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Originally Posted by Whodwho
I've been hobbling for sometime and know a lot of providers and fellow hobbiest but my question is this... If I take the time to get manscaped for a session why do some providers not even bother to beautify themselves.... but some providers can't even put on a little bit of makeup or even some pretty lipstick !??? WTF!?
==>pmd: cos that's what they chose to do, regardless of what you did or didnt do.
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If your rates are increasing you should at least look presentable for the date!
==>pmd: my revision : "if would be great if you looked presentable for the date."
Now remember this is not referring to every one of you. Just the ones that choose to look below the standard look.
==>pmd: there is no "standard" look (see below).
Nothing better than to get your knob polished by a sexy beautiful woman with very pretty lipstick.
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agreed! so, just go visit providers who do that for you. and quit visiting ones who dont.
simple as that. [i understand research may not reveal that for you, but it usually does]
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Originally Posted by Invisible1
So there is a standard look? Really? What provider manual did you read? Did you send the provider, which you washed your ass twice for, "the memo" with a copy of the manual at least 24 hours before the session? Did you even mention to her how you might like her to look? Any communication on the topic with her at all? Or did you just expect her to read your mind and know that you were getting all metro macho hair jelled for her and that she should dress appropriately for you?
Hello? McFly? You gotta communicate at least a little bit or be happy with what you get....
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"what we got here is a failure to communicate!" -the sherrif in "cool hand luke"
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Originally Posted by Whodwho
There shouldn't be a memo! This is their profession and they should have the common courtesy to dress, prep accordingly. ...
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Originally Posted by Invisible1
Yup, it's her profession. And it's your review....so write one. ...
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Originally Posted by Kendall4U
Awe, Who. I'm sorry you had to go through that. It's absolutely amazing to me that some "ladies", whether this be their profession or not, take NO pride in themselves. You should absolutely expect her to put in as much if not more effort than you did before your session. ... I say write your review and put her on blast.
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Whodwho, i'm w/ invisible on this. - if you didnt let her know what you wanted and/or hoped for, then you have less of a leg to stand on.
there's hope, expect, desire, want, need. and they are all different.
for me, the only thing i hope for is she's there.
i expect her to be alive.
i desire and want some delites.
but i dont really need this.
since there is NOT a standard manual, set of procedures, or policies for a provider to learn from and follow, there is NO standard about any of the many details (large and small) of being a provider, her looks, behavior, activities, arranging of appts, her place, etc.
so, if it didnt work out like you thought it might go, you could let her know [doesnt usually have a good ROI].
or just dont go see her again. and you could let guys know about it in the lounge.
but, if she advertised or communicated certain things and didnt live up to them, write a review so others can know about her [keep it matter of fact w/out being disrespectul or being a jerk].
hope you find what you are looking for! [seriously]