Getting Fed Up....

[pyramider]

Originally Posted by Laura Lynn

. If he still has questions, then he can find a polite, non vulgar way of asking.

For example:

Dear Ms Lynn,

Where are your taint photos posted?

Sincerely,

pyramider

[L.A.]

Anyone can say they are anyone from anywhere. If they don't PM you from here or contact you thru P411 it could literally be anybody claiming they are somebody from here.

[Laura Lynn]

Originally Posted by pyramider

For example:

Dear Ms Lynn,

Where are your taint photos posted?

Sincerely,

pyramider

Why yes, that is a perfect example. 😉

[grean]

Originally Posted by Chung Tran

it is common for ladies who have no menu listings in their showcase.. like you. we spend money for activity, and when we don't know what you offer, we ask

Descriptive Menus is a big step in the right direction.

If you have a no list put it in your ad too.

If a guy wants a BBBJNQNS but you don't do CIM say so in your profile or ads.

If you do greek, list it. If you don't, say so.

Russian?
COB?

Cum Gargling?

ATM?

Facials?

CBJ only?

Pegging... (cmon, how awkward would that conversation be?? Better to just list it so he knows.)



Make it so guys can call and say that he wants to see you for on hour on Thursday at 7. And you can reply with a yes or Wednesday at 8 would be better. There isn't anything illegal or offensive in that exchange.

If a guy is throwing down 2 or $300, he doesn't want to get to the session and find out you don't do something he wanted.



The best way is through a descriptive menu.

[KittyLamour]

[DFW_Ladies_Man]

Well guys screen too--I try my best to do my research on the ladies I try to see first to avoid having to ask a million questions. If your menu or rates are confusing, I have no choice but to ask. I do however try to ask via PM and if everything checks out as far as my screening goes, then I get your phone number. I don't mind a little senseless flirting through text, but its usually with someone I have seen regularly.

I would guess the OP is talking about something more severe in her cased it could be tied to her BP ads not necessarily the Eccie clients.

[Butch Cassidy]

Originally Posted by KittyLamour

That is funny as shit!

[KittyLamour]

Originally Posted by Butch Cassidy

That is funny as shit!

That's real life!! I'd rather laugh with the sinners than cry with the saints any day...

For real though, many of us providers can relate to what Lisa is speaking of and yes, it can be extremely annoying... it's not just backpage, I find it much more prevalent with this site. Guys who think they can abuse their privilege by taking advantage of providers by sexting to get their jollies off for free with no intention of setting an actual appointment and paying the provider.

It is not the guys' fault necessarily, it is a result of the market being over-saturated with providers and desperate females letting guys get away with it because they are so needy to set appointments they are afraid to piss a potential client off. Guys wouldn't be doing it if they weren't getting away with it.

While we totally appreciate you Gentlemen Hobbyists out there, some of you fall beneath the standard.

#slobbyist

[tortpicker]

Originally Posted by Laura Lynn

Why yes, that is a perfect example. 😉

He cracks me up.

[tortpicker]

Originally Posted by crazy4lisalove

How many ladies are getting a lot of the guys off this board texting you and asking you personal vulgar or sexual things that you do in the session I mean just being out right Blunt on the text because I am getting tons of them and from this board and I am getting super tired of it how many more ladies is this happening to???

Most providers have everything in their ads or showcase, or if you look at a few reviews you should be able to find out what they do. If I see a provider without any of this info it usually throws me a red flag and I stay away. I only see seasoned well reviewed ladies anyway, never know when LE is going to be that new provider in the WW. Just block those that are asking the bad questions or take your number out of your ads. I only converse through pm's until we are setup anyway. Just my 1.25 cents worth.

[grean]

Originally Posted by tortpicker

Most providers have everything in their ads or showcase, or if you look at a few reviews you should be able to find out what they do. If I see a provider without any of this info it usually throws me a red flag and I stay away. I only see seasoned well reviewed ladies anyway, never know when LE is going to be that new provider in the WW. Just block those that are asking the bad questions or take your number out of your ads. I only converse through pm's until we are setup anyway. Just my 1.25 cents worth.

It's very frustrating when we send an appointment request with date/time and desired length of appointment and then, from a lady who you would think would know better, asks what we want to do.

[NatalieRaine]

Originally Posted by Laura Lynn

I don't have my number post for just that reason. When I first started, I had my number posted on my showcase and my phone was blowing up all hours of the night with explicit and lewd texts. I decided real quick to not give it out until after screening.

If guys want to know my menu, I ask them to check out my reviews. I have 200+ on eccie, so I'm pretty sure a gent can get an idea of what I do and don't do. If he still has questions, then he can find a polite, non vulgar way of asking.

+1
If guys would take the time to read your reviews they'll know what and what not is on the menu unless you're ymmv about some activities.

[Guest033019]

Originally Posted by crazy4lisalove

How many ladies are getting a lot of the guys off this board texting you and asking you personal vulgar or sexual things that you do in the session I mean just being out right Blunt on the text because I am getting tons of them and from this board and I am getting super tired of it how many more ladies is this happening to???

Take your number down and only give it to verified members... Problem solved

[corona]

Originally Posted by Amiliah Rayne

Take your number down and only give it to verified members... Problem solved

won't help much if it's published in all her reviews.

[Guest033019]

Originally Posted by corona

won't help much if it's published in all her reviews.

Get a new number