Angry gentleman doesn't know how to research providers!

[mjsw]

Btw, as I often use my tablet or smartphone to research for companions, do you know if there's any app out there? The websites that I usually browse are a pain in the ass to navigate by smartphone.

[offshoredrilling]

I get em to go to a bar for a small M&G

[SA Angel]

Originally Posted by offshoredrilling

I get em to go to a bar for a small M&G

This. M&G's also give you an idea if ya'll will work together bcd.....do ya'll pheromones mesh, does she seem to have the balance of "nice" vs. "naughty" that you look for, does she seem interested in you, etc.

Honestly,I prefer doing them because A) if someone creeps me out I can just leave and B) it helps to build the connection that makes BCD activities better.

[Still Looking]

Originally Posted by Fast Gunn

Hey, don't we have a rule about this in the board by-laws?

. . . Something about shameless self promotion is not to be permitted nor condoned.

Its allowed so long as he doesn't complain about "bitches not seeing him".

[mjsw]

Originally Posted by offshoredrilling

I get em to go to a bar for a small M&G

That's a really good idea, however I don't have the time to m&g.
I need a fake-proof tool to search providers when I'm on the go.

If there's none simply say no

[Old-T]

Originally Posted by mjsw

That's a really good idea, however I don't have the time to m&g.
I need a fake-proof tool to search providers when I'm on the go.

If there's none simply say no

I think you are searching for a unicorn. There is no "fake-proof tool" and never will be. If you believe you don't have time to invest, then for you it will always be a carp shoot. There are indeed resources available to let you increase the odds of success and reduce the odds of disappointment or worse--but they all require time and effort. M&G are certainly not the only tools. You can research reviews (that is not the same as reading one review), you can PM guys who seem to have similar tastes. You can write to a lady and actually read her replies for content, tone, and subtle clues.

But if you have no time for any of that then you will likely have mixed results at best.

Do you walk into a car dealer and buy the first car you see without doing due diligence researching your purchase?

[mjsw]

Originally Posted by Old-T

I think you are searching for a unicorn. There is no "fake-proof tool" and never will be. If you believe you don't have time to invest, then for you it will always be a carp shoot. There are indeed resources available to let you increase the odds of success and reduce the odds of disappointment or worse--but they all require time and effort. M&G are certainly not the only tools. You can research reviews (that is not the same as reading one review), you can PM guys who seem to have similar tastes. You can write to a lady and actually read her replies for content, tone, and subtle clues.

But if you have no time for any of that then you will likely have mixed results at best.

I do agree with what you say and thank you for the extensive answer. Unfortunately, I cannot spend more than 15 minutes searching for companions and reading reviews. I guess it will always be russian roulette.

Originally Posted by Old-T

Do you walk into a car dealer and buy the first car you see without doing due diligence researching your purchase?

The brand awareness and perception of car makers is not comparable with that of a provider. I know for sure that Ferrari are fast, luxurious and reliable cars, features that cannot be perceived from an online profile of somebody I've never met before.

Again, thank you for the contribution!

[rogerdodger]

Originally Posted by Old-T

I think you are searching for a unicorn. There is no "fake-proof tool" and never will be. If you believe you don't have time to invest, then for you it will always be a carp shoot. There are indeed resources available to let you increase the odds of success and reduce the odds of disappointment or worse--but they all require time and effort. M&G are certainly not the only tools. You can research reviews (that is not the same as reading one review), you can PM guys who seem to have similar tastes. You can write to a lady and actually read her replies for content, tone, and subtle clues.

But if you have no time for any of that then you will likely have mixed results at best.

i use this board. if you pay your fee or actually post a review, you can see the 'rest of the story' where the provider experience is 'generally' detailed according to the view of the recipient. However ...

YOU will need to get a handle on the various reviewers. Frankly, some guys write their reviews like a Penthouse Forum piece where they are having the greatest experience of their lives and they are God's gift to fucking. Others, i am not sure they can actually see the lady as their description and the actual person in their profile are not the same, and i'm not blaming the lady. So, caveat emptor in some cases even with the reviews.

I will admit i have had some less than exemplary sessions but have felt like i had a good time and received a fair service for money exchanged. I do have my personal ideals and look specifically for those as a start.

Every once in a while, a reviewer will slip in a telling comment in an otherwise good review, such as "advertised as a 29 yo but i am 38 and her face looked older than mine" ... for some, as long as the coochie is good it's fine but for others that might be a 'no no'.

Unless you really want to try to have a session with every single provider out there, and some guys do, i would suggest you narrow your focus to EXACTLY what you want, and if your session was all you could hope for - i have had a couple of those - then talk to her about an arrangement.

You know not everyone here is playing with a full deck, right ??? Good luck.

[Old-T]

Research time need not be contiguous. Much can be done in a number of 15 min periods with some planning. In essence you parrallel process the research. In reality you Ferrari analogy is appropriate: I the impression one has of Ferrari is usually the compilation of many small pieces, people's short testimonials, and 30 second source bites. The same theory applies with ladies.

My typical research starts without an intent to research. I just amuse myself on here. I see a note posted by a lady and it catches my eye in a positive way. A week later I see her post something else that makes me smile, or appeals to me. That too took 3 minutes to read. Put a few of these together and I reach a point where i do some active checking. Her reviews are linked to the next post of hers that I see, so I read a few. That might take 10 min. They reaffirm that I am interested. Next time I check her photos. Two minutes there. I send her a PM--with practice I can write a personalized one in five minutes. I read her reply (or line her off if no reply). Done: several short, quick "research" moments and I have added her to my wish list. Then when I find out I will be in her city (often short notice) it is easy to decide to send a follow-up PM or 411 request for an appointment.

Then when I find out I will have time in her corner of the world it is easy to reply to her reply--or send a 411 PM

[john_deere]

op, you strike me as some combination of lazy, burdened with unrealistic expectations, and impossible to please.

you need a new hobby.

[cabletex7]

Originally Posted by john_deere

op, you strike me as some combination of lazy, burdened with unrealistic expectations, and impossible to please.

you need a new hobby.

Sure, a new hobby makes sense but do you have a fool-proof way to research the new hobby. Something that guarantees that he will enjoy it. And, of course, by research he means osmosis.

[universalenergy]

See P4 advanced search for verified photos. It will filter out about 90% of the profiles.

[mjsw]

Originally Posted by john_deere

op, you strike me as some combination of lazy, burdened with unrealistic expectations, and impossible to please.

you need a new hobby.

I've joined Eccie a week ago and the "you need a new hobby" is already getting old.
I'm not lazy, I am busy making money. I don't have unrealistic expectations, expectations are proportionate to my spending.

Originally Posted by universalenergy

See P4 advanced search for verified photos. It will filter out about 90% of the profiles.

Thank you for the pro tip!

[mjsw]

Today I've invested 20 minutes of my time searching for an app but the only thing I could find is this one: apphoneypot.com. Doesn't seem very popular though.

Why aren't nerds developing apps for this hobby?!

[joesmo888]

I use all the escort sites to research a girl. even if you have to pay a small fee to read the reviews its worth it