The hobby sure has changed!

[DallasRain]

I try to go "all out" when it comes to prepping for a session...I even bring my lazer light when I travel.....I set out candles/incense/music/soft blankets/fuzzy throw pillows...etc

I believe it is the same concept as an actress preparing for her show....how you present yourself says ALOT about you!!

[Still Looking]

Here is a big change... Texting. When did texting replace talking? Most recently I had a provider text me well over 100 times. REFUSED to talk on the phone! Stated she had a google phone and could NOT talk. Ever tried driving or anything for that matter and text at the same time?

My little black book is thicker tan Charlie Sheen’s Pre-Nup!

BTW: You want answers? I think I'm entitled! You want answers? I want the truth! You can't handle the truth!

Grab the bull by the horns ... and I'm not a UT fan!

[oilfieldscum]

Originally Posted by Still Looking

Here is a big change... Texting. When did texting replace talking? Most recently I had a provider text me well over 100 times. REFUSED to talk on the phone! Stated she had a google phone and could NOT talk. Ever tried driving or anything for that matter and text at the same time?

My little black book is thicker tan Charlie Sheen’s Pre-Nup!

BTW: You want answers? I think I'm entitled! You want answers? I want the truth! You can't handle the truth!

Grab the bull by the horns ... and I'm not a UT fan!

"Talking on the phone is for old people" At least that's what I was told before.

[Sensia]

Well you have a couple of types (maybe three) of clients who could care less about ambiance / mood lighting, or if the gal is perfect in everyway and can deliver a good conversation, etc. They just want the cheap and the fast "hook up" so to speak. For them I suggest spas. Then there is the client who wants a little of the ambiance / mood lighting and conversation that comes with having a nice "lunch date" with a beautiful companion. These men generally pay a little more for the extra because they want to take their time and enjoy the ladies company. Then you have the client who wants a pornstar with porn star looks and attitude, and can make appointments "on the fly" for them. In addition they want it cheap. For them I say, Good luck with that. If you find it, then more power to ya.

Just remember you get what you pay for.

As far as the texting, it has it's place, but not while driving. A lady should at least talk to the client to get a "feel" for who she is dealing with, and so should the guy.

[whitechocolate]

Guilty Pleasures, I agree with your comments. Many men just want "fast food". I for one and many of the men here who are willing to pay extra want to be WOWed from start to finish. We want a "gourmet fine dining experience". Unfortunately, many of the providers dont appreciate that or know how to implement a " gourmet fine dining experience" but still charge a premium.

[Sensia]

Originally Posted by whitechocolate

Guilty Pleasures, I agree with your comments. Many men just want "fast food". I for one and many of the men here who are willing to pay extra want to be WOWed from start to finish. We want a "gourmet fine dining experience". Unfortunately, many of the providers dont appreciate that or know how to implement a " gourmet fine dining experience" but still charge a premium.

I would imagine that may have a lot to do with the influx of all the new providers, those who have yet to figure out what it is all about. I really don't know, because honestly if you value yourself as a provider you will want to look your best and portray that.

[whitechocolate]

I think you are correct. Too many new providers have a "quickie" mentality but think they can charge a lot just because it is "providing" erotic services. They want to start off with a 300 or more donation but have no clue what is really needed. They have all sorts of limitations and most of their sessions are unaccpetable even with a very low donation. They really need to be educated by both an experienced provider or two and by experienced gentlemen who have high standards. Some learn but most just go away. Providing is not easy and certainly not for any woman who thinks she is a "good fuck" but really is clueless.

[Eccie Addict]

Make that 4 types.....

Originally Posted by Guilty Pleasures

Well you have a couple of types (maybe three) of clients who could care less about ambiance / mood lighting, or if the gal is perfect in everyway and can deliver a good conversation, etc. They just want the cheap and the fast "hook up" so to speak. For them I suggest spas. Then there is the client who wants a little of the ambiance / mood lighting and conversation that comes with having a nice "lunch date" with a beautiful companion. These men generally pay a little more for the extra because they want to take their time and enjoy the ladies company. Then you have the client who wants a pornstar with porn star looks and attitude, and can make appointments "on the fly" for them. In addition they want it cheap. For them I say, Good luck with that. If you find it, then more power to ya.

Just remember you get what you pay for.

And then there are those that are actually on a budget and can only afford so much. Searching for a provider that will give him what he is looking for within his budget is not "cheap". He is actually being smart by not over extending himself financially.

