question for providers to older gentlemen

[Pink Floyd]

I was looking for a boob when I came into this world , and that is the way I want to go out. I don't want no fucking preacher within 100 miles of me. Call 911, and what happens, happens.

[Still Looking]

I hope I go out that way! But I want it to be on the up stroke, so I get a free down stroke! LOL

[BananaRepublican]

One of the first B&B clients back when we started was a nasty old guy. Little skinny shriveled up guy. He had 3 by pass operations. He would see a NEW girl every week, we had to hire a new girl because 1. he always wanted a new girl, didn't care what she looked like, and 2. the other girls wouldn't see him after the first time. He'd wheez, cough, spit, and treat the girls nasty. We got to know him quite well. He even gave Beth a 20 year old M-B convertible to drive, hoping to sell it to us. We got to know him so well that he sat down with us over dinner one night and gave us a list of his kids (adults) and what to do and saw if anything ever happened to him at one of our places. The first time we saw him was at a 2nd floor incall. We walked the girl in, lit the candles, walked her through what to expect. We parked, waiting for him to get there. Here comes a HUGE Doolie, had trouble parking it. He got out, this old, wrinkly guy. Took him forever to walk up one flight of stairs. Couldn't believe the sight. He was so nice to us, but an a-hole to the girls. We finally cut him off, I just got tired of asking/telling him to treat the girls with respect, that not everyone wanted to do the things he did. After we cut him off, about a year later I was at one of our new spas, and here he comes. He didn't know it was ours. What a hoot. I wonder if he's still alive?
Billy
The Wildflower Group

[Sweet N Little]

I would for sure call 911 to get them the proper help, however I think I would have to lie and say I found him in the corridor or parking lot in distress (if I could dress him )

[guest051312]

My friend works for the coroners office and he will clean things up for me. I could care less at that point, I'll be dead.

[Jackie S]

Well, since I am pushing 65, this could be a real concern for me.

Even though I am in great shape, I have friends, dead friends mind you, who died younger than me.

I have kidded Sarah about this, and while we have joked about it, I hope that in the case I do "croak" while in a compromising position, she would have the good sense to call 9-11, and leave.

It would do no good to complicate her life with a circumstance that she had no controle over.

The older you get, the more you will learn that when someone dies, the one that is least affected by the event is the corpse.

[AmericanGeisha]

I doubt the police care if the lady is a escort all they want to know in that situation is if someone was killed or it was natural causes . People hook up on NSA sites all the time no one could know what the girl was doing .Messed up for the wife but for everyone else it is not their business .

[mikkifine]

I have never had anyone die on me or have a heart attack. I guess I have been lucky so far.

If someone was having a heart attack my main objective would be to save their life. I will worry about the little details later.

[anaximander]

I may still be fairly young, but strokes hit
anybody @ the worst time. That itself would
suck because I would still be alive.
At least until the SO got ahold of me.

Tff- talk about a hobby not for the faint of heart.

[Old-T]

Someone dieing abruptly is not the tough issue.

The one that strains a person's moral compas is a stroke, convultions, seizure, etc.

Call 911? Answer the questions? See the other person safely to the ER? Look to contact next of kin in case tough medical decisions need to be made ugrently?

I would hope the answers would be "Of course!" across the board, but I wonder. DO the people here value another's life enough to do so? Been there, done that--twice. One was a very easy decision, one was much tougher.

I hate to sound calous, but once someone is dead, they're dead. The opportunity to affect someone's life in a most basic way happens before that. For those who have never thought it through, it's a sobering conversation worth having with yourself. And don't think it can't happen to you guys: one lady was 46 when it happened to me, the other in her young 30s. I always thought if it happened it would be me who needed attention.

[Still Looking]

Originally Posted by Old-T

Someone dieing abruptly is not the tough issue.

The one that strains a person's moral compas is a stroke, convultions, seizure, etc.

Call 911? Answer the questions? See the other person safely to the ER? Look to contact next of kin in case tough medical decisions need to be made ugrently?

I would hope the answers would be "Of course!" across the board, but I wonder. DO the people here value another's life enough to do so? Been there, done that--twice. One was a very easy decision, one was much tougher.

I hate to sound calous, but once someone is dead, they're dead. The opportunity to affect someone's life in a most basic way happens before that. For those who have never thought it through, it's a sobering conversation worth having with yourself. And don't think it can't happen to you guys: one lady was 46 when it happened to me, the other in her young 30s. I always thought if it happened it would be me who needed attention.

T are you saying you were doing the horizontal mambo with not one but two ladies and they expired?

[Anita Lay]

There is a expiration date for MYYV... 20 mins. Ride it like you stole it and if the motor blows a head you leave it on the side of the road.

[anaximander]

Well I'd have to say that's a tough
act to follow- lady killer takes new meaning

Props.
I still think pussy will do me in
before I do it in.

[Old-T]

Originally Posted by Still Looking

T are you saying you were doing the horizontal mambo with not one but two ladies and they expired?

No. Neither one died, both were serious medical situations.

The first lady is my ATF and she was spending the night. 2 AM she woke me as she was having a major stroke. I never thought twice given how well I knew her and how much I cared for her as a friend-- I called for an ambulance and rode with her to the nearest ER. A very, very scary evening ensued. The docs were not sure if she was going to survive and needed NoK decisions so I got to rummage around her purse to find contact info for her parents. Great first contact with them, "Hi, you don't know me but it's 4 AM and I'm at the ER with your daughter...." Then there was the Q&A with the cops that had responded along with the ambulance. That part was much easier since I could easily pass as a BF she was spending the night with--pretty much what it was.

The second one was a lady I knew a little, but nowhere near as well. Sitting in the hotel room between rounds she had a seizure. Also very scary but having "rehursed" it once a year before I did the same thing, calling 911 and going to the ER with her. It was much earlier in the evening, no NoK calls since she had an insurance card and turned out to be serious but not life threatening. I like to think that if ths one had happened first I would still have done the right thing, but we never actually know what we will do in hypothetical situations.

[Slammer321]

Originally Posted by anaximander

I may still be fairly young, but strokes hit
anybody @ the worst time. That itself would
suck because I would still be alive.
At least until the SO got ahold of me.

Tff- talk about a hobby not for the faint of heart.

Lol same here.