Is it Possible

[London Rayne]

Originally Posted by jfarmer

P.S. London,PM me anytime,we can set up that dinner date!

As soon as you get some reviews under your belt and make it to New Orleans or TN lol. I won't ever be in your area.

[FatBastard]

JFarmer....I am with you buddy...it's not always about bcd. I am certain that there are tons of ladies out there who would love to spend time with you...and I have done that as well. Sometimes the hunt is more fun than the kill.

[FatBastard]

As a matter of fact, the next time I am in Nawlins, I plan on calling Jahiara and seeing if she is available for lunch or dinner....I think she would be a fascinating person to visit with!!!!!

[MOCHAakaMOCHA]

Originally Posted by jfarmer

I wasnt suggesting it was free..after all I Am paying you for " your time and companionship only"..I was hoping there was at least one other guy who does this?

I see ISO's all the time for non-adult relations types of dates

[seductivesarah]

remember she is a provider and our time is money no matter what we do if you want to go on a date without paying dont go with a provider...just the rules of the game babe not trying to be a bitch

[jfarmer]

Originally Posted by seductivesarah

remember she is a provider and our time is money no matter what we do if you want to go on a date without paying dont go with a provider...just the rules of the game babe not trying to be a bitch

please read the whole thread before you comment,I beleive you missed something

[London Rayne]

Yep Farmer was talking about "with pay" and "FatBastard" found someone willing to just take off for free.

If I went on vacation for free it would be just that...a vacation!

[SneakyCancer]

i have often wondered about that. and yes i was willing to pay for their time....but i know my wondering eyes and thoughtful mind would want to take it beyond the clothes on.... heck if i want to just treat someone to dinner....i can do that walking through the mall....i have the courage to say hello baby....

[China Doll]

I will add to the numbers of women who claim that this is not uncommon. My time has been paid for numerous times without BCD activity. Though, I'll admit that the number of times this has happened goes down considerably if snuggling counts as BCD activity!

[Caitie Mae]

Originally Posted by Laurentius

In general, I won't book a lady that I don't think would be enjoyable outside the bedroom

I don't know how well I'll be able to covey this theory, but I'll give it a shot.

A few years ago a boyfriend of mine told me, more or less, that a woman is always either neurotic or erotic but never both at the same time. While I may not fully support that statement, it's not completely without merit, especially within the context of this discussion.

Of course you'll seek out providers with whom you feel you are socially compatible. I would caution against assuming any particular provider is suited for more wholesome encounters based upon how she interacts socially or semi-socially on sites like this one or has been characterized by reviewers as personable, outgoing, intelligent, educated, mentally stimulating or what have you unless the lady is known to offer social activities or indicates some type of "social rate" in her pricing.

I have no evidence or statistical data to support my reasoning on this nor am I saying this is a fact regarding all providers, but (according to my boyfriend's theory) what kind of provider will you end up with once you remove the erotic context of a provider's environment?

[Crash Davis]

Very interesting thread. I try to see my provider weekly even when Aunt Flow is in town just cause I really enjoy her company. I don't have any hang ups meeting women or trouble BCD but simply taking time off of the dating scene. Had a tough breakup in 07', dated in 08-09' and started the hobby on 2010 and never happier. The hobby is not cheap so when I don't get my weekly visit, I have questioned my decsion time to time. But in short there is nothing wrong with a date without sex. I look forward to it once a month :-)