BBBJ and GFE!

[Peanut]

To me GFE is more of DFK, LFK, kissing in general, light touching up and down the body (the type of touching that sends chills throughout the body), the small chit chat that takes your mind away from the rest of the world, and the feeling of intimacy, the feeling that you are her one and only. BBBJ is great but doesnt make or break a GFE time.

[bigtom62]

For me CBJ is a virtual deal breaker. I have only seen one lady that I knew going in that she was CBJ only. We had conversed so long and I felt so close to her that No BJ would not have stopped me from seeing her.
She did treat me like a king and that to me is the real GFE experience.
Lots of ladies could have taken lessons from her. Not in sexual technique, mind you, but rather in "technique" in general.
As I near my retirement in the hobby, BBBJ is the only way I am going to go.
Well, unless I find another like her. LOL
bigtom62

[npita]

Originally Posted by lisa.lisa0302

Interesting thread, so if a provider gives a CBJ, at the gentlemen requests, she is not GFE?

No, but he is not a BFE. Don't leave a tip and mention it when you write his review.

[npita]

Originally Posted by vnurse

I have known some girls that would only give their boyfriends CBJ!

Really? I've heard rumors of such things, but I always thought that was urban legend.

LOL! Of course they probably don't keep them very long! LOL!

Or at least if they do keep them, they'll eventually end up here.

[gameloading]

Originally Posted by pyramider

I still say they need to get away from GFE. For most men the girlfriend experience is what we are trying to avoid. We get sore knees . . . from begging. For many begging is probably akin to foreplay.

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[johnnybax]

they go hand in hand

[ANONONE]

I prefer BBBJ, but if the lady is staunch about CBJ, that is her right. I do think she should let that be known up front during the screening/initial contact as for some it is indeed a deal-breaker.

I have had one or two really good CBJ's, but. . .you have to be an artist to make a CBJ that good.

Ladies, just imagine DATY with us first laying a sheet of latex over your pelvis:

[johnnybax]

Originally Posted by ANONONE

I prefer BBBJ, but if the lady is staunch about CBJ, that is her right. i do think she should let that be known up front during the screening.initial contact as for some it is indeed a deal-breaker.

I have had one or two really good CBJ's, but. . .you have to be an artist to make a CBJ that good.

Ladies, just imagine DATY with us first laying a sheet of latex over your pelvis:

[La Luna]

Hiv, Gonorrhoea, Syphilis, Chlamydia, possible Hepatitis B, Herpes, AND a variety of other bacterial, fungal, viral, parasitic, and protozoal infections.

How very attractive and worth it! (NOT)

[texasjohn1965]

Originally Posted by La Luna

Hiv, Gonorrhoea, Syphilis, Chlamydia, possible Hepatitis B, Herpes, AND a variety of other bacterial, fungal, viral, parasitic, and protozoal infections.

How very attractive and worth it! (NOT)

cheery little thing, aren't ya?

[D-Rock]

To me, GFE and BBBJ are two different things, but do go hand in hand.

GFE is "Girl Friend Experience". To me, that means connecting on an emotional level, or at least a simulated emotional level. She should be glad to see me, give me a big hug, and show some interest in me. Conversation must be part of session. Conversation that leads naturally to sex, and the sex should come naturally. Kissing, hugging and caressing are necessary parts of a GFE experience.

[npita]

Originally Posted by La Luna

Hiv, Gonorrhoea, Syphilis, Chlamydia, possible Hepatitis B, Herpes, AND a variety of other bacterial, fungal, viral, parasitic, and protozoal infections.

How very attractive and worth it! (NOT)

The UCSF Center for Aids Prevention places the risk of contracting HIV as the passive partner in oral sex to be essentially zero.

http://news.ucsf.edu/releases/hiv-in...tudy-confirms/

For evverything else but Hepititis, a condom only provides about 10%-60% increase in protection over no condom, so if you're really concerned about those things, you're kidding yourself if you think a CBJ is all that much safer than a BBBJ.

[Revman]

BBBJ and GFE fan here - Love DFK and LFK, and I'm not totally out if CBJ is the only offer, but I'll admit, I'm probably going to pass over quite a few very sweet and lovely, pretty girls because of that.

I just got back from Vegas, and the standards I found through review sites there were: GFE Lite, GFE, GFE+. GFE++
For instance they represented the CBJ with Kissing/DFK = GFE lite.

I've noticed many, many providers say GFE - which I think they are taking it as CODE for "I go all the way" not so much that it's a session filled with passion, excitement, and lots of non-sensored "untranslated" oral activity. I'm relating this particularly to girls I've searched out on backpage.

I think if a girl choses to actually be GFE, then they have the absolute right to call out YMMV if the dude is not real keen on hygiene.

Personally, I'm a little bit freakish about my hygiene, I do a fair amount of grooming down there, and I like to ensure that my business is very fresh, tasty, uncluttered, and enjoyable to my temporary girlfirend. I think I get alot more mileage as such.

Rev

[La Luna]

I think it's important for everyone to take care of their health and do whatever they have to to protect themselves. And if a condom lowers the risk, then that is a good step to take. The statistics change with things like broken condom, slipped, stuff coming out, wrong size, and so on, people making stupid mistakes with the condom is what leads to fluid exchange and messing the statistics up. A condom is a good idea for risky sexual behavior with multiple partners weather it be for regular, oral, or anal sex. The center for disease control is a good place to do research

http://www.cdc.gov/STD/

I just hope that other girls don't feel bullied into doing things they don't want to or don't feel comfortable with because of the threats that "that's a deal breaker!" There are plenty of guys who will respect your limits ladies. I know the economy is tough right now, but you know what is right for you.

[Taylor Kisses]

i personally only offer cbj because I dont no these people, i dont kn ow what they have done or with whom Im young and always want to be clean. Its just something that makes me nervous. I guess every person has there own likings and things there comfortable with. good thread tho