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Originally Posted by evagodiva
Ok Ladies what about when clients flame or hate
and for the guys out there that do it, Why?
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I have been very busy and haven't been able to follow this thread so here's my two cents....
What I don't understand is how some of you ladies deal with guys like this/allow this to go on. I have never been flamed by a client. I've never even had one raise their voice at me. Believe it or not, Outside of this board, I am VERY nice to everyone. I believe in excellent customer service and being there for my clients because the last thing I want to do is piss anyone off. I go above and beyond to do things right so I don't have run-ins with people (especially in this business because people are downright nasty and vindictive here!).
I've said this before and I'll say it again, if you keep attracting clients that are straight up assholes/undesirable, you are doing something absolutely wrong! Sometimes people just invite drama.
As for ladies, I just ignore them especially when they're ugly. I know then that they're just jealous. No I'm serious. I did not get into this business to argue with anybody about this and that. I'm here to make money SO what some random fugly chick has to say about me does not matter. All that matter is -- am I still making money? Does it still make sense for me to be in this business? A lot of ladies are just jealous. They're jealous of you/your success and they'll do whatever it takes to bring you down. To prevent confrontation, I stay original. I do not copy other's style. I do not copy another lady's text. I do not copy picture styles so no one can say shit to me about plagarizing or whatever else. When I get a reference request, I give the reference. When I ask for a reference and don't get one bacK, I do not bitch about it. Yesterday I had a fake negative review of me posted up on TER. This person had NO reviews (just the one he/she wrote of me) and they blasted me by making up all sorts of shit about my appearance. Well guess what? I have all 9s and 10s on TER and not ONE bad review. I contacted TER and it was taken down within an hour. Just a few hours ago (today) I got a message saying that the ip address of the person had been traced and it was another LADY from the carolinas and she was now banned from TER. So you see? Haters! They do not matter. Just keep doing you. When you're doing something right, you're gonna have haters. And that's just that.
xoxo,
N