What to do with a lush?

[Valerie]

Originally Posted by Naomi4u

Ditto. If a guy is paying to be with me why not be professional and show him some respect? Well said Val.

Exactement mon ami!

[London Rayne]

Um 12 step program?

[discreetgent]

Originally Posted by ClairJordan

Getting sick is just no fun at all!! I can't believe she wouldn't give a heads up. I don't want anyone around me when I am sick. I believe we, as companions, have an obligation to offer you our very best selves. As much of a bummer as it would be to sit in a hotel room sick, I would cancel.

Both times it happened it was an extended date; lady was fine when we started but got sick during the time together. Not much one can do at that point other than tending to her needs. I just thought of it as having a complete GFE lol

[Ansley]

Have I shown up for a date drunk? I don't remember, but I sure wouldn't rule it out. Did I ever drink to excess and hang from chandeliers with my date? Oh yea.

I have also been sick on an over night. The gentleman was very kind and understanding. He had to leave in the morning but alerted people that we both knew that I was in pretty bad shape. Yes, he allowed me to keep my gift.

[London Rayne]

I don't drink to get stupid when someone is paying me, but I have done so on a few occasions with my girlfriends. I find when I drink on dates, I tend to forget about my priorities that need to be taken care of after our time is over...so 2 is my limit, and always after the play time.

I also don't feel I need alcohol to perform, being that is the easiest part of this business.

Can't recall ever being sick on a date, but afterwards.

[Naomi4u]

I don't drink enough to get drunk in my personal life. I probably drink maybe once or twice a month and sometimes not even. I have a very "natural high" and I don't like the taste of Alcohol that much to make it a habit. I have heard of ladies doing it but I couldn't imagine getting drunk with a client. This is still a job and it should be treated as such in that sense. Some women can get drunk with a client and still be aware of their surroundings, I can't. :/ At least I don't think I can....

I have actually went to a date with a really BAD toothache. That was NOT fun. I doubt I'd ever do that again.

[Ansley]

Originally Posted by London Rayne

I don't drink to get stupid when someone is paying me, but I have done so on a few occasions with my girlfriends. I find when I drink on dates, I tend to forget about my priorities that need to be taken care of after our time is over...so 2 is my limit, and always after the play time.

I also don't feel I need alcohol to perform, being that is the easiest part of this business.

I had traveled with this man before. I wasn't too worried about any priorities being taken care of. I was in very safe hands and we were both there to have a blast. Besides this man, only two other people in the hobby have seen me drink.

[awl4knot]

It has happened twice. The first time was a complete disaster and even though three years have passed the memories are painful.

The second time the provider had a few happy hour cocktails before my early evening appointment. She was a little bit "happy" but the odor of alcohol was on her breath and it bothered me, even though I am a social drinker. However, the session was otherwise quite good. In reading some of her posts I saw that she mentioned having drinks more than a few times, and I wonder if alcohol is a continuing issue with her.

Both ladies are in the late 30's-early 40's age bracket and are normally stellar performers.

For performance related issues I tend not to drink before an appointment, but I will have a glass of wine during the intermission of a longer session.

Awl4knot

[WTF]

Let's all meet for Happy Hour and discuss....





last one standing pays the bar tab

[Ansley]

Originally Posted by WTF

Let's all meet for Happy Hour and discuss....





last one standing pays the bar tab

Nope, I don't like that deal at all. I'll be stuck paying for your mango ritas.

[London Rayne]

Originally Posted by Ansley

I had traveled with this man before. I wasn't too worried about any priorities being taken care of. I was in very safe hands and we were both there to have a blast. Besides this man, only two other people in the hobby have seen me drink.

Oh well in that case..heck yea! I mean for shorter dates during the week, I don't find it feasable or when touring. I certainly have a few on longer dates but I get drunk quite easily, being I don't do it often. I am never around alcohol unless I cater a party or have friends over. Or when I go shopping at the Riverwalk which serves it right there in the middle of the mall.

[WTF]

Originally Posted by Ansley

Nope, I don't like that deal at all. I'll be stuck paying for your mango ritas.

The hell you will...I'll have you on the floor quick enough!

[Naomi4u]

Originally Posted by WTF

The hell you will...I'll have you on the floor quick enough!

This is too funny WTF.. Haaa!

[Ansley]

Originally Posted by London Rayne

Oh well in that case..heck yea! I mean for shorter dates during the week, I don't find it feasable or when touring. I certainly have a few on longer dates but I get drunk quite easily, being I don't do it often. I am never around alcohol unless I cater a party or have friends over. Or when I go shopping at the Riverwalk which serves it right there in the middle of the mall.

I'm never around it either. I haven't drank in over four years. I don't mind if my dates have a couple during dinner though.

[Ansley]

Originally Posted by WTF

The hell you will...I'll have you on the floor quick enough!

Yea right. You keep talking that talk. What, are you mad that after all this time I revealed you like those girlie drinks.