Confession

[Panthercat]

Originally Posted by pulaskirascal

Panther... My only concern for you is that with readily a available DNA testing, it's entirely likely she'll figure something out one way or the other. Everyone and their brother gets DNA tested these days, it seems, I imagine it will be even more commonplace when she's old enough to be on her own.


You did a helluva job making lemonade out of a huge pile of lemons. Good job. And I hope you feel better having gotten that off your chest. Sometimes, it's good to hear the words leave your mouth or see the words written down to properly process the grief or trauma of life.

She will never know she was adopted unless my wife wants to come out and say something to her when she gets older. She stated before that she doesn’t wanna do that and wants to leave it alone. Other kids we have don’t even know she was adopted because they were so small when it all happened. Got away with it this long, I’m pretty sure it will work out.

[tuckahoe]

Painter cat, you Sir are an honorable man. I had not checked in on eccie for a few months, and your post was the only post of much importance that has occurred during that time.
What happened to you could have happened to anybody. Who could guarantee they wouldn't have been tempted to bareback the sweet young lady you got pregnant. You did the right thing to save the life of the child, and give her a loving home, and also saved the mother from much grief. Which brings up another point I have been curious about: I wonder if the abortion rate among escorts is not a lot lower than among the general population? A great many escorts have children, and love their children. I personally know of at least one escort who got pregnant from an accident with a client, and kept the child; shows that she has real character and integrity.

I do wish you could have a more exciting love life with your wife, and both could enjoy it without any shame or regret.

One thing makes me envious. You got started by a dancer seducing you. I used to watch a lot of exotic dancers; and there were many I wished would seduce me, but not one ever did. I tried to get a few to meet outside of work; none seemed to show any interest.


Will your daughter ever know who her mother really is? No one can say for certain. No matter how much we try to think of all the angles, something may occur we never dreamed of. All you can do is handle it as best you can if and when that occurs.

[tuckahoe]

Originally Posted by DallasRain

DITTO!!

My confession... I did a few preachers...one even had a bible verse tattooed on his chest which was kinda spooky lol

(Kinda feel like that's a major NO,but I guess they needed some release)

Preachers are just people. They have needs like everyone. If only men could depend on wives to satisfy their urges.

[DallasRain]

yep tuckahoe i used to be a penecostal preachers wife lol

[tuckahoe]

Originally Posted by DallasRain

yep tuckahoe i used to be a penecostal preachers wife lol

sounds like the making of an interesting story, if you care to tell

[DallasRain]

well i can say
i "christened" the parsonage the pulpit the choir loft the baptismal AND the old cemetary next door lol

confession is good for the soul

[Sonoman]

Escort? Bare? Others?
How do you know for sure the Child is yours?

[SlowHand50]

Panther, I'm sorry you were offended by my question, but I thought it was an obvious one that others might have so I asked it. You are to be commended for doing such an honorable thing and adopting the girl.

[SlowHand50]

Originally Posted by DallasRain

well i can say
i "christened" the parsonage the pulpit the choir loft the baptismal AND the old cemetary next door lol

confession is good for the soul

Well bless my soul! Please!