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Originally Posted by Kaela Belle
Hello,
Recently a newbie left me a review that was lovely. He was a sweet man even surprised I was nice to him when we met.
A response left by someone mentioned that "Newbies shouldn't pay so much and that they should learn to negotiate".
What exactly is being negotiated I ask? "My time"? The time required of by said negotiator mind you. This isn't a carpet installation or car sale. For anyone who would think to ask for a break, I would ask that you just not bother to contact me. I don't even have to ask how many girls support this and I know there are gentleman that feel the same. Our time is priceless in fact and for anyone haggling a provider from 300-400 to half hours she doesn't already offer to car dates ...she never mentioned...then the that John clearly is just daft and inconsiderate. Even denigrating. I have met some great people in these crossroads and remained close and even formed long bonds with them. I have definitely given repeats or just cool men breaks as well as become a confidant. That is with trust and consideration however, same as it goes in real life. That applies in this realm as well. We are not obligated to lower out worth for anyone especially those who would even ask. PLEASE remember who is seeking who and keep it simple. If you're pissed at the world, your childhood or how many cats you have to feed, it's not our fault. No girl should have to negotiate her time unless, and this is creed, she doesn't act or demonstrate her worth. While I empathize with both side here because I have heard of experiences men face, let's not use bad experiences as a reason to Haggle for the Goods. The same goods that clearly are important enough to power up an entire site. Let's act like a women created you OK ? Jeez Thank you to those who act like a upright walking human all the time.
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"Our time is priceless in fact and for anyone haggling a provider from 300-400 to half hours she doesn't already offer to car dates ...she never mentioned...then the that John clearly is just daft and inconsiderate"
1. your time is obviously not "priceless," considering the fact that you are literally putting a price tag on it.
2. many girls offer car dates and reduced rates for inconveniences of not having an incall that night, etc.
"We are not obligated to lower out worth for anyone especially those who would even ask"
3. I would hope your worth is much more than the price you put on your time.
The fact that you conflate the two is your problem, not someone else's, and why you consider it an insult for someone to ask for a lower rate. If you don't want to, don't do it. But don't place blame on someone else for you being upset, you are the one choosing to take offense.
"PLEASE remember who is seeking who and keep it simple"
4. Both parties are doing the other an equal favor, the client gets the time and activities they want, and the provider receives whatever payment arrangement they want. You're seeking clients via advertisement, and the client is seeking you by whatever means of contact available. And it's "who is seeking whom," btw.
"No girl should have to negotiate her time"
5. She doesn't. Who is out here making women negotiate their time? Nobody. She can choose to ignore him.
"Let's act like a women created you OK ?"
Last time I checked, it took a man and a woman to create a human. I do respect the fact that women carry the child for nine months, but that alone does not make a person worthy of resect in and of itself. There are many women who shouldn't be having children and many women who, for one reason or other do not have kids, are you saying that shitty mothers deserve more respect by virtue of carrying children than childless women?
