data.

I did my research, i looked on her page and in threads. The provider informed me, upon arriving to her room, she doesn't see AA and that it is on her eccie showcase. In all candor i was genuinely confused because I looked at her showcase one more time before walking up to her room. It's literally still not on there. So, did i fail?

[Camille Fox]

Originally Posted by Eccie_award

I did my research, i looked on her page and in threads. The provider informed me, upon arriving to her room, she doesn't see AA and that it is on her eccie showcase. In all candor i was genuinely confused because I looked at her showcase one more time before walking up to her room. It's literally still not on there. So, did i fail?

If you don't call her out and tell others who she is, yes, nothing will change.

[Dick Fitzenwell]

Unfortunately the Black Man has been stigmatized & stereotyped in society & it shows on the board as well. Regardless of background, education, employment or vouches we all get lumped into one pile. It doesn't help that we are located south of the Mason Dixon either. Some of these ladies & gentlemen have that "good ol' boy" mentality.

Best advice to the OP is tell whatever lady you wish to visit your race, age & penis size in your introduction.

Much respect to the ladies & gentlemen of the board who are color blind. It's the 21st century for crying out loud.

[moebeedick]

So the happy medium is for providers who do not wish to see AA then they should put it somewhere on their showcase, ad, sig, etc. And hobbyists should state their race in introductions. Problem solved!! I should run for county judge!!

[Eccie_award]

Originally Posted by Camille Fox

If you don't call her out and tell others who she is, yes, nothing will change.

Oh, so non discrete is the way to go?

[Little Miss Cuntcakes]

Originally Posted by Eccie_award

Could the no AA providers please line up to the right and CONSPICUOUSLY place no AA in your ads and on your showcase, instead of allowing gentlemen to waste time and gas, just to get rejected at the door. Sure, i giggle about it as well, later.

Did she tell you she did not want to see you because you're black?

[SA Angel]

Originally Posted by Eccie_award

Oh, so non discrete is the way to go?

I think what she's trying to get at is that holding someone accountable for wasting your time is the only way things change. Accepting the idea that providers are flaky/rude/immature/or just terrible at TCB only breeds more of the same. Too much falls on the man researching. He should be able to look at a few reviews, read a showcase or website and have a good idea of what to expect appearance, menu, and TCB-wise.

I honestly would suggest the guys keep a thread in the ML to keep track of the ladies that for the most part have a NBA policy. A NBA thread in the ML would help the gents not waste their time. Heck even a NCNS thread in the ML would be a good idea for the guys who don't want to stir the waters in co-ed.

Just my .02

P.S. Thank you for the compliment earlier, it's nice to hear something besides "nice tits" sometimes.

[big35hurt]

Originally Posted by lovelyevelyn

Personally, chubby guys are more fun to bounce on.

Oh really. Haha. And I love a lovely lady on top of me. Super hot. Hmmm

Yep. I have met some amazing ladies who didn't have an issue with my chubbiness. They find out I am easy work for them. Haha. But. Everyone has their likes and dislikes. But I agree. We must start holding people accountable for their actions. This is an information exchange site. Be it good info or bad. Everyone can make up their mind when facts come out.

[Camille Fox]

Originally Posted by Eccie_award

Oh, so non discrete is the way to go?

if someone had informed the community about this, you, for one, would not have wasted your time. This has nothing to do with discretion. You started this thread.

Originally Posted by SA Angel

I think what she's trying to get at is that holding someone accountable for wasting your time is the only way things change. Accepting the idea that providers are flaky/rude/immature/or just terrible at TCB only breeds more of the same. Too much falls on the man researching. He should be able to look at a few reviews, read a showcase or website and have a good idea of what to expect appearance, menu, and TCB-wise.

I honestly would suggest the guys keep a thread in the ML to keep track of the ladies that for the most part have a NBA policy. A NBA thread in the ML would help the gents not waste their time. Heck even a NCNS thread in the ML would be a good idea for the guys who don't want to stir the waters in co-ed.

Just my .02

P.S. Thank you for the compliment earlier, it's nice to hear something besides "nice tits" sometimes.

Exactly. Couldn't have said it better myself.

[Eccie_award]

Alright all you guys make sense, i just didn't want to bash a provider. How do i go about doing that? Advise me

[Jislander]

Originally Posted by big35hurt

SA Angel has a great comment. I always give a description of myself as I ran into a provider who wouldn't see me when I first started hobbying as I was too "Chubby."

Hhmpfff, guess I've heard it all now. Guess providers won't see us gents now because we're to chubby, next it'll be because we're too "Married".