Clit Vibrators - An Insult To Manhood?

[awl4knot]

Originally Posted by Fancyinheels

But yes, I am careful when introducing toys, as some fellows do take offense, or just have no experience previously and are a little apprehensive. Insult happens when a man believes that he has to make EVERY women orgasm EVERY single time, which is flat out physically impossible. (For most of you, anyway.

This is what I'm talking about: guys threatened or resentful by the use of toys. I once used toys, happily, on a provider but after 10 minutes I was bored and needed attention/stimulation. Was I being selfish since it was my 90 minutes? I wanted to please her but any dummy could apply a vibrator, right?

And can you get toy lessons?

awl4knot

[charlestudor2005]

Originally Posted by awl4knot

This is what I'm talking about: guys threatened or resentful by the use of toys. I once used toys, happily, on a provider but after 10 minutes I was bored and needed attention/stimulation. Was I being selfish since it was my 90 minutes? I wanted to please her but any dummy could apply a vibrator, right?

And can you get toy lessons?

awl4knot

You'll get a charge out of it if you run battery leads to your balls.

[Lil General]

That is so much fun you me and the vibrator. Nothing better than to watch woman get down with vib.

[Fancyinheels]

Originally Posted by awl4knot

This is what I'm talking about: guys threatened or resentful by the use of toys. I once used toys, happily, on a provider but after 10 minutes I was bored and needed attention/stimulation. Was I being selfish since it was my 90 minutes? I wanted to please her but any dummy could apply a vibrator, right?

And can you get toy lessons?

awl4knot

Oh, yes, indeed. I have given quite a few fellow "pointers" regarding the proper use of battery operated devices. And while I suppose anyone can apply one, there are so many different "sexual aids," and if you aren't familiar with a toy it can be used incorrectly, with too much or too little vibration, too slow or too fast, in the wrong spot at the wrong time. Being attentive to the lady's reaction may be distracting to some gentlemen's focus. Watching a lady give you a "show"' and show you where and how to touch her can have quite an aphrodisiac effect, and there are positions in which she can use her "little friend" to play with herself and still stimulate you simultaneously.

Have you tried any toys yourself? Vibrating cock rings, for example, are great fun for both parties. The same clit vibe that gets a lady off can give you a jolt of pleasure in the right spot, too. Communication is critical in joint exploration; if I'm using a vibe on a fellow, he has to be honest and let me know if it feels good there or doesn't do a dang thing for him anywhere.

However, ultimately it IS your money, therefore your hour, 90 minutes, whatever, and pleasing you is the goal, so you needn't feel guilty if toy play isn't your bag.

There is SO much variety out there; I hope that Santa brings me some new toys for Christmas. Stuff my stocking, o jolly man.