I've been to one spa many times, and have met a couple of the ladies. They seemed so happy and relaxed. But I guess that can be learned after months and years. People are resilient. They adjust. It takes time, but they do adjust. They accept and make the best of it. I have a real dilemma here. The ladies I see are special to me. Really, how could i ascertain their unique circumstances? I think I would have to keep seeing them, build a strong rapport, asking ever deeper questions as we go. And take action when they admit they needed help.
Or I could not go back.
Which is the best course?
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