I Give Up

[DallasRain]

Originally Posted by malwoody

Hey BV..

I have been self-employed the majority of my adult life and I maintain a website and business land Line.Before the net I used Yellow pages.. Unless you are completely UTR;, I don't understand why you couldn't share said info.

The other keys are to be polite, open and respectful.

GREAT ANSWER!!

{I am semi- newbie friendly,BUT ya gotta give me a work reference in exchange}

Hope ya find some fun!!!!!!!!!!

[Big Vanilla]

I have no problem sharing the info, I thought that was said in the original post... It's all good, thanks again everyone... Oh hey! I just realized that this thread is the starting point for me to build an Online Persona...

[Notjodaddy]

Keep to your standards
Why settle for a whore that your can hardly stand too look at just because she is newbie friendly and will see anyone with a dollar.

[super_delfin00]

A Dollar? Shit, some will blow you for a Norco.

[terry88]

Originally Posted by Savannah Moon

But I eat Risk for BREAKFAST!!

Did I tell you my middle name is risk. and I would love to have breakfast with you....LOL

[huskerred]

Been at the hobby for 3+ yrs, on ECCIE for a little over a yr. No clue how to start and still got going with no issues. Maybe I got lucky, but I did not have a job for reference.....retired.
Most of the ladies I have met have various methods to verify, phone number, meet and greet, etc. Legit providers will work with you, but you have to be very open to them, in my
experience.

[Passerby]

Originally Posted by Savannah Moon

Let me speak for myself when somebody approaches me via text via p.m. via phone call... And they have been a member for over a year-and-a-half and do not have one single reference whether it be a reference from New Jersey or BP or ter or Eros... That is a red flag!! Can it happen?? Absolutely, but it also could be an indication of a LEO account..from our perspective.
OXOXXX
SM

It happens a lot more than you think. I've tried a few times with no success. I've wanted to try other times but the drama on this board, at times, is off putting. I suppose I could have reviewed the ones that flaked out?

[Savannah Moon]

Terry 88
Anytime
OXOXXX

[JRLawrence]

Originally Posted by Big Vanilla

I have been trying to take the plung into the hobby here for a while and I admit I am a bit nervous and somewhat picky when trying to choose a provider. I have tried on a few different occasions to make arrangements with a cpl different ladies and they tell me they need a DL and some other info one of which includes proof of employment and when I ask what proof of employment they want to see, since I am self employed, that is the end of the conversation and they stop responding to me... I don't get it... I can't see a lady until I have references but I can't get references until I see a validated provider. I refuse to see any ol skank off backpage and take a chance on getting robbed or busted besides, that won't help me get a reference anyway... I don't get it... Frustrated

"...they tell me they need a DL and some other info one of which includes proof of employment..."

Don't even think about it. This is the age of the computer and there has been a lot of discussion here and elsewhere about how the pimps (and ladies) collect and share information about clients. A huge discussion was about a guy named Dennis who owned Plaza Escorts, before his death. He was well known for his massive data base concerning clients.

The data base thing has not been discussed openly for some time, but you can be sure that what information the providers/pimps have will be shared to gain more information. You can also be assured that some of the guys making comments to encourage you giving up information are themselves pimps or shills. Everyone here is not perfect, but it is a better starting point than back page. (A lot of the girls advertise in both places - now what?)

Your first list is which providers you will not see, because the shanks and ripoff people are everywhere, not just back page. You will slowly build a list of who who might/maybe see. Work from the latter list.

Just do your homework, and the obviously malformed and abnormal will be revealed.

JR

[malwoody]

Originally Posted by JRLawrence

[B]
Don't even think about it. This is the age of the computer and there has been a lot of discussion here and elsewhere about how the pimps (and ladies) collect and share information about clients. A huge discussion was about a guy named Dennis who owned Plaza Escorts, before his death. He was well known for his massive data base concerning clients.
JR

That "guy named Dennis" was my good friend and one of the most honorable people I have ever known. He was also a veteran.. I could trust him with my last dime and biggest secret and you Father time know absolutely nothing about him or the way he ran his business. He was not just some "guy" and as usual you continue to spout off about things you know nothing about... His primary concern was the safety of his contractors and the only files he kept were the necessary info on his contractors in order to run a legit and legal business.

[bp6570]

Malwoody is 100% correct. I didn't know Dennis as well as Mal but he was nothing but a gentleman who went above and beyond to help others when they needed with out asking for anything in return.

JR, don't talk about things you know nothing about.

[Savannah Moon]

Originally Posted by bp6570

Malwoody is 100% correct. I didn't know Dennis as well as Mal but he was nothing but a gentleman who went above and beyond to help others when they needed with out asking for anything in return.

JR, don't talk about things you know nothing about.

Then he would be completely silent& believe it or not ..would be missed.
Who else can come up with that kind of incomprehensible humor.

[malwoody]

Originally Posted by Savannah Moon

Then he would be completely silent& believe it or not ..would be missed.
Who else can come up with that kind of incomprehensible humor.

LMAO...

Yeah you're correct...

He "would be missed."...kinda like missing teenage Acne....

[malwoody]

Originally Posted by bp6570

Malwoody is 100% correct. I didn't know Dennis as well as Mal but he was nothing but a gentleman who went above and beyond to help others when they needed with out asking for anything in return.

JR, don't talk about things you know nothing about.

+1

[Savannah Moon]

Originally Posted by JRLawrence

"...they tell me they need a DL and some other info one of which includes proof of employment..."

Don't even think about it. This is the age of the computer and there has been a lot of discussion here and elsewhere about how the pimps (and ladies) collect and share information about clients. A huge discussion was about a guy named Dennis who owned Plaza Escorts, before his death. He was well known for his massive data base concerning clients.

The data base thing has not been discussed openly for some time, but you can be sure that what information the providers/pimps have will be shared to gain more information. You can also be assured that some of the guys making comments to encourage you giving up information are themselves pimps or shills. Everyone here is not perfect, but it is a better starting point than back page. (A lot of the girls advertise in both places - now what?)

Your first list is which providers you will not see, because the shanks and ripoff people are everywhere, not just back page. You will slowly build a list of who who might/maybe see. Work from the latter list.

Just do your homework, and the obviously malformed and abnormal will be revealed.

JR

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