Consequences

[Nicolet]

Party at gregster's place!

[gimme_that]

This thread has brownnoser written all over it..............

Its a whiteknights dream. And now officially through your responses your a card carrying member.

Apologizing for a lady who played games with you......fucking please.........

Look at it as a blessing. A foreshadowing clue she wouldn't have been good enough anyway.

[Guest103014]

Originally Posted by gimme_that

This thread has brownnoser written all over it..............

Its a whiteknights dream. And now officially through your responses your a card carrying member.

Apologizing for a lady who played games with you......fucking please.........

Look at it as a blessing. A foreshadowing clue she wouldn't have been good enough anyway.

er, what? you think I'm white knighting her? b/c I won't call her out? I'm totally confused.

But thanks for your participation - i guess you got lots of participation awards in your day.

[The Big Lebowski]

^^^Just made me LOL.

[Old Horn Dog]

So greg if you're a good poker player & turned the $300 into $1000, you could probably afford to buy lunch not ONLY for some of the women on here but also for your Steadfast Board Allies Who've Always Come To Your Aid... whaddya mean? I'm sure I was a Steadfast Board Ally at least once... So, umm, lunch @ Galatoire's. For everyone. "Everyone" meaning "OHD at a minimum". Right?

[DallasRain]

Originally Posted by Old Horn Dog

So greg if you're a good poker player & turned the $300 into $1000, you could probably afford to buy lunch not ONLY for some of the women on here but also for your Steadfast Board Allies Who've Always Come To Your Aid... whaddya mean? I'm sure I was a Steadfast Board Ally at least once... So, umm, lunch @ Galatoire's. For everyone. "Everyone" meaning "OHD at a minimum". Right?

wow awesome idea!!! let's eat!!

{Greg,when i get back from my vacay tour I have a new flogger with your name on it! lol}

[Guest103014]

hehe there is NO such thing as a free lunch...!!!

:mf_laughboun ce2:


ya'll slay me.

Don't you know - you always hear about the wins - never the losses...

that being said - I'm not opposed to lunch as a general concept.

[Old Horn Dog]

Hey YOU were the one who titled a thread "Consequences" then ran off @ the mouth about turning $300 into $1000--what did you think would happen? They come out of the woodwork, and I'm one of 'em. Now dammit: BUY ME A PO-BOY!

[Guest103014]

Originally Posted by Old Horn Dog

Hey YOU were the one who titled a thread "Consequences" then ran off @ the mouth about turning $300 into $1000--what did you think would happen? They come out of the woodwork, and I'm one of 'em. Now dammit: BUY ME A PO-BOY!

/ win.

[Arverni]

Originally Posted by gimme_that

This thread has brownnoser written all over it..............

Its a whiteknights dream. And now officially through your responses your a card carrying member.

Apologizing for a lady who played games with you......fucking please.........

Look at it as a blessing. A foreshadowing clue she wouldn't have been good enough anyway.

Spoken like a guy who (I know) several women won't see.

And I don't even know all the chicks! LOL

Oh also - "Whyte Knytes" are better than Misogynists Gimme.

[lat]

Originally Posted by Arverni

One of the reasons I never do a negative review. Like my momma told me ... "If you can't say something good - don't say nothin'"

Review system's still effective if guys only do positive reviews on the girls that rock their world. Absence of reviews on a girl should tell a guy that something is fishy. However, guys tend to want to up their review count and review every single one.

I have talked to providers who won't see certain people just based on the reviews they've written (or things they've said on this board). If a girl has four pages of "YES" recommendations ... why the hell should she risk that track record for a guy she knows often writes brutal, negative reviews? Next client please.

I haven't looked at your reviews Greg ... maybe you only wrote one that this girl didn't like (on her friend) ... but that's the way it goes. As the guys - we don't get to call the shots - the girls do.

Sorry you had this experience.

Well said ! I have seen a couple on here and Backpage if I feel like it I will do one if not I keep my mouth close .

[gimme_that]

Originally Posted by Stick1969

Let me take it a step further. I believe that negative reviews are much more valuable than a pile of positive reviews...............

If it were me, I would totally out the lady that tried to upsell you. Thats total bullshit.

Anyway, sorry that lady stood you up. She sounds childish, immature and someone who isn't long for this business.

Originally Posted by Karrine_Kream

Reviews are to be honest.......I'd never make a judgement solely on the words of other providers...I love them all dearly but everyone perceives things differently as well as handle them in their own way.

I think this post was unnecessary. It kind of puts the op out there as what I call "handle with care" ijs "my 2ct"

Best quotes of the whole thread. And realistic ones. I think Karrine Kremes comment about her preference in screening female reference percievication is more of an ethnic thing though.....but I won't touch on that right now. Lol

Originally Posted by gregster

er, what? you think I'm white knighting her? b/c I won't call her out? I'm totally confused.

Your not confused.....your just a tad gullible and pushover for chicks who play games. And that's ok.

I'm not saying your acting whiteknightish now because you won't out her.......but if your asking...........

I'm saying even from the start of her games and bad TCB you aided and abedded it.......case in point.

Originally Posted by gregster

I scheduled an appointment earlier today with a provider - about 12 hours ago.

