I've been known to indulge in a fine bottle of cognac or champagne to share with friends... as well as in fine lingerie which I may also share with a few select friends
I don't consider myself deprived, but my other hobbies are not that extravagant. Hiking, diving, post-grad degrees... lol.
I had an ex girlfriend who couldn't seem to make it a month without presenting me with an $800 spa bill. I didn't see it as unusual. I've watched my mother habitually drop $500 on just hair. I consider those things hobbies, but apparently some women consider them lifestyle choices. I suppose I consider the international flights I have to purchase to see any of my family members as a lifestyle choice.
~Mme X~