Question for the Gents

[yourdesire]

Ps I got into this to experience new things. I can do that alone but it's not near as fun nor can I have as many experiences as I'd like doing it alone 😋

[flipsalso]

I have no problems whatsoever discussing my fantasies with a provider. But then maybe I am too vanilla, but don’t think so. Hey I figure if it’s realistic and not totally repugnant, the worst the provider can say is no. But it may take a couple of visits to build a mutual relationship, but no, not afraid to at least ask. For example, i love woman who squirt, profusely!! LOL. And I know this is not for everybody. But I love being drenched. Sometimes my beard is soaked. Turns me on. But I usually ask. And I realize not every provider can squirt. And it’s not a deal breaker for me either. But not afraid to ask and share my fantasy. Frankly, surprised some guys are hesitant.

[lookintoo1]

I dont mind telling mine to anyone, hell I've been given warnings by mods and bitched out by a provider for asking if any ladies would be interested. I'd say a 3some with 2 truly bi gals is fairly vanilla.

Truly bi not gay for pay. This is harder than you think.

Or a ladies that likes having her tits smacked a little and gets off on being lightly choked.

Believe it or not I've caught less shit for asking for the latter.

[yourdesire]

Flip "Frankly, surprised some guys are hesitant." I thought the same thing yet I also understand the hesitation for some.I've squirted before but can't do it on cue ��
Look I can help w/all but the slapping my tits are way to sensitive for that.
I'm thrilled you guys are responding to this question. Lets hear from some more of you.

[private2]

I think one of the best things about the hobby is the sharing of fantasies. I mean a big part of this is the ability to do/have things we don’t normally get IRL.

On a recent outing I shared what I was looking for upfront. I think it really helped set her expectations and it DEFINITELY helped me fulfill mine. It did surprise me when she shared that no one had ever done one of the things before. Yep, love blazing new trails :-)

I totally get wanting to wait until you’re more comfortable with someone. Since I don’t play all that much, I think up front communication makes those few outings I do get to do, totally worth it. My last outing was definitely worth it. (And if you know who is reading this, thank you!)

The biggest help is having a place like ECCIE where we can read reviews, PM, and get a better feel for one another in advance. I was able to pre-determine which providers would be on my shortlist.

I better go conjure up some new fantasies. Be in touch soon, ladies :-)

[yourdesire]

I love new experiences it helps keep away boredom & I can get bored pretty quickly so bring on the new experiences & request.

[SweetSuzanna]

Originally Posted by dumars

I like to get things ironed out through PM, text or email. If after spilling the beans and nobody is insulted I will divulge my real phone number and/or email. Then I check how much gas I got in the car or ask myself if my house is in order, check my stash of cash. So many factors involved with GO/NO GO.

I don't think it's a big secret, xxx dumpsters, xxx junkies/addicts are favored in my world! Been a long time since I've blown my monthly budget on one woman!

What do you mean in that last paragraph?

[DallasRain]

Originally Posted by yourdesire

I love new experiences it helps keep away boredom & I can get bored pretty quickly so bring on the new experiences & request.

ditto
and
hell yeahhhhhhh

[yourdesire]

Originally Posted by DallasRain

ditto
and
hell yeahhhhhhh

We'll have to get really creative when you cum in Jan. Need something new for my Bday yum yum

[Emmie]

I can totally do that fantasy for you!!

Originally Posted by MysteryG

Hell mine is super easy, I smoke a cigar while getting a BBBJ. Just sometimes hard to coordinate that kind of request

[yourdesire]

Emmie "sometimes hard to coordinate that kind of request" That's a major plus to having a private in.we could do a double cifar smoking bj

[JohnnyGleet]

It's because my fantasies usually involve a specific person such as a co worker or, an ethnicity such as ,currently, Mexican or South Asian. The latter being related to the spices typically found in the respective cuisines.

[Emmie]

I'm totally down.for that love! Tell.me.the day and the time and I will be there!! I love DOING DOUBLES with another KC Provider!!

[DallasRain]

i have a chair at home i call the blowjob chair
i have a gent who sits in it nekkid,smoking a cigar and drinking a scotch while i blow his johnson!

mmmmmmmm YD you havve some chairs that would make perfect blowjob chairs!

[Emmie]

I need a BLOW JOB CHAIR... BLOW JOB CHAIR PARTY!!