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wanttohavefun · 07-27-2012, 08:57 PM

For me it's more experience than age.

For example you take two women both 28. Woman A has been on her own since her teens and has a child, Woman B lived in her parents house until she was 24.

Woman A was the first provider I saw regularly and Woman B was a coworker. Both were hotties and had legs that never stopped. I met both around the same time.

With woman A we had kids about the same age, had some similar issues in our life. We had great conversations in addition to the other activities. I would give her tips on her home DIY projects and dealing with contractors. She'd help me understand how to fill the "mom" role that I had just been put in. I never felt she was "young enough to be my daughter" because of the amount of life she's already lived.

Now Woman B, with her I fell into a mentor role and other than some brief flirting when I first started that job, I never got that interested in her. With her I feel "the old enough to be her father" vibe and any attraction felt wrong.

I don't really aim to see any particular range of ages, more look for good review/something interesting in the ad and see if we "click" during the first visit and that determines repeat visits. I have had a bit more luck and return interest (the "hey babe when am I gonna see you again" texts) from the providers in their 20s than I have for the women closer to my own age.

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Originally Posted by kymberlane

I know one lady who is late 20's and takes something to zone her out in order to deal with it.

Kymberlane,

I'd hate that, I'd rather be called a geezer and told no, than spend an hour with a zoned out provider.

A while back I had a visit that felt flat and I think it might have been something like that, definitely not a great time.

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Originally Posted by Tiffani Jameson

She took one look at him and turned around. Why? Because he had grey in his beard.

To use "Just for men" or not to use it, that is the question. When I see younger providers and have a beard, the grey hairs get treated or the beard gets shaved off for that reason. I spend too much time on eating healthy and in the gym to have the first impression be of "some old guy".

wildwooly1 · 07-28-2012, 12:26 AM

I personally prefer older providers from 30 to 50 but i have seen some younger than that and some of the younger ones were just too young for me..nothing in common and just no click.
But there has been an exception to the rule every once in awhile and you meet a young lady that is more mature than her years.
I dont think it is so much age as it is maturity but i still try to stay with providers within 15 to 20 yrs of my age .
But thats why i was asking ...i know most younger providers would prefer not to be with an Old Geezer but ive seen some that would hit on their own grand father...and dont mind being with older men because they are usually easier and more polite than the younger guys.
So if a younger provider is willing to see a man her fathers age and is in to it ..its her choice !
Some view it as a dollar is a dollar and dont care how they make it so i guess its just different strokes for different folks.
Thats why i wanted to know an honest oppinion from the younger providers Do you mind the older guys and if not ...why?

Tiffani Jameson · 07-28-2012, 01:38 AM

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Originally Posted by wanttohavefun

To use "Just for men" or not to use it, that is the question. When I see younger providers and have a beard, the grey hairs get treated or the beard gets shaved off for that reason. I spend too much time on eating healthy and in the gym to have the first impression be of "some old guy".

Boo.
Honey, grey hair on a man is just sexy. Period. The whiter the better. There is nothing wrong with a man aging gracefully. Especially if it's obvious you take care of yourself.

Krystal21 · 07-28-2012, 02:00 AM

I dont mind older men. I like that they can be nicer and easier to get along with.

Nicolet · 07-28-2012, 02:03 AM

As a mature provider myself, I have had lovers from 21 on up to 70. I hear similar comments from them as I have read here. Personally I love ALL men! The most important thing to me is that the men treat me with the respect and humor that I give to them. Both of those qualities are essential for me and my lover to fully enjoy each others company. Having a true desire and positive attitude to be in the hobby is what makes it a wonderful experience for both people.

GabrielaSweetheart · 07-28-2012, 02:10 AM

I actually have always felt more comfortable with older men than the men around my age. Something about you mature experienced men that know exactly what they wanna do with you......,

Guest030824 · 07-28-2012, 02:39 AM

Nicolet you sweet thing you could talk the birds from the trees.

bellababy · 07-28-2012, 08:11 AM

To me age is just a number but I agree with Lovely Lilianna, if you know you are not able to get hard, let us know

so we can handle it with the appropriate manner.

