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Originally Posted by tbone2u
Venus.....what about the guys that are always on time and always show up? These guys understand that the provider's time is valuable. They also understand their time is valuable. I am one and done with a provider that cancels on me when I confirmed with her that morning. I'm also fair....if for some crazy reason I have to cancel on her I always pay for the session whether I show up or not.
I understand what you are considering but it will affect the other hobbyist that always do the right thing.
Those are the ones ladies want to keep.....not push away.
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I agree with TBone. I asked a provider once, why she saw me and not another guy who I just happened to know wanted to see her at the same time. She responded, "Because I know you're going to show up on time. You're not going to try and change the date and time at the last minute, you'll be here when you say you will."
And that's the way I feel. I have never missed an appointment and if something catastrophic happened, I damn sure would at least text and apologize to make it up. Not sure I would pay for the session like TBone. That's pretty damn nice of him, but I would definitely schedule another time to make it up. So, I think what you do, is learn the dependable guys and stick with them, encourage them etc, and don't ask for a damn deposit. That just complicates matters.