As far as the texting, it has it's place, but not while driving. A lady should at least talk to the client to get a "feel" for who she is dealing with, and so should the guy.

Absolutely! More should be willing to do this. IMO it should be part of the screening process....

Originally Posted by whitechocolate

I think you are correct. Too many new providers have a "quickie" mentality but think they can charge a lot just because it is "providing" erotic services. They want to start off with a 300 or more donation but have no clue what is really needed. They have all sorts of limitations and most of their sessions are unaccpetable even with a very low donation. They really need to be educated by both an experienced provider or two and by experienced gentlemen who have high standards. Some learn but most just go away. Providing is not easy and certainly not for any woman who thinks she is a "good fuck" but really is clueless.

I can think of one in particular that fits this description

[Capt. Lincoln F. Stern]

Originally Posted by Still Looking

Here is a big change... Texting. When did texting replace talking? Most recently I had a provider text me well over 100 times. REFUSED to talk on the phone! Stated she had a google phone and could NOT talk. Ever tried driving or anything for that matter and text at the same time?

My little black book is thicker tan Charlie Sheen’s Pre-Nup!

BTW: You want answers? I think I'm entitled! You want answers? I want the truth! You can't handle the truth!

Grab the bull by the horns ... and I'm not a UT fan!

There is an advantage to a text message over voice. Unless you are a horrible speller or use AOL speak (abbreviated words like LOL etc) a text message can be saved offline with a reference to the phone # that sent it.

As for a google phone # not able to make a voice call BS to the Nth degree there

[GymRat]

In my opinion, the decline in quality providers has been cheap computers and cheap and easy access to the internet. I started getting active in the hobby again after my divorce about 12 or so years ago. In those days, computers were still relatively expensive, and not everyone was on the internet. Half the girls that are on BP these days, would have been limited to street walking 12 years ago.

[Capt. Lincoln F. Stern]

Originally Posted by GymRat

In my opinion, the decline in quality providers has been cheap computers and cheap and easy access to the internet. I started getting active in the hobby again after my divorce about 12 or so years ago. In those days, computers were still relatively expensive, and not everyone was on the internet. Half the girls that are on BP these days, would have been limited to street walking 12 years ago.

Where as certain equipment is needed for even the serious provider, the ones who will rock your world 9 ways from Sunday, I agree that most the girls on BP look fresh out of high school

Lets face it, a basic laptop can cost 300, a basic digital camera, 50, tripod so you can get some decent shots 15-25 bucks, so figure tops 500 dollars and a girl can go into this business.


Sad part is that any female can have sex.... a lady makes love.

Time will tell

[pyramider]

Actually nothing has changed. You still book sessions, leave donations, nut, etc ...........

[JohnMacnab]

Guilty Pleasures knows what she it talking about. She gets it. Candles, soft music, dim lights, a nice location, hair, makeup, clothing all perfect, relaxing conversation..... It's the real deal.

[spunky]

Originally Posted by JohnMacnab

Guilty Pleasures knows what she it talking about. She gets it. Candles, soft music, dim lights, a nice location, hair, makeup, clothing all perfect, relaxing conversation..... It's the real deal.

That is exactly what I am talking about, that is an experience! I am not just after a nut, I am after an experience.

[rhino9]

Originally Posted by Guilty Pleasures

Then you have the client who wants a pornstar with porn star looks and attitude, and can make appointments "on the fly" for them. In addition they want it cheap. For them I say, Good luck with that. If you find it, then more power to ya.

Just remember you get what you pay for.

As far as the texting, it has it's place, but not while driving. A lady should at least talk to the client to get a "feel" for who she is dealing with, and so should the guy.

My dear lady....we do find it...!! And we appreciate your applause.
That is what this is about for us. And the Internet makes it easy...but we did it even before there was Interent marketing and the cost was substantially less.

One word of advice...please be aware that in the hobby...
You do not get what you pay for.!
You get what she does that day...and consistency is very rare.

Many of the $$+ GPS providers are nowhere near as good as the providers who actually enjoy what they do. And they do it for much less.

For the girls, the hobby is about return business.
Its kinda like the wool business...fleece the sheep, no problem.skin the sheep...no more business.

Just my $.02
L8r
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Oh yeah..all wool aint the same...but there is a standard market price for it.