Older Gentleman know exactly what they want and will voice it, and I like that...I mean how can you go wrong I mean your being told exactly what makes him climax, but not only that that shows confidence which is sexy all in itself.

Cherie · 07-28-2012, 09:22 AM

I love the older Tiger's and all the playing that goes with it. It's the art of the game that makes for the fun besides a real Tiger is only as good as the Tigreress that's with him!!

Don't get me wrong though, I love playing with the cubs and teaching them the ways of the wild. Have an AWESOME weekend all.

wanttohavefun · 07-28-2012, 09:35 AM

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Originally Posted by Tiffani Jameson

Boo.
Honey, grey hair on a man is just sexy. Period. The whiter the better. There is nothing wrong with a man aging gracefully. Especially if it's obvious you take care of yourself.

Tiffani,

Thats the fun part about seeing people multiple times or interacting with the on this board, you get to learn about them and what they like. That comment right there boosted you from my "dang she's hot" category to "I gotta watch her profile and hope we both end up in the same area sometime" group.

Pink Floyd · 07-28-2012, 09:47 AM

At 65 I am dating a 32 & 26 year old who both want to marry me, and I am not rich. I was dating a 19 year old before them. I have been inactive in the Hobby for 10 months because of this. Retired once and drawing a pension, I still work full time in a high tension job, and I have no plans to retire, although I have thought of Costa Rica to be around the Ticas. Erections are no problem(thanks to Viagra LOL). I don't understand why a young man is in the Hobby, there are so many girls out there. Last year I was with a girl who just turned 18 and it felt kind of strange at first because I could have been her grandfather. Women my age bore the shit out of me, I don't want to hear about their grandchildren, their dogs or religion. The same girls I liked 10, 20, 30, 40,or 50 years ago are the same ones I like today. I don't believe in the hereafter so this is my only twirl at life.

With all this said, understand that my ATF provider is 48, and she is so special that I will see her again and again. Sometimes we just go out to lunch OTC and talk, I am so into her. She has so much class and always shows up dressed to kill. She passed the provider stage on our first meeting, and the sex is amazing.

Nicolet · 07-28-2012, 10:36 AM

At 54, I have the grandkids. I don't have a dog, but I do have an ig. But, when a gentleman lays down his hard earned donation for 1 to 3 or more hours of my time, there isn't much talking. At least at first! And while we are basking in the afterglow of our passions, my mind is not on the grandkids or the ig!

Tiffani Jameson · 07-28-2012, 01:52 PM

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Originally Posted by wanttohavefun

Tiffani,

Thats the fun part about seeing people multiple times or interacting with the on this board, you get to learn about them and what they like. That comment right there boosted you from my "dang she's hot" category to "I gotta watch her profile and hope we both end up in the same area sometime" group.

Thank you, darling! Hopefully our day will come...

waverunner234 · 07-28-2012, 05:13 PM

You can't be sure about age. It's my experience that providers who give their age as 31-35 are actually in fact 41-45

Eccie Addict · 07-28-2012, 06:07 PM

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Originally Posted by kymberlane

I am going to get blasted for this but what the heck. I think its sick if a guy sees a girl who is young enough to be her father, or even worse, grandfather. Ive never talked to a younger provider who bragged about liking the older men, but they do it because they need the money. I know one lady who is late 20's and takes something to zone her out in order to deal with it. So from my interaction, Im going to say nope.

I myself have a NGA policy. Im a cougar and I like the younger guys--which by the way they(cubs) have no issues with an older woman. I advertise as a cougar and find it odd that much older men hit me up. Im like dude I would have to be 90 in order to be a cougar to you lol.

To each his own, but there is something wrong with a guy who wants one as young as his daughter or granddaughter...just sayn

While I can respect your perspective and I get what you are saying totally but a lot of people say there's something wrong with a gal who wants to sell sex for money

Not saying that's how I view things, just saying there's something wrong with all of us lol.