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KCQuestor · 10-29-2018, 09:42 PM

If he doesn't make a move to get up and get dressed, it is a pretty good indication that he wants to at least have some post-coital relaxation time. Cuddling would be a good assumption.

Unique_Carpenter · 10-29-2018, 09:47 PM

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Originally Posted by KCQuestor

If he doesn't make a move to get up and get dressed, it is a pretty good indication that he wants to at least have some post-coital relaxation time. Cuddling would be a good assumption.

^^^^^ Thread winner.

woody4eroticfun · 10-30-2018, 09:21 AM

I love to cuddle after sex as long as time permits. It is a much more satisfying encounter if we do so. However, if we are still going at it and we are approaching the agreed upon time limit, I may skip the post-coital cuddle out of respect for her time, but that's not my preferred way to leave a lady.....

Ripclaw25 · 10-30-2018, 11:22 AM

The post-coital cuddling is very important to me. If I just want a quick release and go I visit an AMP for that. If I'm spending time with a lady I want to fully spend time with that lady which includes that cuddle time. Gives us more time to get to know each other, gives us that connection and IOP that I want when I spend time with her. I often will not be a repeat for a gal if she's not up for that level of intimacy it's very off-putting if she's not.

Roboz · 10-30-2018, 02:48 PM

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Originally Posted by Gramps111

I agree with Bart...
There are some of us who seek intimacy rather than just a piece of meat. There's no reason why a business relationship can't involve caring and maybe even real friendship earned over time. A physical relationship with someone you respect and care about is so much more satisfying for me... and I suspect I'm not alone. I would think that from a provider's standpoint... that kind of client would be a refreshing change. But...different strokes for different folks...

Ditto for me!!

IQ160 · 10-31-2018, 01:23 AM

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Originally Posted by SweetSuzanna

Really? Wow. So are you expecting her to cuddle? Do you tell her in advance that you like it?

What do you think a “girlfriend experience” is supposed to include? It is to be an illusion of passion, certain acts that are expected from a girlfriend that is more intimate than those from someone just picked up off the street, and the post coital llusion of intimacy between two people. Not just a “wham, bam, thank you ma”am”. I sometimes wonder how you survive in this business.

seductrix4u · 10-31-2018, 03:31 AM

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Originally Posted by IQ160

I sometimes wonder how you survive in this business.

And I never cease to wonder how you get any dates, even with money.

TailHooked · 10-31-2018, 03:19 PM

Well in my recent past the girl friend experience also included do you know what time it is? Can't you spend more time with my family. Could you return a call or text as fast as I send it. The topper is will you buy me a car. That is all I truly want and need. Sorry, I couldn't resist.

seductrix4u · 10-31-2018, 04:57 PM

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Originally Posted by TailHooked

Well in my recent past the girl friend experience also included do you know what time it is? Can't you spend more time with my family. Could you return a call or text as fast as I send it. The topper is will you buy me a car. That is all I truly want and need. Sorry, I couldn't resist.

Sounds like you got the Wife Experience!

SweetSuzanna · 11-02-2018, 03:55 PM

This has been really helpful for me. I think its a time issue sometimes. I see many guys on their lunch hours also. I love to cuddle but assumed women liked it more than men. I try to follow his lead and see what he is wanting. I just dont want him to do it just cuz i like it. I will definitely increase my cuddleability! I made a new word!

billtunes · 11-03-2018, 09:39 AM

With me, it will be pretty obvious, and I doubt that I am the only one that feels this way.

I don't like to overstay my welcome or be creepy, but if I want to hang around for just a bit, it means that I enjoyed our time, and would most likely be interested another appointment - maybe many more.

If I jump into my pants and bolt, then that tells you something quite different.

If I feel like I'm being pushed out - even after a nice time, (or if you bolt as fast as you can after an outcall) then it's probably going to be a one and done for us.

Wizard of Ahhhhs · 11-03-2018, 09:54 AM

Nothing wrong with the young lady wanting to cuddle after I’ve coaxed 3-4 O’s out of her...

She’s tired and wants some snuggles!! I’m all for it!

woody4eroticfun · 11-03-2018, 10:34 AM

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Originally Posted by Wizard of Ahhhhs

Nothing wrong with the young lady wanting to cuddle after I’ve coaxed 3-4 O’s out of her...

She’s tired and wants some snuggles!! I’m all for it!

^^ lol....love it.

Guest090920 · 11-03-2018, 11:28 AM

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Originally Posted by IQ160

I sometimes wonder how you survive in this business.

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Originally Posted by seductrix4u

And I never cease to wonder how you get any dates, even with money.

Both of these comments fall squarely within the Unnecessary Rudeness guideline. Neither opinion was warranted or needed in this thread.

yourdesire · 11-03-2018, 02:24 PM

I'm all about having a fun,relaxing yet invigorating experience, lay back caressing, catch your breath & say awww yes what a wonderful way to brighten a day. I don't want to feel like I have to race a clock to reach a goal nor do I see how any man could reach the wanted outcome while watching a clock. Unless he gets up and starts gathering his things I think the after time is just part of the package which is why I don't schedule back to back.