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nineninanine · 05-19-2010, 07:29 PM

sorry...just tyrin to add some comic relief to the topic.

KCJoe · 05-19-2010, 08:08 PM

nineninanie, did you go to an all boys school? I can honestly say I never thought that when I was in grade school. I can also say that in grade school, sex wasn't something i thought a lot about. Mainly because I was raised catholic and I wasn't supposed to think about such things.

Leialay2 · 05-19-2010, 11:43 PM

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Originally Posted by Parlourgoer

Sorry to be such a picky SOB but does one pay for time or does each service have its own price-tag? It would seem to me that those that choose to set a charge for Greek want to ream us (no pun intended) from both sides. It's either a time based or service based issue. You can't have them both and if you require both then, if it we up to me, you would be out of work very quickly because nobody should accept that business model.

An example: I had a friend who simply wanted a helping hand one day and the argument from the provider was that 'he was paying for my time'. When he finally agreed, assuming that time included all available services, he was told 'that cost extra'

PG

I may be misunderstanding you, but it almost sounds like you are saying that if a girl charges $300 for an hour then during that hour you are entitled to BBBJ, CIM, Greek, COF, punching her in the face, a wax job for your car, and anything else you want as long as it can be completed in an hour.

Greek does offer extra risks including the possible blown O-ring that will likely occur down the road, diseases and intense pain if she is new to it.

I enjoy trips to greece when available and when I see "greek freak", as with Ginger, I assume it means that she enjoys it as opposed to just offers it.

I've been to greece with ginger and with sexy J.A.D.E., for those who remember her (damn I miss her). I can say that I find Jade a hundred times more attractive (nothing against the extremely attractive Ginger but Jade was my fantasy girl and I saw her every chance I could. I'd call Ginger a 7 and Jade a 700 on a scale of 1-10), but greek with Ginger was way more fun because she enjoyed it.

Sens55 · 05-20-2010, 08:29 AM

Kinda of goes back to the reason we pay in the first place. If it was just about "sex" I'd use my blow up doll, or wife, they're interchangeable. But I try to find girls that LIKE it, not just DO it, and it's more enjoyable. For that extra "enthusiasm" I pay.

Same here. I don't care about Greek. But if a girl LIKES it, well I'm all about it. I can think of one girl that's not UTR that in the middle of a pretty passionate round GROWLED at me and said "FUCK ME IN THE ASS RIGHT NOW!" as she pointed it right at me. WELL, I was VERY excited to do so!

But all of this goes back to the cryptic messaging that are inherent in this hobby. I've seen entire 5 page threads trying to define "GFE". And there was still never a consensus. And yet just about every girl out there says she's "GFE" or "True GFE" or whatever, and many want extra for that too!

Allie_Kat · 05-20-2010, 02:57 PM

I'm a provider & I don't even know what GFE is! I'm thinking something like, doing your laundry, cooking your dinner, cleaning the house...I mean really, what IS it?

Longermonger · 05-20-2010, 02:59 PM

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Originally Posted by Sens55

I can think of one girl that's not UTR that in the middle of a pretty passionate round GROWLED at me and said "FUCK ME IN THE ASS RIGHT NOW!" as she pointed it right at me.

Hint please.

Sens55 · 05-20-2010, 08:34 PM

She's female. She's not on the boards right now and 80% of every guy she's "dated" has wanted to marry her.

That'ss all you're getting. And even if you guess it I won't confirm!

Longermonger · 05-20-2010, 10:15 PM

Sasha.

growler · 05-20-2010, 10:48 PM

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Originally Posted by Sens55

She's female. She's not on the boards right now and 80% of every guy she's "dated" has wanted to marry her.

That'ss all you're getting. And even if you guess it I won't confirm!

LOL Yes that growl......I'll say 80% might be a little low.

BiggestBest · 05-21-2010, 03:55 PM

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Originally Posted by Allie_Kat

I'm a provider & I don't even know what GFE is! I'm thinking something like, doing your laundry, cooking your dinner, cleaning the house...I mean really, what IS it?

I offer GFE training. And I'm very reasonable.

The definition of GFE has been debated quite a lot. Some try to specify a list of activities that make up GFE, but we can't seem to agree on exactly which ones.

We do agree what GFE is NOT: (a) Drama. (d) Nagging/putdowns/whining. (b) Don't touch that! (c) You want me to do what?!?

For me it is all about attitude. The attitude that says "I'm so glad you're here with me. I value you as a person and the time I get to spend with you. I'm going to do EVERYTHING I can to make sure you know it. Any limitations that I might place on our activities together, will be done in a way that is respectful of you. Whenever you think of doing something fun, I want you to be thinking of me."

YMMV.

HeyMikie · 05-22-2010, 09:55 AM

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Originally Posted by BiggestBest

We do agree what GFE is NOT: (a) Drama. (d) Nagging/putdowns/whining. (b) Don't touch that! (c) You want me to do what?!?

Who here has had a REAL GF that did not include at least one of the above?

Maybe the term should be GFD (Girl Friend Dream)

JS42 · 05-22-2010, 12:42 PM

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Originally Posted by Allie_Kat

I'm a provider & I don't even know what GFE is! I'm thinking something like, doing your laundry, cooking your dinner, cleaning the house...I mean really, what IS it?

Allie, I think at one time, most guys baseline definition of a gfe as far as activities were bbbj and dfk, who is also reliable and comes with a great attitude. Who knows now these days....the term has been bastardized over time...

jayhawkrobbie · 05-22-2010, 12:48 PM

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Originally Posted by BiggestBest

We do agree what GFE is NOT: (a) Drama. (d) Nagging/putdowns/whining. (b) Don't touch that! (c) You want me to do what?!?

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Originally Posted by HeyMikie

Who here has had a REAL GF that did not include ALL of the above?

FYP..lol

BottomlessFilth · 05-22-2010, 01:59 PM

I think the ultimate kind of sex girl would be a GFE/PSE combination provider or better yet, like that in real life with her boyfriend or husband. For me it's just easier to be really open minded and experimental with someone that I spend a lot of time with, am close to and feel comfortable with. So the whole getting fucked in the ass deal, while it's very hot & nasty, is not something I could ever see myself doing with someone I wasn't seriously dating or married to. Call me a prude, overly health conscious or what have you, but that's just how I roll LOL.

Longermonger · 05-23-2010, 04:19 PM

Anybody else hungry now? That roll looks delicious. Imma hafta go have a butter and roll experience (BRE).