She pushed back our appointment once .......

Not so much an issue. Things happen..........understandable .

Originally Posted by gregster

or twice, no problem.

Two pushbacks......nah. that just means she double booked and your just the "extra." She had no intention to see you anyways. And if you even want to see her at this point....... Hope you like your DATY to taste like trojans.......


This shit however would have been many guys breaking point in the transaction......

Originally Posted by gregster

Then, 30 minutes before we were to meet - she calls me and says "oh you are gregster. You did a review on a friend of mine that " (I'll edit out the comments).

So, instead of so much, she said it would be double for her to see me!! Well, just about double.......

After being told this.....most might wonder why. Maybe get hurt feelings or whatever maybe. But instead of declining, hanging up, or telling her to fuck off with her shitty last second TCB......you took it a step further. Kinda like a black guy pleading his case to an NBA provider about why he a safe black to see..............let's get deep into it shall we......

Originally Posted by gregster

I told her I thought that was not fair, and offered to agree to a no review policy if she had concerns. Then she got rude and then she she hung up on me.

You gave her the ultimate power and control over you and you willingly let her shit on you. Very BDSM dominating......your basically licking her shoe now. She could have easily just declined and kept it professional.....but no. She wanted to make a point for her friend.........because of your honesty about her friends shitty performance in a review.

Originally Posted by gregster

However, that said, if you are going to screen, screen BEFORE confirming the appointment. BEFORE I've waited all day to see you.

Originally Posted by Arverni

One of the reasons I never do a negative review. Like my momma told me ... "If you can't say something good - don't say nothin'"

So gregster you rant and complain about being treated unfairly.....and wronged and such. Writing so passionately about it with your capitalization and big fonts and such........and now you say.....if something like this occurs in the future (or you have a shitty time or experience like Averni suggested, you won't write a "no" review) you won't post info on the provider who put you through these shenanigans. If everyone did that we would all have to experience what you had to indure. And your just fine with that.

Originally Posted by gregster

So, I guess I'm blacklisted in certain circles. I guess you are bound to make enemies in this world if you have principles and you stick by them. I stand by my reviews. They were not mean nor "slamming" anyone. They were my honest opinion. And I'm sticking to them regardless.

Your not sticking to shit now. Your willing to change your whole stance on reviews and "telling it like it is" all because a lady or two won't see you based off another ladys shitty given experience and cosign. Talking about your only gonna post good reviews.....and refrain from posting shitty ones that Averni suggested to you and you agreed with.

Originally Posted by mriley000

I like all kinds of reviews, good and bad. No such thing as having too much data. I especially think reviews that point out ymmv are helpful. If all reviews are positive, one would never know about possible downers.

Originally Posted by SHELTON

Can Ole Shelton look to the future and tell you how this trend of flowery all-positive reviews may come out?

Oh please let me.........

If anything that shows that your new reviews and reports from here on out won't be as objective; because you will only touch on the good points......no flaws. Because your worried too much about pleasing, pandering, and pampering the pussy. And that's ok. And that's ok some guys like their life cream whipped.

If you truthfully wasn't worried about what a providers would say.....you would just post the review or report. Anything I say in a review Ill gladly say to a ladys face. I personally post that way. If another lady wouldn't want to see me based on the way I wrote another ladys review.......I take it as a foreshadowing clue she couldn't provide the type of experience I want anyways. I call it hobby karma. Seeing that chick might block my blessings from seeing another lady who was more suited to me. If the review system was always good reviews with no "no" reviews....or ymmv.......things would or couls be misleading. Especially to guys reading your reviews.

Real business savy providers have their own means of screening in place. All session are ymmv. One ladys bad time might be anothers good time. There are ugly sides to the hobby. One lady you might have a good session with might be pissed if you don't see her again, maybe one will shit on you with references so that you can only see them in your difficulty seeing new ladies, etc. Most ladys are not gonna have their money revenue dictated necessarily by another ladys bad review. They may ponder it and take it into consideration but if they are talented......they won't even concern themselves with it.

Originally Posted by gregster

I promise to give you a chance to address any concerns I have before writing a review, or to not write a review if you request up front. In short, I promise to treat you all the right way, because its the right thing to do.

Say what you really feel. Just say I won't write a no review again. Even if its a "bad day" for you.....or a shitty time.....I won't post shit. Ill sulk about it privately........and post aynonomous rants and such......but I won't do anything. Walk all over me.

Originally Posted by disilene

I feel you. I am Banned from seeing a provider by one of the guys on the board (apparently he didn't like something I said)......

I learned to just move on and keep having fun.

Don't worry that was just her pimp. If he isn't her pimp he has potential to be one since she's so easily controlled. Dictating transactions for some pussy he doesn't even own. I guess being a regular has its advantages.......and fringe benefits.

Originally Posted by gregster

Hey, thanks for the comment. My review was actually intended to help a young provider improve her service.

I got almost a dozen messages of people who felt the same way. If she took my review to heart and changed just a few basic things she would have the opportunity for more business and to charge more money.

I'll take your advice - moving on.

Yep so your hoping dozens of other guys go through this similar hassle you did. Makes sense........

Originally Posted by gregster

Oh, a small update:

The $300 turned into $1,000 (I'm a pretty good poker player)

So, I'm in the process of scheduling a few appointments with nice tips.... going to spread around the winnings!

See. Provider karma......ones shitty experience will lends itself to others ladies being more capable.

[SknyDiva]

Most ladys are not gonna have their money revenue dictated necessarily by another ladys bad review. They may ponder it and take it into consideration but if they are talented......they won't even concern themselves with it.

True Story if they are smart business women.
Other providers are not paying me, Hobbyist are.
There is plenty of revenue to go around.

[Guest103014]

Originally Posted by gimme_that

Best quotes of the whole thread. And realistic ones. I think Karrine Kremes comment about her preference in screening female reference percievication is more of an ethnic thing though.....but I won't touch on that right now. Lol




Your not confused.....your just a tad gullible and pushover for chicks who play games. And that's ok.

I'm not saying your acting whiteknightish now because you won't out her.......but if your asking...........

I'm saying even from the start of her games and bad TCB you aided and abedded it.......case in point.




Not so much an issue. Things happen..........understandable .



Two pushbacks......nah. that just means she double booked and your just the "extra." She had no intention to see you anyways. And if you even want to see her at this point....... Hope you like your DATY to taste like trojans.......


This shit however would have been many guys breaking point in the transaction......



After being told this.....most might wonder why. Maybe get hurt feelings or whatever maybe. But instead of declining, hanging up, or telling her to fuck off with her shitty last second TCB......you took it a step further. Kinda like a black guy pleading his case to an NBA provider about why he a safe black to see..............let's get deep into it shall we......




You gave her the ultimate power and control over you and you willingly let her shit on you. Very BDSM dominating......your basically licking her shoe now. She could have easily just declined and kept it professional.....but no. She wanted to make a point for her friend.........because of your honesty about her friends shitty performance in a review.






So gregster you rant and complain about being treated unfairly.....and wronged and such. Writing so passionately about it with your capitalization and big fonts and such........and now you say.....if something like this occurs in the future (or you have a shitty time or experience like Averni suggested, you won't write a "no" review) you won't post info on the provider who put you through these shenanigans. If everyone did that we would all have to experience what you had to indure. And your just fine with that.



Your not sticking to shit now. Your willing to change your whole stance on reviews and "telling it like it is" all because a lady or two won't see you based off another ladys shitty given experience and cosign. Talking about your only gonna post good reviews.....and refrain from posting shitty ones that Averni suggested to you and you agreed with.






Oh please let me.........

If anything that shows that your new reviews and reports from here on out won't be as objective; because you will only touch on the good points......no flaws. Because your worried too much about pleasing, pandering, and pampering the pussy. And that's ok. And that's ok some guys like their life cream whipped.

If you truthfully wasn't worried about what a providers would say.....you would just post the review or report. Anything I say in a review Ill gladly say to a ladys face. I personally post that way. If another lady wouldn't want to see me based on the way I wrote another ladys review.......I take it as a foreshadowing clue she couldn't provide the type of experience I want anyways. I call it hobby karma. Seeing that chick might block my blessings from seeing another lady who was more suited to me. If the review system was always good reviews with no "no" reviews....or ymmv.......things would or couls be misleading. Especially to guys reading your reviews.

Real business savy providers have their own means of screening in place. All session are ymmv. One ladys bad time might be anothers good time. There are ugly sides to the hobby. One lady you might have a good session with might be pissed if you don't see her again, maybe one will shit on you with references so that you can only see them in your difficulty seeing new ladies, etc. Most ladys are not gonna have their money revenue dictated necessarily by another ladys bad review. They may ponder it and take it into consideration but if they are talented......they won't even concern themselves with it.



Say what you really feel. Just say I won't write a no review again. Even if its a "bad day" for you.....or a shitty time.....I won't post shit. Ill sulk about it privately........and post aynonomous rants and such......but I won't do anything. Walk all over me.



Don't worry that was just her pimp. If he isn't her pimp he has potential to be one since she's so easily controlled. Dictating transactions for some pussy he doesn't even own. I guess being a regular has its advantages.......and fringe benefits.



Yep so your hoping dozens of other guys go through this similar hassle you did. Makes sense........



See. Provider karma......ones shitty experience will lends itself to others ladies being more capable.

Thanks for the clarification. I don't disagree - at least not much. I'm still going to write a no if its a no. And yeah, I let push things a bit - but I wanted to see her, she's hot. I'm not the first or last guy to be guilty of that. I have my limits - I don't cross. no safety issues. No po po. But a bit of begging - yeah ok.

And yeah, I enjoyed the karma.


oh and PS - now anyone who travels w/ that provider I'm just going to assume won't see me either - so its a mutual thing. I won't be calling to be put through that again

[Guest051920]

Reviews only let me know a lady is probably legit and a glance of her menu.I don't put much stock in reviews.Some guys are extremely critical and some guys hype ladies up.To be honest the chemistry between a lady and gent is going to vary.Some guy she might like more and some guys less.We all want consistency and may get close to it but to many variables affect the outcome.